The harm of sleeping with parents at the age of 10, and the harm of sleeping with the father of a 10

Both men and women should sleep alone at the age of 10.

A boy is still a daughter.

It is normal for children to sleep with their parents from birth, but some children are still very dependent on their parents when they grow up, and they always like to sleep with their parents. But in fact, this is not right, for example, if a girl is ten years old and still sleeps with her father, there will be some harm. The following is a detailed introduction to the dangers of a ten-year-old girl sleeping with her father.

The dangers of a 10-year-old girl sleeping with her father are as follows:

1. Girls may be overly dependent on their fathers, and will look for their fathers no matter what they encounter or what problems they encounter. But it is impossible for a father to accompany his daughter for a lifetime, and the daughter will always have to grow up, and sooner or later she will need to be independent and have her own marriage and family. At the same time, this will also make the mother feel lost, feeling that her daughter only needs her father.

2. It may have an impact on the child's view of love, because if the child sleeps with his father all the time, if he continues like this for a long time, the relationship between himself and his father will be distorted ideologically, and there will be a father-love plot. In her daughter's subconscious, she regards her father as her marriage partner, and when she chooses a partner in the future, she will only look for older men.

Parents should pay attention to the fact that their daughters are already gender conscious when they are four or five years old, so they can sleep in separate beds with their fathers at this time, and the latest time to separate beds cannot exceed 7 years old.

The dangers of a 10-year-old boy sleeping with his parents.

1. Affect the relationship between husband and wife.

The most obvious harm of children sleeping with their parents is that it will affect the normal marital life of both husband and wife, because the children are in the middle, so the couple can only choose to give up sexual life, and in the long run, it will directly affect the normal life of both husband and wife, and in serious cases, it will also cause the consequences of family breakdown.

2. Cause precocious puberty in children.

With the gradual development and growth of children, children will slowly have normal sexual consciousness, if they sleep with their parents for a long time, it will not only cause a mother-love complex and father-love plot, but also induce children to have precocious puberty, which seriously affects the healthy growth of children.

3. Poor independence of children.

Children sleeping with their parents will also directly affect the child's character development, children who sleep with their parents for a long time will have more serious dependence, and the vast majority of children will be too squeamish and poor independence, so parents should no longer think that it is for the good of the child, for the healthy growth of the child must sleep in separate beds as soon as possible.

When to sleep in a separate bed with your child.

So here comes the question, many parents have asked this question, since you want to sleep in a separate bed with your child, when is the best time to sleep in a separate bed with your child? According to experts, the best time for children to sleep in separate beds is after the age of 3, and children at this stage have entered a stage of incubation period, so parents choose to separate beds at this time, which is not only easy but also very healthy for children's physical and mental development.

How to sleep in a separate bed with your child.

1. The layout of the room.

First of all, parents may wish to take their children to decorate their new room and decorate some of the things that children like, so as to meet the needs of children's independence psychologically, and also provide a good sleeping environment for children.

2. Bedtime stories.

Parents can also put some sleep stories or put some soothing ** before the child goes to bed, which can help the child to fall asleep quickly, and parents can wait for the child to fall asleep before leaving.

3. Open the door.

If the child feels scared at first, you can open the door, so that the child will feel more secure and feel that he is still in the same room with his parents, and the child will be able to sleep independently after a few days.

4. Be ruthless.

Many parents are reluctant to sleep in separate beds with their children because they are too soft-hearted, and sometimes they give up the idea when they see their children crying and making trouble.

Hello is not good, the main thing is that the child is already older, so it should be separated from the parents, so it should be good for the child's growth.

Yes, but it is still necessary to gradually develop his independence, such as the reward of sleeping alone, etc.