What should I do when I hear what my parents are doing?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-22
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What to do? You don't have to do anything.

    First, your parents are legally husband and wife, and it is natural for a legitimate husband and wife to do that.

    Second, it is your blessing that your parents can still do that thing, which means that they are in good health and good feelings, and hearing what your parents do is better than them being sick and unable to get up, right? It's better than hearing them arguing, right?

    Third, you need to learn to leave a little privacy for your parents, for example, after dinner, go out for an hour, give them an undisturbed environment to do that, and then go home when they are done.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Mom and Dad are doing something, so it's best for you to stay away and ignore it, as if you haven't heard it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Pretend not to hear it, this kind of thing is a very private and private thing, so if you know it, you just don't know.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In this case, you'd better stay away, and your parents don't make any mistakes, it's normal.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It looks like you're old and sensible, and it's better for your parents to be far away from this kind of thing, and not to squeak, and not to embarrass them, and to live with a son and daughter, it's better to pretend that you don't know.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I saw it. As if nothing had happened.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    When you hear your parents doing that kind of thing, it's good to understand it yourself, and don't make a noise.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think if you hear me, go away, don't tell them, lest he be embarrassed.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good and can bring fun to your life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Use earplugs, or put **, as long as the sound can drown out that sound. If that doesn't work, settle down, shift your attention and focus on your breathing.

    You can also vaguely remind your parents, just say that the house is not well insulated, there are people walking around in the corridor, and you can hear it clearly at home, and I believe your parents will pay attention to it next time.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If this really happens, it will be uncomfortable, and it will be very embarrassing, my advice is that if you have a lot of rooms in your home, then it is recommended to move to another room that is not next to each other to live, if your home is a living room with two rooms, then I suggest you go and buy some soundproofing materials back and install them on the wall, which may cost a little more, depending on your choice.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can remind your parents by hinting, such as hinting that the footsteps upstairs sound so clear, in this case, your parents will most likely understand, if not, it is recommended that you bring earplugs and close the door to sleep.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Try not to listen and focus your attention on something else.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The next day, I asked my parents for money to buy an AirPods Pro....

    The reason for this is that the noise cancellation is powerful.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can hint at the parents, the voice is a little quieter.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you can change places, change places, and if you can't, just endure it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is an important part of the daily life of all parents! It's normal, it's just that your parents are too careless to pay attention! The only right thing to do about this is to stay silent, act as if you didn't hear anything, and then adjust your mindset and focus on doing your own things like studying.

    When I grow up or enter the society, I will naturally understand and tolerate their troubles. However, for now, if you have the conditions in your home, you can separate the room from them. As the saying goes, if you don't hear it, you don't get upset.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do they move a lot? You can go to bed early.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is actually very normal, and it will be like this after you get married, this is a manifestation of parental affection, although it will be a little embarrassing, don't break it, relax your mind.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Jumping on his feet to make a fire, it's useless to find a way to disgust them.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have to tell your parents that I have grown up and know some things about adults, and you have to avoid me if you want to do that.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because you haven't experienced it yourself, it feels very disgusting, and you just see the problem from your own perspective. It's best to learn more about this area and improve your cognition.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is this situation that you came to this world, this is a natural instinct of human reproduction, I don't know how old you are, and you will have common sense of physiology and hygiene when you go to middle school.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is something that every couple does, and you should take it lightly and understand it a little. They themselves should also be aware of the impact.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I'm going to be annoyed to death, no matter how loving I am, don't come here once a day or night, and I deliberately turned up my phone loudly, I was really angry, I was so angry that I didn't respect me at all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Isn't it a normal need?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Pretend not to know, continue to sleep in your sleep, sleeping in a separate room has a big impact, so I proposed to my parents that the house is not soundproofed, and change to a bedroom far away from their room.

    If you don't have the conditions, you can only endure it, anyway, it's just for a while.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    This is not good. Are you an adult? Don't you have another room in the house? Now the conditions are good. You can have separate rooms. You can also bring some earplugs and other Dingxi when you sleep. You can also talk to your mom secretly.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It seems that the sound insulation at home is not very good, in fact, sex education is relatively late in China, most of them are not, if there are some simple explanations of biology textbooks, sex education is a course that everyone should go to now, and the course will give everyone an in-depth understanding of sex.

    When you hear your parents, you can talk to them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    What's there to say about this, wash and sleep.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You'll be like that when you grow up, don't you know.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you can understand and know what happened between your parents, it means that you are not young, and you should know that this is a very, very normal process of human development and physiological needs, and what can you do if you hear it, smart people will not ask this question, let alone what should be done, but can only say that 99% of people will choose to turn a blind eye and continue to sleep as if nothing happened!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you are over 18 years old, you can get up and ask them what they are talking about, and come up with ideas for them to share a little sorrow, if you are still young, you can go to bed obediently, and don't trouble them.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    The sound insulation of the wall of my house is not good, there is a small opening in the door, and when I hear some sounds while watching TV, I think it's not a good thing to be too curious, and I secretly look at the hole ......

    Stunned. Originally, I pushed the door but locked it, and then I heard it occasionally, but it was good to be smart and continue to sleep.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You just pretend you didn't hear it, and it's reasonable for your parents to have a relationship.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This is very normal, most people have encountered it, just pretend to be asleep.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't worry about the affairs of adults, just treat it as if nothing happened!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    This is normal after you get married.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Go up and listen to it, and use it later.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Rest assured, it's just psychological.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Judging from your description, you have heard your parents in that for the last few days in a row, which has left you with poor rest and physical and mental exhaustion. Because you've grown up and your parents may not have noticed, I think you can tell your mom about it. If you don't say it directly, it's okay to hint at him.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    When you grow up, it's natural to know, don't think about it, it's something that every parent has, you don't deliberately pay attention, sleep well at night. That's it.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Buy yourself earplugs for sleeping.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's a kind of awkward question. You can secretly talk to your father about this. The impact is not good.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Then go to bed early and wake up early.

    Or you can wear headphones and earbuds. Stuffed paper towels will also work.

    If you're brave enough, ask your parents to pay attention.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    In the past few days, I have heard my parents in a row, except for yesterday, it has been two days, what to do, my mind is full of cranky thoughts, what to do, so noisy? 467

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Are you a boy or a girl? How old is it? Is the sound insulation so bad?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Here's a suggestion for the subject::

    Communicate with your parents and try to be as secretive as possible.

    Do soundproofing. Be self-reliant early and move out.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    You can give a tactful reminder to your parents. If you're older, you can go out and rent a house on your own. After all, it's normal for your parents to live as a couple.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    You're a man, aren't you? Actually, it's normal! I think.

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