A classmate in my class keeps coming to my house, what should I do?

Updated on educate 2024-06-02
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think you can tell her what you really think about the fact that you don't like to lie. If you like her words, then you need to tell her the truth. Honesty is paramount.

    If you don't like her. Then you should tell her the truth. It's good for everybody.

    Although you are friends. But everybody has their own life, and besides, you've been together for 5 days a week, but you need to live your own life. Whether it's a couple or a friend.

    All need to have their own space. This is not to mean distancing or deliberately avoiding anything, but it is a real need. As long as everyone calmly talks about some things and discusses some things, it will not cause any major problems.

    Communication is the most important link between people, and honesty is also very important. On the other hand, if you lie, then if she knows that she will be hurt later, and you are under a lot of pressure. Why not tell us about it?

    You can find a quieter place, a place with a better atmosphere. Everyone sat down and talked about what they really thought. You tell her what you think, and then you ask her what she thinks.

    Then she will tell you what she thinks, and you will talk about your opinions. It's that simple.

    Forehead... The landlord seems to be a woman, huh? Hehe, whether it's a woman or a man, I think the problem is still the same.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When these people take the initiative to find trouble, many people will hold the principle of not fighting with others, tolerate them, and tolerate them, but even so, these people will not stop there, but will have to inch in, step by step, until you are forced to endure it.

    The premise of tolerance for others is to protect yourself. Therefore, when these vexatious people provoke again and again, in the case of protecting themselves, they should fight back at the right time, let them also know the pain, and let them know the sin of looking for others for no reason.

    1.Avoid people who are always finding fault. As the saying goes, "if you can't provoke him, you can afford to hide", it's not that you're afraid of things, such a person doesn't provoke him, keep a distance from him, this is one of the ways to protect yourself;

    2.Sincere and active communication. If you can't avoid this person who is always looking for faults, talk to this person, you can send text messages and QQ privately to ask the reason, and pay attention to the attitude to be sincere. In fact, people who love to find fault are also lonely in their hearts, and some are very inferior and self-esteem.

    Very strong. If you can talk to each other as friends, maybe the other party will be embarrassed to find fault like that next time;

    3.Find a third party to step in. If it is inconvenient for you to take the initiative to communicate, you may wish to find a third party to intervene, but you should solve it rationally and do not use extreme methods;

    4.Prescribe the right medicine to improve relationships. If you understand the reason why the other party finds faults, you should "prescribe the right medicine" to improve the relationship between them;

    5.Be brave in the face of unreasonable provocations. If it is purely vexatious, you should be in line with the principle of not causing trouble and not being afraid of things, you can look directly at each other, and tell each other firmly and politely and clearly:

    Stay away from me", "Stop", "Don't do it again", "Don't come to me for trouble", etc. If it is too serious, you should tell your parents and seek help from the class teacher.

    6.Self-reflection and self-examination. Calm down and conduct a self-analysis, find out if there are any problems in your interactions with classmates, and correct them;

    7.Make friends and relax. Usually exercise more or listen to **, relax, talk to friends more, will also make yourself feel better. In addition, make more friends, if you are always alone, it is easy to be found by others.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If there are a few classmates in the class who are always looking for trouble, you can directly explain it to the teacher and let the teacher manage these students. Or tell the parents what to do if they come and discuss this matter with the teacher.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think we should look at it from two aspects, the first is that if it is your own problem that makes your classmates come to you for trouble, I think you can first self-reflect, and then find out the problem and correct the mistake. Secondly, if a classmate comes to trouble you because they do it on purpose, then you can go and seek help from the teacher.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    At this time, you should fight back hard, and you should also teach them a lesson, because they will do this, they just think you are a bully.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, you should tell the teachers and parents, and then let the adults intervene in the matter, and you and these students should communicate well and talk about the matter.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My classmates often come to my house and I don't want him to come, what should I do?

    If a classmate often comes to your house and doesn't want him to come, you can try to politely reject her, for example, "I'm really sorry, don't come to play with me in the future, my parents don't seem to like you." They didn't allow me to associate with my male classmates, and I guess I didn't want them to be angry. "So that he won't come to play with you again, just politely refuse him.

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