There are two bear children at home, how should you deal with it as a parent?

Bear children make every parent afraid, and what they do is a headache. In response to the national policy, many families have a second or third child, which makes the family atmosphere a lot more lively, but the existence of the problem cannot be ignored. Bear children fight for everything, everything is bigger than people's heads, as a parent if you don't handle it well, the child will have a trouble.

So how should parents deal with bear children?

As a parent, you should balance the relationship between two children, treat each child fairly, and avoid partiality. If there is a preference for one child, it will seriously hurt the relationship between parents and children, affect the relationship between children, and even worse, cause psychological burden and trauma. It is necessary to guide children to live in peace, know how to share with each other, be humble to each other, and train children's communication skills.

Don't ignore your child's development because of a certain defect, and don't compare it in front of your child, which can easily lead to a sense of competition and jealousy between children.

In the process of getting along with two children, quarreling is an indispensable problem, parents should do the correct guidance of teachers, communicate with children attentively, should not use scolding to solve the problem, criticism and education can not fundamentally solve the problem, may also have a negative effect. In the process of getting along with children, there are contradictions and disagreements, parents should leave some space for children, so that children have a correct exchange and communication, do not interfere in everything, children have enough time and space to run in, which is more conducive to the development of children's thoughts and moral development.

As the first teacher of the child, parents should not only teach their children scientific and cultural knowledge, but also teach their children the importance of ideology and morality. According to the proper companionship of the child, the bear child will not appear again. Let the child feel the love and care of his parents, and the child will gradually become peaceful and kind.

I think parents should stop some of their children's behaviors so that they can educate these two children well.

Parents should criticize these bear children harshly, and they should also explain some reasoning to their children, so that children understand that some of their behaviors will have a great impact, and when children do something wrong, they must let them bear the consequences.

I think parents should set rules for their children, so that they can have a good upbringing.

As a parent, you should let the two children play by themselves, and you also need to criticize the children when they are naughty.

If you are a teacher or guardian of a child, it can be a challenging problem to meet the bear child and the bear parent. However, there are a few ways to help you cope with this situation:

Stay calm: When interacting with a bear parent or bear child, it is important to remain calm and rational. Under no circumstances should you react in a drastic or inappropriate manner.

Establish communication: Try to establish a line of communication with the parent or child. Try to listen to them as much as possible and try to understand where they stand.

Remember that everyone has their own difficulties and challenges and should be treated with respect and fairness.

Many children will have a period of bear children when they grow up to a certain age, and children at this stage will have a lot of bad symptoms, such as not listening to their parents, often making trouble, at this time, parents mustTake effective measures quicklyGive your child the right guidanceHelp your child get rid of his or her bad habitsThis is very beneficial to the child's future growth, and you must not sit idly by and let the child develop like this.

Many parents will be very impatient when their children are unreasonable, and go up directly to yell at their children impatiently, which is not good for the growth of children, not only does not play the role of educating children that parents want, but also is likely to make children more rebellious, as parents, must be able toUnderstand what is really going on in your child's mind, why there is a rebellious phenomenon, parents should be calmCommunicate with your childOn the basis of understanding and respecting the child, tell the child the right and wrong, and let the child make independent judgments, so that he can truly understand what should be done and what should not be done.

The child's vexatious is essentially a kind of emotional venting, at this time parents may also be impetuous because of the child's crying, when the child and the parents are not calm, parents mustAvoid conflict with your child, can take the method of cold treatment,Calm yourself and your child downAfter that, when you communicate, you can not only make yourself more reasonable and convincing to your children, but also make communication more efficient, and there will be no secondary family conflicts due to improper communication.

When the child is in a rebellious period and is often unreasonable,Parents should set an example, let him understand what is the right way to deal with problems, and set an example in behavior, againPlus verbal edification, so that the child can understand the parents' intentions for him, so that he understands that his rebellion will hurt others, which is an incorrect performance.

Parents should give their children some rules, if the child is particularly naughty, parents can solve it by force, let the child know that it is wrong to do such a thing, but also to leave a deep impression on the child, so that the child will not dare to do it again in the future.

Acceptance does not mean that parents have to swallow their anger and tolerate their children's bad temper, but learn to deal with their children's tantrums scientifically. The first thing parents should do is not to distinguish between right and wrong, let alone teach their children's behavior to be wrong, but to let their children vent their emotions, and then help them recognize the correct emotional behavior and establish emotional self-control after the children are calm.

Standardize your child's life and every move of your child, so that your child will become a very smart person and a very self-disciplined person.

Communicate more with your children, standardize your children, and make more life plans and study plans for your children, so that your children will become a very good person.

Today I will give you a wonderful phenomenon! Have you ever met cute and mischievous bear children and their parents? Don't be afraid, teach you how to deal with it so that you can be at ease, become a kind-hearted beast tamer, and let them be obedient!

1.Admission must-have].

Peace of mind is urgently needed! Whether it is a bear child or a bear parent, treat them well and be calm in order to win the war.

2.Gentle communication].

Brush your face with the flowers of words, let them hear your voice and feel your kindness. Be tactful and firm, express your wishes and make them understand your expectations.

3.Magical Magic].

Uncover your box, take out a handful of magic candy and transform it into joyful energy. What bear children like most is to play, and bear parents care most about their children's happiness. Create fun games that let them actively cooperate and stop being trick-or-treating.

4.Guiding the way].

Don't let them get lost in the noisy jungle. You are the guiding light! Use simple and easy-to-understand language and patiently guide them to the right path. Spark their curiosity and turn learning into an amazing adventure.

5.Feel the resonance of laughter].

For bear children and bear parents, understanding is the best glue. Find resonance at different age levels, share your story of growing up, and make them feel cared for and understood.

6.Persistence and encouragement].

The mission of the Kind-Hearted Beast Tamer is not achieved overnight! Every step of progress is commendable, and every step of persistence should be affirmed. Encourage them, let them feel the joy of progress, and strengthen their path to the sun.

7.Summary and outlook].

When you teach a bear child, you sow a seed for the whole society. Your efforts don't just affect them

The reason why the child becomes a bear child is most likely related to the family environment, and the connivance and protection of parents is the reason for the child's willfulness. It's not terrible when facing the children of the bear tree, and the terrible parents just let it go.

To put it mildly, "he's still a child", such a bear parent is the most difficult to deal with. Because bear children can have room and opportunities for correction, but bear parents are the most difficult to change.

Some of the children educated by the parents of the bears, even they feel that the children are not at fault, and even ask you confidently.

If you can't help but do something or make some unreasonable responses at this time, not only will you not be able to relieve your anger, but you may also get into unnecessary trouble. Therefore, when facing such bear children and bear parents, what kind of ways can we take to relieve our anger and not be charged with "child abuse"?

Stay calm and patient first, and don't do anything. I saw a news before, a terrible scene happened on a bus in Suining City, Sichuan: "A man grabbed a child next to him and fell directly over the shoulder, and then kicked the child's head with his foot.

It was found after investigation.

It turned out that the man and the little boy had never known each other, but during the ride, the little boy next to him kept kicking the man, and the parents next to him ignored him at all. The man couldn't bear it anymore, so he directly started to educate the bear child, but he shot heavily and got himself into unnecessary trouble.

After the incident, the man was controlled by the police and detained for 15 days, and the police said that the man beat a child under the age of 14, and after 15 days, he would be punished according to the law according to the results of the boy's injuries. Many netizens shouted "relieved", and the bear children that parents don't want to care about are finally managed! The man's behavior was clearly excessive, and he also caused unnecessary trouble for himself, and could even face the disaster of being imprisoned.