I m five months pregnant, and my boyfriend doesn t want to give 100,000 dowry

If you don't want to give a bride price, then forget it, right? Maybe his family's economic conditions don't allow it, understand each other, anyway, you are pregnant, then you have to live better, it is impossible to break up and have a miscarriage for the 100,000 yuan, it's not worth it.

This is your own problem, you don't know self-esteem, self-respect and self-love, what can you do now that you are pregnant? If you bet on your child for the 100,000 yuan bride price, can you get rid of the child? Think about it, if you are a boy and a girl is pregnant, and you have to marry you, and you can't marry if you give money, why do people give you money?

Think about it yourself, in order to ask for money, is it okay for you to threaten him with your child? Give it a try.

No. 1. Empty gloves white wolf.

When I mentioned the bride price to him, I said "sell my daughter", even if he asked him to give a little money, it would not work. This kind of empty glove white wolf practice should be cautious, not only will he calculate you, but it is estimated that the other party's parents will secretly teach him to take you to secretly get a license, get pregnant, etc. In this way, when talking about the bride price, they will have an advantage, and this kind of person cannot marry.

2. Limited by family background.

If the man buys a house or his parents are seriously ill and hospitalized, causing financial strain on the family, or the family is not in the first place. After proposing such a high bride price, it is inevitable that you will be angry and say that you will not give it, but you still want to rely on your own efforts to fight for it. At this time, it is necessary to leave him a certain amount of time to see if it is reliable and worthy of trust.

1. Two people really want to live with each other, and the starting point is a small family. Whether it is gnawing at the old or self-reliant, we must start from the new family to avoid differences between the two first.

2. Get your own parents, if you have any requirements, discuss them yourself first and then communicate with your parents, don't waver.

3. Combined with the actual economic situation of the two families, consider what needs to be bought, what can be given up and what to be, how much is the bride price, how much is the dowry, how much is the house, the car, the three golds, etc., and so on, and the premise is to respect the local wedding customs of both parties, and prefer to focus on the woman.

4. Be calm when talking about marriage, don't tear your face easily! If you really decide that the other party thinks the other party is worth marrying, the appropriate concession will not make you lose anything.

In this case, you will need to negotiate with both parents, after all, the bride price involved is not a small amount.

The boyfriend asked for a bride price of 100,000 yuan and refused to give it. This is also a reflection of the problems of society. However, a boyfriend asks for a 100,000 dowry, which is a bit unusual.

Because the bride price is too much, and your boyfriend can't come up with so much money, your wedding will be deadlocked. When you get along, do you know his family situation, whether his family is rich or poor, if his family is very rich, then this matter is his fault, maybe for some reason he doesn't want to take out the money, or maybe when you first talked, the man didn't agree.

If his family is very poor, then 100,000 bride price is a lot of money for him, if he really wants to come up with 100,000 bride price, it is equivalent to letting their family smash the pot and sell iron to marry you, if it is for this reason, you can discuss it with your boyfriend, or you can slow down the bride price a little, at least so that the man can accept it, if it has been such a stalemate, which trillion is also a blow to your feelings.

In fact, in today's society, how many couples have parted ways in the end because of the bride price, some people don't want to take it, but they really can't take it, you can't ask a man to borrow money to marry you, then this foreign debt still needs you to repay. There are also some people who don't want to take this money, thinking that it is not worth it, and this is indeed the case, some people get married, the bride price is less than tens of thousands, and more than hundreds of thousands, is this marrying a daughter or selling a daughter, besides, maybe marrying another woman doesn't cost money at all, why does he spend hundreds of thousands to marry you? Anyway, the current marriage is also unstable, and maybe when it will be regretted.

So, in my opinion, if you really love your boyfriend, don't worry about the bride price, his money is not your money in the end, why make a fuss about the bride price? In fact, most women ask for a bride price because of their parents' opinions, they just want to leave some pension money for themselves.

Now many lovers like to live together, but after living together and do not do a good job of protective measures, they will get pregnant unexpectedly, and after the girl is pregnant, she will naturally talk about marriage, but at this time, some in-laws will think about not giving a bride price, what should I do?

1. Inform your parents and seek help from your parents

Many girls dare not tell their parents after they are pregnant, feeling that they are ashamed, in fact, this is not right, after all, their parents have experienced a lot of things and can help themselves. Even if you make a mistake, your parents will forgive you.

2. Communicate well with your boyfriend and don't make your own decisions:

Since the cohabitation is pregnant, it is natural to discuss the matter of marriage, the matter of the bride price can be discussed, and the girl should not open her mouth widely, listen to her boyfriend's opinion first, and see if you can take a step back from each other.

3. Have a boyfriend have the determination and ability to get married:

If the other party doesn't want to get married, then naturally the child can't be wanted, if the two people have no ability to get married, or no economic income at all, then the ability to raise a child naturally is even less, so don't want this child as soon as possible.

4. Don't grieve yourself, the bride price still needs a little:

We all know that once you are not married, a girl's pregnancy will put the girl in a very passive position, and the in-laws feel that the girl has no choice and does not pay a bride price, in fact, it is not a bad core and respects her own performance.

5, if the boy's character is not good, break up, eight catties of chrysanthemum:

Even if he is pregnant, but the boy has no assertiveness, he only lets himself bear it alone, and completely obeys the arrangement of his parents, which means that the boy does not like to go to himself at all, and it is better to let go as soon as possible.

6. Buy a lesson and be more responsible for yourself

If you insist on asking for a bride price, and the man just doesn't pay the bride price, or gives very little, and doesn't consider his feelings at all, then you should buy a lesson for yourself.

If two people who were originally in a good relationship broke up because of the bride price when they were talking about marriage, it would be really embarrassing. At this time, if you don't want to let go and want to save the other party, I personally think that you can start to solve the problem from the following aspects:

1. Think about whether you can accept the bride price standard set by the other party?

Before redeeming the other party, you must first clarify your own attitude, whether you can accept the bride price standard set by the other party? If not, how far can you regress? If so, how do you plan to persuade your parents?

Only when you have figured out your mind and the number of things you want to go next can you come up with a good charter. If you don't know what you want, then you definitely can't persuade your girlfriend to come back.

2. How to try to convince parents to do this?

If you are able to accept the bride price offered by the woman, then you should try to convince your parents to agree to the request. In the eyes of the parents, their son is so good, and the woman's family puts forward such a high bride price request, which is intolerable to ordinary people. At this time, you can talk to your parents a little more and talk about how you plan to earn more bride price.

Parents may be willing to let go and give so much dowry when they feel sorry for you. After all, you're their treasure.

3. How to convince the woman and her parents?

If you really can't get so much dowry at once, then you can mention it to the woman and her parents tactfully, and the other party is not unforgiving. After all, you have been together for so long, then you must have a certain understanding of each other's family background. If their demands are really excessive, then they naturally want you to break up; But if their demands are just excessive, and they are still within the first circle of Fan Yushu that you can accept, then you have to work hard to fight for it, communicate and negotiate with the other party well.

At this time, you must have a good attitude, and the reason you say must be strong, so that the other party can also learn to look at the problem from your point of view. Feelings are rare, don't hurt two hearts that love each other because of money!

What does it mean that the man wants the woman's bride price? Dream on.

Legal Analysis: Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained that it falls under the following circumstances: (1) the parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities; (2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together; (3) Payments made before marriage and causing hardship to the payor.

Legal basis: Article 1042 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China prohibits arranged marriages, buying and selling marriages and other acts that interfere with the freedom of marriage. It is forbidden to solicit money or property under the pretext of marriage.

Bigamy is prohibited. It is forbidden for a spouse to cohabit with another person. Domestic violence is prohibited.

Abuse and abandonment between family members are prohibited.

I don't think I should say yes, because I've only known each other for 4 months, and I'm not sure if I'm going to get married, and I've had too little time to fall in love and can't clearly understand the details of my girlfriend, so don't blindly promise to things that don't work out.

I don't think you should agree, because the bride price is too expensive, and you've only known each other for 4 months, and you're not familiar with each other, what if it's **?

I don't think you really love each other, there's no need to say yes, after all, you haven't known each other for a long time.