How to attract people? What does it mean to be liked

Be yourself, don't pretend, and naturally someone will like it.

Give up the small advantage to others.

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1.to provoke people's love and please (please) people's likes; 2.Someone's look or look is very attractive.

People with a peaceful personality are content with the status quo and have no quarrel with the world. In real life, they are satisfied with emotional peace and contentment, and regard being at ease and carefree as the highest state of life satisfaction.

People with a peaceful personality are able to quickly adapt to a new environment and achieve significant achievements in their careers. This personality shows calmness, contentment, modesty, optimism and easy-going, which is easy to get in touch with, so there are many friends. And they are able to skillfully avoid conflict in interpersonal interactions.

They affirm themselves and others at the same time, so they have a lot of friends, such people are easy to gather people's hearts, and their peaceful personality can also give them a kind of physical and mental peace, peace and satisfaction.

They are able to listen to others naturally, identify with them, and truly show the strength of character to love others, accept others, and perceive others' feelings.

People with a peaceful personality identify with others and want others to affirm themselves, and hope that everyone can get comfort and comfort from them, and they are not born to be harsh on others. They are trustworthy people who have the ability to stabilize the emotions of others, and they are especially easy to gather favors, which is a rare good character.

If you have an opinion to mention it in person, if you are dissatisfied, you will not chew your tongue behind your back, and you will not secretly give birth to right and wrong, such a person will be frank and the most likeable!

For the weak, lend a hand, love and respect for the elderly, do not underestimate those who have no money, do not befriend those who have money, treat people and things, be polite, speak and do things, steady and reliable.

Such a person is of noble quality and the most likeable.

No matter how annoying the mood is, it will not be angry at others, and no matter how much pressure it is, it will not be sad.

No matter what happens, you can face it with an optimistic attitude, don't complain, don't cry, have confidence, and dare to take responsibility.

Such people are positive and the most likeable.

Get along with people, don't take advantage of people, talk to people, don't brag and show off.

In the face of interests, he is indifferent and does not betray his friends.

In the face of money, learn to be content, not greedy.

Such a person has a good character and is the most likeable.

I promised others something, I must do it, I borrowed someone else's money, returned it on time, received the favor of others, remembered my heart, got the help of others, and never forgot it.

Ungrateful and ungrateful and not in debt, such a person is the most likable to people who are true to their word.

On the day of success, do not forget the people who accompany him, and when the scenery is beautiful, do not forget the people who taught him, no matter how poor he is, he will not be deceived and deceived, no matter how rich he is, he will not smoke prostitution and gamble, no matter how bitter he is, he will not humble and beg, no matter how difficult it is, he will not bow his head and admit defeat.

Such a person has a noble character and is the most likeable.

People with high emotional intelligence are more likeable.

People with high emotional intelligence are often able to think from the perspective of others and understand the difficulties and difficulties of others, so people with high emotional intelligence will be more likely to gain the trust of others in social life, so as to get help from different people. People with high emotional intelligence in a variety of environments are able to cope with it comfortably and give people a very comfortable feeling.

Therefore, if the emotional intelligence is high, there is a high probability that it is very likable. There are also people who get along with others and do not take advantage of others, who do not brag and show off, who do not betray friends, who are not greedy and greedy, who have good character and are the most likeable.

What kind of poop is healthy and lovely?

I think cute people are the most likeable, I think people who can say good things are likeable, people with high emotional intelligence are likeable, people with personality are likeable, and beautiful people are liked.

1.The appearance is not annoying, if the appearance is not good, let yourself be talented; If you don't have talent, then always smile.

2.Temperament is key. If you don't learn fashion well, you'd rather be simple.

3.When shaking hands with someone, you can shake them for a while. Sincerity is a treasure.

4.Don't win all the time when you play.

5.You don't have to use 'I' as the subject of everything.

6.Don't borrow money from friends.

7.Don't 'force' guests to look at your family photo album.

8.Insist on saying good things about others behind your back, and don't worry that the good words won't reach the ears of the person in question.

9.When someone says something bad about someone in front of you, you just smile.

10.Don't let anyone know everything about the past.

11.Respect people who don't like you.

12.Be merciless to things and not to people, or be ruthless to things, and be affectionate to people; Or be a person first, do things second.

13.Interpret 'hateful' as "likable, never get tired of looking at it".

14.Remember to start with "we" when you speak.

15.Don't expect all people to like you, that's impossible, getting a large number of people to like is a sign of success, 16Of course, you have to like yourself.

First of all, be yourself, and you will not hate yourself anytime, anywhere, or under any circumstances. Again, always believe in yourself. Secondly, look at your own weaknesses and look at the strengths of others.

Try to listen to everyone's opinions more in your daily contact with people, and show more for others.

Like you, I used to think about this topic. Actually, I'm still thinking about it. I think when you have your own personality, you will naturally become a person to be liked.

Remember to be confident, self-esteem, and at the same time constantly strive to improve all aspects of yourself. I believe that as long as you do your best, there will be people who appreciate you.

Remember, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. Think from the other side's point of view first.

Say more compliments and put yourself in someone else's shoes.

I like to be like this in the workplace. Colleagues work together: 1. Integrity, with clear standards for judging right and wrong.

Integrity is the most basic moral quality, and an upright person has his own halo and is respected in the group. Because of this respect, most people are willing to associate with him and hope that he will "do justice" at some point. And those "good old people" who are submissive and have no position seem to offend people on the surface, but in fact they are not popular.

2. Professional, with a high level of business. A master in the business, showing a talent that is different. The admiration of his colleagues will also be converted into liking.

Colleagues may need to learn from him, ask him for advice, or become dependent on him for his business skills. 3. Enthusiastic and willing to help others. This type of person is good at observing the needs of colleagues, enthusiastic, proactive, dedicated, and willing to provide help to others within their ability.

Warm-hearted people "Whoever doesn't like it, maybe one day they can help themselves." Fourth, humor brings happiness to the group split celebration. Humor is actually an ability, which depends on the activity and resourcefulness of the person's thinking.

An action can bring a burst of laughter when everyone is tired, and in a word, it can resolve the embarrassment caused by colleagues' mistakes. People with a sense of humor are charismatic and approachable. 5. Listen and know how to pay attention to the hearts of others.

Listening makes the other party feel valued, and people who are good at listening must also be good at communicating. Grasp the scale, listen to the ideas of colleagues, pay attention to the hearts of each other, and give rational analysis and suggestions. This kind of person is called a "warm-hearted person" by his colleagues.

6. Tolerance, being able to face the shortcomings of others correctly. Everyone will have shortcomings, a tolerant person, with a very big heart, does not care about trivial things, is good at understanding others, and gives the impression of being reliable and safe. 7. Talent, plus points for people in the workplace.

In addition to their own work, people who have certain specialties in culture and art are easily welcomed by their colleagues. This is the attraction formed by differentiation, and it is also the embodiment of the fact that culture and art can be more recognized by the public. 8. Be neat and tidy, pay attention to personal image.

Handsome guys and beauties are generally popular in the world, because it is human nature to love beauty, but the appearance and body are natural. Then, what can improve the image is to pay attention to words and deeds, clean and tidy, and reasonable collocation. Those who pay attention to the external image of the limbs convey a neat and fresh impression to the team and win the favor of their colleagues.

<> "It turns out that such people are more likeable.

Psychologist Aronson did an experiment:

He showed four videos of similar interviews to Subject** and asked them to rate the characters in the video.

The first video shows that the characters are very good and successful, with a very natural attitude, and they talk extraordinarily, without feeling shy at all.

The character in the second video is also a very good and successful person, but he is a little shy, and accidentally knocks over the coffee on Lu Kai's table during the interview.

The third video character is a very ordinary person, not too nervous during the interview, but also does not make any attractive remarks.

The fourth video character is also a very ordinary person, and he behaves very nervously during the interview and accidentally pours over coffee.

It turned out that the most beloved was not the flawless character in the first video, but the successful person who spilled the coffee in the second video.

This is the Foolish Effect, also known as the Mistake Effect, which means that people who have no flaws at all may not be likable, and the most likable are those who are excellent but have some minor flaws.

People expect perfection, but in reality, they are afraid of perfection. Since there are very few people who can achieve excellence due to the limitations of their individual abilities, those who perform perfectly give a sense of unreality.

Compared with the imperfect self, it will make you appear small, and people are more reluctant to approach these perfect excellent people out of self-preservation.

However, it should be noted that although occasionally being ugly can make excellent people more popular, it does not mean that excellent people should deliberately make a fool of themselves to sensationalize the public, but they should not pursue perfection excessively.