The unreasonable troubles of bear children are easy to cause dissatisfaction among everyone, what do

Parents must care more about their children, be sure to ask their children why, and then listen to their children's choices and ideas, don't be too strong, cultivate children's hobbies, praise children, give children enough sense of security, can take children to contact more with nature, and encourage children to make more friends.

I don't think we should just leave him alone, just let him make trouble. When he is tired of crying and making trouble, he will not do it again.

Parents educate bear children to find reasons from themselves, guide children with correct words and deeds, appropriate corporal punishment, communicate more with children, and let children be exposed to positive things.

The education of bear children can not be solved overnight, we need to find reasons from the parents themselves, because many bear children's character development, and the family environment and family education have an extremely important relationship, the doting of the elderly in the family or the parents' department part and the parents' common indulgence, or the parents' rude words and deeds will have an impact on the children in the family, and the children's imitation ability is particularly strong, they make a lot of noise, vexatious, many times are an extension of the parents' behavior.

When the bear child at home is noisy and unreasonable, it is necessary to guide the child with correct words and deeds, and the child must be shut up in time, and the parents must have a certain authority in front of the child, and cannot overindulge them, which should be paid more attention to when the child is young, if he does not develop good habits when he is young, it is very difficult to change when the child is older and finds that the child has become a bear child. Young parents need to learn to say no to their children and not to compromise when their children are crying.

When educating bear children, appropriate promotion can be carried out, but corporal punishment must be moderate, and excessive corporal punishment must not cause harm to the child's body. Let the child be punished, punish him for doing housework, copying homework, etc. can be used as a way to inspire the child, so that the child can learn a lesson, and in the process of receiving punishment, he will not make similar mistakes after knowing that he has made a mistake, and every punishment must have a certain effect. Corporal punishment should not be frequent, as this would make it less of a deterrent.

When the child at home is making a lot of noise, as a parent, you must stay calm, communicate effectively with the child, know why he is doing it, and at the same time let the child know that it is not right to do so, and help the child to correct it. In addition, children should be exposed to positive energy things, especially when children are watching mobile phones and TV, let them watch positive programs, only in this way can they have positive energy and not develop into annoying bear children.

Many netizens believe that in the face of this situation, we should carry out a strict education for these children, and parents can also be aware of the great harm that will be caused by continuing to plant, many people think that if you want to educate this kind of bear child, you must first educate the bear parents, because the behavior of the parents has affected the child.

Now some bear children like to be unreasonable, this is the parents of the child is too pampered, resulting in the child to develop some bad behavior habits, once they find that their requirements are not met will cry, and even in public places do not forgive, this is actually not conducive to the growth of children, and it is not easy to be treated by the people around them, many people are also very annoying for bear children, because not only disobedient, but also affect others.

For bear children must be strictly managed, after all, in the process of children's growth, if parents are too indulgent, may be affected by the outside bad atmosphere, parents must set up good rules for children, and establish a reward and punishment system, if the child listens to the parents, or behaves well in ordinary times, parents can give appropriate encouragement, if the child is found to be always disobedient, and unreasonable, then parents must discipline, and urge the child to change their bad habits.

For bear children, parents should be good at communication, rather than letting children mess around, in fact, many of the children's behavior habits are learned from their parents, parents must first set a good example for their children, show their excellent side in front of their children, and lead by example, and at the same time learn to communicate with children, so as to slowly change some of the children's vices, blindly to children, criticism may be counterproductive, if you use a way to guide the child, it will achieve twice the result with half the effort.

Parents must give bear children clear good rules, that is, to tell children what can and what things can not be done, do not blindly meet the child's requirements, especially when the child is unreasonable, parents must quickly stop, and criticize the child in public, so that the child can realize their own problems, parents should establish a good behavior habit for the child from an early age, if the child is always unreasonable, will not be treated, and ultimately affect the child's future.

Bear children must be very distressed by many parents, but also make many ordinary people very annoying, if you bring bear children to public, but parents don't care, or even let them make noise in public, everyone will be very angry, and there will be a lot of discussion on the side. So, when we encounter these situations, what should we do to effectively alleviate these situations?

When parents do not stop and educate their children, we can first communicate with parents, in fact, this also shows that parents are very lenient in the discipline of their children, if we directly reprimand the children, their parents will definitely be very angry, and will in turn accuse us. So at this time, we should communicate with the parent first and tell him that the child's volume is too loud and has disturbed other people in public.

When we remind the parent for the first time, if he still does not do anything to the child, does not discipline her, or even does not stop her noisy behavior, we can directly stop the bear child. I'm sure there are a lot of people who want to do this, but never dare to do it, because it takes a lot of courage to discipline someone in public. What's more, it's a bear child, because the bear child will be very noisy, when we an outsider to stop him, he may double the noise, and then go to his parents, in fact, at this time we have already reminded his parents.

It is because of his parents' inaction that we discipline the child, so we don't have to think that there is any big problem. As long as you don't behave excessively, I think it's okay, because there are many people who are afraid that they will be scolded by the parents of the bear child, but in fact, as long as we use a reasonable way, I believe that parents can also understand, because we have communicated with parents in advance.

I will reason with the child, and I will also tell the child what to do, so that the child will have a clear understanding, otherwise the child may cry all the time. I will also stabilize my child's emotions.

In such a situation, I will definitely educate the child, I will also tell the child what is the right thing to do, and I will also calm the child's emotions so that the child will not make a lot of noise.

I don't interfere, maybe this is a way of parenting, and no one should interfere in disciplining their children when they are educating them.

I will definitely stay away from bear children, these parents are very irresponsible, and must avoid setting themselves on fire.

The child's eyes will become a bear child, most likely related to the family environment, and the connivance and protection of parents is the reason for the child's willfulness. It's not terrible when facing a bear child, the terrible parent just lets it go, and throws out a sentence of "he's still a child" lightly, such a bear parent is the most difficult to deal with. Because bear children can have room and opportunities for correction, but bear parents are the most difficult to change.

Some bear parents educate their children, even they feel that the child is not at fault, and even ask you with envy and confidence. If you can't help but do something or make some unreasonable responses at this time, not only will you not be able to relieve your anger, but you may also get into unnecessary trouble.

Therefore, when facing such bear children and bear parents, what kind of ways can we take to relieve our anger and not be charged with "child abuse"?

Stay calm and patient first, and don't do anything.

I saw a news before, a terrible scene happened on a bus in Suining City, Sichuan: "A man grabbed a child next to him and fell directly over the shoulder, and then kicked the child's head with his foot." After investigation, it turned out that the man and the little boy had never known each other, but in the process of riding in the car, the little boy next to him kept kicking the man, and the parents next to him ignored it at all.

The man couldn't bear it anymore, so he directly started to educate the bear child, but he shot heavily and got himself into unnecessary trouble. After the incident, the man was controlled by the public security organs and detained for 15 days, and the public security organs said that the man beat a child under the age of 14, and after 15 days, he would be severely punished according to the results of the examination of the little boy's injuries.

When the news was first reported, many netizens shouted "relieved", and the bear children that parents don't want to take care of are finally managed! But the man's behavior was obviously excessive, and he also brought unnecessary trouble to himself, and he may even face prison.

Generally speaking, parents who are too noisy will properly remind their children, if parents don't mention it, or the reminder is useless, or just endure going somewhere else, to be honest, for bear children, bear parents, you don't pretend to be a little bit really not lawful. You can keep staring at him with a blank face and not talking, and after a while he may be furious and stop chattering next to you.

It is the problem of the family of origin, as a parent who did not do his duty to teach his children to learn respect. This is an important lesson, and as for silence, it is also a social phenomenon. After all, children are small on the one hand, and it is also the idea of many people to be embarrassed to remind their children that parents cannot make loud noises in public.

Behind the bear child is the bear parent, when you meet such a bear child, the view is to endure, otherwise what else, parents are around but do not educate and restrain their behavior, passers-by are very powerless.

Most people will turn a blind eye, or, comfort themselves, the child is still young and so on, but this is actually a disguised encouragement to the child, the main responsibility, or the child's parents, do not pay attention, think that their child does not matter, or manage, but the child does not listen, which is more annoying. Every time I take the light rail, I will meet some bear children, noisy, parents don't care, some manage, it's useless, this time is the time for me to shoot, I will stop it loudly, not for anything else, just for, help you teach the child.

In fact, before having a child, I am most afraid that my child will mess around in public, which will not only embarrass the parents, but also affect others. Especially in certain places, such as when taking a plane, taking a train, or queuing, it is not good to be afraid that your child will become a bear child, no matter who you offend.

In fact, a good solution is to tell children in advance about the etiquette they should pay attention to in public. If you talk about it more often, children will pay attention to it, after all, children are not specialized in sabotage.

That's all for that, I hope it will be helpful to your questions!

I will communicate with the parent and tell him to reassure the child, not to make such a noise in public, which will affect other people's rest and work, and will cause great discomfort to others.

In this case, I will definitely stop the child and tell the parents that they should not stop the child, which is not good for the child's growth.

In this case, I will definitely find a theory for parents and tell parents to stop their children and educate them.

The correct way is to lead by example, to be a good example for children, let children follow along, teach children how to behave in the world, how to be a person, let him grow up slowly, be a good child who knows his mistakes and can change, and let him know that he has to take responsibility for everything, don't retreat when he encounters things, that won't work at all, so parents should set a good example for their children, let children know the truth, have the courage to take responsibility for what they have done, don't always retreat, boys and girls should be the same, A child who will only retreat in case of trouble will not be able to make a big deal. Parents are the first and most important teachers of children, when encountering things, children's first thoughts are good or malicious, will they communicate with each other well or solve them with hands, children's personality is optimistic or pessimistic, confident or inferior, what kind of mentality is used to look at the world. Parents' words and deeds are influencing their children, especially aesthetics, values, and worldview.

In today's era, most people will do whatever it takes for profit, and if a parent is mercenary, his child will also be greedy. Parents get along well and treat others politely, and children must learn to respect others. A parent who dotes on his children and abuses others tends to have bad and unloving children.

As a parent, you should be strict with yourself, teach others to correct yourself first, and let positive energy be passed on to your children. Teach your child how to deal with others in an appropriate way. There are also good living habits and more efficient ways to do things.

Of course, a more positive view of money is also essential.