What if living by my husband s side is a torment, a torment?

If living by her husband's side is a torment, a torment. Then leave and choose the life you like to live. If you are unhappy in this marriage, you are not happy.

Words that feel tormented and devastated in their body, mind, and heart. Break away from the barrier. FYI.

If you feel that living by your husband's side is a torment and a torture, then you need to leave to find your own happiness. Living depressed every day will definitely harm your health. Two people need to understand each other, be considerate of each other, and care for each other.

If living by your husband's side is a torment and a kind of torture, then you should choose to end this marriage, because in this relationship, you live unhappily and unhappily, and let your body and mind be so tormented and destroyed, then choose to end it, get out, don't be with him, and live the life you want.

The two of them should breathe the same breath and share the same fate! Communicate with each other, be considerate of each other, and tolerate each other! If you feel a kind of torment and torture together, it is better to divorce, marry freely, divorce freely, and find your own happiness!

It's very simple, just leave and live your own life. Life is short, you must be happy to live, and you must not wronged yourself.

If it cannot be changed or accepted, it is recommended to break it when it is broken; If it is for the sake of the child and can repair the relationship, it is recommended to consider it carefully.

Stop loss in time and leave quickly.

Take it easy, don't listen to what others say, in reality, there are a few people who will make DNA for their children, very few. So there is also a disadvantage to watching too many TV series, that is, it is easy to be cranky, you are irritable all day long, and your husband will think about it. So you can live how you want, what should come will always come, it's useless for you to be afraid, as long as you keep your mouth shut, the chance of your husband knowing is almost zero.

If you feel guilty, tell him the truth, after all, it's easy to tell a lie, but it's hard to tell a lie for a lifetime! What's more, you don't want to lie, and you live a very hard life every day. If he will forgive you, you can still be a good family.

If I can't forgive you, then at least you have a clear conscience.

There are countless lies to tell a lie, so honesty is the best solution. Maybe you don't want to lose your current stability, but if you keep lying, you will face the storms of life one day.

In this case, it is best not to have a real thing happening, if it happens one day, then it will be a serious blow between you, so at this time you should think about how to do it, try to reduce it to the lowest point, and you yourself should know how to do it.

The child is not my husband's, and I am tormented every day. If not. The child is not born to your husband, so what is the relationship between the two of you? Should. Be honest with him. Don't always be in torment, living like this unhappy.

Every day is in torment, but there is no way, you can only spend every day in torment, because if you tell your husband, your marriage may be broken immediately.

Sooner or later, it will be exposed, it is better to explain it early, and it will cause little harm to children and adults.

No one can know how to do this kind of thing, so the consequences are serious, so you should think carefully about how to minimize the damage.

In fact, I think this kind of thing is the most unforgivable. Don't change your principles for him, so you're tormented right now. In fact, you and you can't let go of this matter, and you may forgive it for various reasons.

The path is your own choice, and it's not too late to regret it. The important thing is that you know if you're making the right decision.

Some people say that the prodigal son does not change his money, and some people can't change the dog to eat, this depends on your own inner thoughts, how to think, there must be a period of suffering, after all, he is sorry for you, and it is he who dyes your love a little color. It depends on his attitude.

That's not forgiving. If you can't let go, you'll be uncomfortable all the time. Instead of being uncomfortable all the time, you have to reconsider whether you can continue to be together.

If you can't, don't hesitate; If you still have to be together again, then you have to learn to really forgive him yourself, which belongs to changing your personality, and I personally think it's a bit difficult.

No man is born wise or learned. Now that you have forgiven him, you must accept everything he has again.

Leave him with the first and the second. The third time. Don't believe that men's remorse is all fake!! Women should live for themselves, there is no need to live under others!

'Isn't there a saying, calling a cheating man is like that falls on money, and it's a pity not to pick it up if it's disgusting.

That's for sure, time will heal your wounds, but trust will definitely be greatly reduced!

One injury, a lifetime scar! What can I do? Look at his performance, just that time, slowly forget to forgive him, dare to commit it again, and never tolerate it!

Husband and wife should be considerate of each other, for the sake of this family, you should learn to be tolerant, he knows that it is good to repent.

If he sincerely admits his mistake and does not make it again, you will slowly forget about it, and stop tormenting yourself and the person you still love and the home that belongs to you for this matter!

Leave him for a while and go out to travel and relax.

Sometimes, guilt is the best way to maintain a relationship.

You have to learn to let go completely, otherwise, this kind of torment will accompany you for the rest of your life. There is only one way to completely let go, you also go out of the wall, but you have to keep a low profile, on the premise that it does not affect your family and marriage. You've tried it before you can really forgive and let go.

If you still love him? He and himself should be given a chance.

Noble people can't be like immortals, be kind to themselves, and after a long time, they will fade.

See if it improves over time, and if it is as usual, it can only be divided.

Rather than being uncomfortable yourself, it's better to cut through the mess quickly and find another one in a chic way.

Everyone makes mistakes, maybe it's an accident! Maybe it's because I've drunk too much!

What happened to your husband? If you're really unhappy, get a divorce.

I'm just like you. Before that, my husband was really good to me, the kind that seemed super nice to outsiders. But all of a sudden, they quarreled over a trivial matter, and then he told me that life couldn't go on, and he had someone outside and wanted a divorce!

I was determined to divorce and marry the woman (who also had family children). No matter how the parents persuaded them, they just didn't listen, and even said to the girl, I don't want children and parents, and I can take the girl's child as my own child. I was really shocked to hear this, my son is 6 years old, and he brought it up.

For the sake of a woman, I don't even want a son. Now that we have talked about it, he said that he can't forget her, he can't let go of her, he loves her, and he only has family affection with me. You can not get a divorce, but you have to give him half a year, but I can't care about anything about him during this half a year, and I can't ask.

Including if he doesn't come back at night or what to do, I can't ask anyway. Will I be able to hold on?

Evade! If you want to practice, you can practice at home, and now in this state, there are two paths that can be taken, and whoever leaves and who can't live is completely torturing yourself.

Silly girl, why punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

In fact, it's not worth thinking about it, whoever leaves can't live, you say yes.

If you want to practice, just do it at home, recite the Heart Sutra to your husband, untie the mantra, and see if you can dissolve it.

Yesterday I saw a joke: a husband and wife quarreled very badly, the woman wanted to drink pesticides to commit suicide, but she couldn't unscrew the lid, she turned to the man and said: Husband, I can't open it. (I want to say that you yourself are not independent, and you still consider whether to spend money on divorce and fall to your knees.)

It doesn't cost anything. Let's go to Mount Emei.

What happened? If I can't get along with my husband and he treats me badly, I will definitely get divorced.

What's the situation, that aspect can't satisfy you.

That will be tired of being with a lover, this kind of woman has no conscience.

When I was really with my lover, I regretted it again.

I want to be tired of being with my male lover.

If you die like this, then the people on earth will almost die.

Teeth and tongue are still fighting, are you not eating and talking again?

I know the customs of your side, and we have them here, but it's just a traditional idea.

And what you're doing is -- you're gone, the old man is going to be an empty nester, and if you're with the old man, you're separated from your husband.

So if your proposition is true -- you can really hide from everything, then your parents are still empty nesters, and your husband is still a single person, and you could have satisfied at least one of you, but now you won't be happy, and both the old man and your husband will blame themselves and feel guilty, and that will only make everyone miserable.

If you love your family, you can't do that.

Then let's look at your concerns.

Since he is leaving, there must be his reasons, for example, he has acquaintances and connections, so what is his development for? Is he making money for himself or for a family? If he just wants to be in the family, then he is just avoiding your parents and competing with himself, which is too naïve!

If he's making money to make your life better, then he shouldn't be gone, would you be stupid with him?

Making money is to make the family happy, and if he is making money and destroying the family, then why is he making money?

If you leave your parents to complain at most, what will happen to this rich son-in-law?

And I've already analyzed the psychology of this son-in-law, and for the most part, he's just angry, feeling unfair about being in the eyes of others, trying to prove his abilities, just temporarily immature, and you should find a way to communicate with him, not run away, that won't solve anything, just impose your so-called happiness on someone else - your parents have no daughter, and your husband can't prove himself.

The authorities are fascinated bystanders Qing I know you must be very conflicted Life with three splints is not easy Most of the married people are like this Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read.

It's not a big deal about your little thing, if you really can't figure it out, you can consult a column in Shanghai - Aunt Bai Wanqing, the new bride's uncle, or consult a psychologist.

I wish you a speedy escape from this status quo.

Don't blame these evil customs, these are all self-inflicted, now recruit more sons-in-law and two-ended, fly to be stereotyped in your house, as long as he lives with you and does not dislike you, he will not dislike your parents, you still go to his side first to settle down, and then take over your parents can also live, the key is that the two of you live, you are not with your parents and his parents for a lifetime, for them it is just your obligation to respect some children. Hurry up.

And this custom, really. You can go to your husband's place and come back to see your parents when you have time, or take them to your husband's place of work to live together. Strange, a living person can still suffocate urine? 243135021 have time to talk about it in detail.

I hate this custom, I think your parents should be able to understand you, parents want their children to live well, what's wrong with you leaving, how can you say that there is no queen, you and your husband's future children are not the grandchildren of your parents, isn't it their blood, so don't hesitate to do anything, do what you think, don't let others control your thoughts, not your own decision, you will inevitably regret it in the future, this is my opinion, you refer to the reference, I hope you can have a good future.

== To be honest, you are older than me, but I don't know if I should scold you a few words, life is nothing more than the word "profit" Of course, the stakes here involve more than just money and feelings There is morality, filial piety, and loyalty People are relative relationships I don't know if you have enough "courage" and "ability" to give infinitely, if you can't, when you keep suffering your pain is your own But do you think of your parents' pain?

Someone said that filial piety is not nature, I think filial piety is nature and the most appropriate nature, and love is not nature, love is an extension of sex.

In short, I can't give you a very reasonable suggestion, but I hope you will remember the phrase "Do you think this is right?" Right! Then you can do it!

Because it's your own decision, and even if you fail, it's your own willingness. If you feel right and don't do it, then you don't even respect yourself, can you still get your husband's respect? ”

I don't think it's better to have too much burden psychologically, because thinking too much about things will kill a lot of brain cells.

Go your own way and let others say go. The best policy: find a suitable career for your husband in his hometown. Zhong Ce: Go to your husband's side and teach your husband and children. Strategy: Divorce and remarry.