Hang in there, can I be with her?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There will be no results, the age difference is a hurdle, you don't have a lot of common language, and the girls are young and fickle. More receptive, she has a lot of things you can't do for him except the financial aspect. So you're not going to have a result, forget about her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's similar to my situation.,The girl I like has a colleague chasing.,Later, through her friend, I knew that she didn't like her to chase her colleague.,The landlord is so careful.,I think it's no problem to chase her.,I wish us success Hehe!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    How is a month of persistence?

    It's too short. I want to give up now.

    I don't think you can last long.

    Such a young girl.

    If it's worth cherishing.

    It won't be that easy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Stick with it, do we have results? Whether you want to persist or not is your real problem, analysis: the relationship is not hot, please give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you shouldn't care about the outcome, and if you care too much about the outcome, you're pushing yourself into this vortex.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    。。I don't know. She left herself a lot of ways out. Think about it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are many love that parents oppose, insist on being together, and finally end in tragedy.

    There are many love that parents oppose, those who stick together, and those who are very happy in the end.

    The key to solving the problem of parental opposition is not simply "insisting" to give up in the stool, but what concrete and effective actions the two of you have taken to persevere.

    In short, if the other party's parents do not agree to be with you, the reason is because you have nothing to do, you sleep at home every day, play games when you fail, do not have a long-term stable job, and always fish for three days and dry nets for two days.

    In this case, even if you hold your other half to demonstrate to her parents, hold hands and say "We are true love", then the second elder will feel from the bottom of his heart that "you are the broom star of our family", they worked hard to raise their eldest daughter, why would they fall in love with such a man who has no prospects? If you get married, it will definitely not end well.

    Without the blessing of the parents, and the fact that the main contradictions in the relationship are not resolved, this kind of love will only be sad nine times out of ten.

    On the contrary, when the other party's parents think that "you are not capable or qualified to give her happiness", but you still have a strong fighting spirit and self-motivation in life, and you are trying to prove yourself every day, although you have not achieved much after a few years, you can at least guarantee that "if the other party's daughter marries you, it will not become a burden to you, at least you can live a well-off life in peace".

    If you can do this kind of persistence, even if the other party's parents will not give you a good face, at least they will definitely attend your wedding, which is actually a silent recognition of your relationship.

    The purpose of your insistence is to "solve the problem", not to insist on threatening and forcing the other parent to agree with your so-called true love, as long as you insist on taking effective action, it is only a matter of time before the other parent sees your determination.

    Say a very realistic word: the best way to face insults is not to show weakness, nor to arouse the sympathy of the other party, which will only aggravate the boredom of the other party, the most correct way is to show your true strength, prove yourself, slap the other party's face hard, and let others put away their prejudice against themselves.

    The most terrible thing is: you think that "as long as the other party really loves you", and finally the raw rice is cooked and cooked, the other party's parents can only be forced to agree, and then you live a boring married life with three points and one line, and you don't know what you should pursue, let alone be responsible for each other's future.

    In the end, you will only fail a person who loves you with a rough and dead heart, not only did you not get the blessing of your parents, but also failed the other party's sincerity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you insist on being together, because it is a long-distance relationship with your boyfriend, if you want to fail, one of the two people needs to make concessions, and there is not much need for Danhe to insist. It is impossible to realize the limb socks of the person who thinks that it is not the future.

    If you can't persevere, you must remember to learn to forget, try to persevere, and don't love your boyfriend, instead of just wanting to reap, even if you can't persevere. Whether it's a long place or a long place, you shouldn't insist on it, and you don't love your boyfriend. I don't think it's the one in the future.

    If you insist, if you don't think it's appropriate, you can't stick to it.

    Sleep together before you get married. Keep at it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The opinions of parents should still be listened to, so that they can be happy.

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