Why haven t I been in touch for a few days, and my emotional road is so bumpy?

If you talk to the object a few times, it doesn't go well. Then you should think about what caused the effect. If you have your own reasons, then you should seriously improve it.

Because you can't change others, you can only change yourself. That is, to strive to take your destiny into your own hands.

Because the relationship is a matter of two people, one person's unilateral contribution is not reciprocated, and it needs to be maintained together.

If you feel that the person you are talking to has not been in touch for several days, you can actually take the initiative yourself, you take the initiative to contact, and if he still does not respond to you, delete it quickly.

Love is often shoulder to shoulder, when two people just met, each other has no feelings, this is the easiest time to lose the other party, because both sides have no emotion for each other, such as one party at this time and contact one, he thinks more suitable than you, then you are marginalized, this is what you said, a few days without contact, it is estimated that he has found someone else, in love, if you like each other, you should take the initiative to seize the opportunity, otherwise the opportunity will be caught by others. After all, good men and women in society are still very strong.

It's hard to say, maybe your personality is not suitable. Or there may be a misunderstanding in the relationship that has not been resolved.

It's not that your emotional road is bumpy, it's that you haven't met the right person.

Take a look at this article to see if that's the case.

Love goes through the following four stages:

The first stage: coexistence (sweet period).

The love that has just begun, full of beautiful fantasies about each other, feels that he is your true destiny, and he also thinks that you are the girl he has been looking for.

At this time, I can't see each other's shortcomings, I feel that the other party is the most suitable person for myself, I will feel that I am the happiest person in the world, I can't wait to be together every day, there are endless topics to talk about, there is an endless road, as long as I can be with each other, I feel extremely satisfied and happy.

The second stage: anti-dependence (contradictory latency).

Under the vigorous secretion of hormones, they will have a stronger interest in each other, and if the relationship between two people reaches the point of glue, it is also very likely to surpass the last step and have a deeper relationship.

The third stage: suspicion (conflict-prone period).

If the relationship between two people is not well coordinated, they will begin to be indifferent, and even use cold violence to solve problems from time to time, you will be disgusted that the other party interferes too much in their lives, once he cared about you in every detail, and at this time you will only feel that he is annoying, and you will feel that he does not trust you. Therefore, this period of time is the most appropriate time to think about whether it is suitable for marriage, marriage is very different from love, it is necessary to operate, unmarried couples at this time it is best to charge a little charge, read more books, the more authoritative is the University of Minnesota "Oak Premarital Relationship Test Scale", think about the eight elements of marriage quality he mentioned, from the relationship between relatives and friends, sex life, sharing and communication, personality compatibility, conflict resolution methods, financial management, children's education eight factors to judge your post-marital quality, What needs to be improved? These are very beneficial to your relationship and marriage, remember one sentence, a woman in this life, marrying the wrong person is sad!!

The fourth stage: symbiosis (stable phase).

If you have gone through the previous three stages, then I want to congratulate you, at this stage your love has risen to affection, your relationship pattern has been formed, you are together to support each other, and you have begun to work hard for your family.

Think about it calmly, it's not easy to be together, of course, if it's really inappropriate, it's better to separate, so as not to hurt others and yourself.