How to face an ex boyfriend and his new girlfriend

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Well, first of all, you have to make sure that you still love him or not, listen to what you said that you broke up with him so simply, which means that you are an open-minded person, then, it is nothing to meet him and his new girlfriend, you must be calm, say hello, eat together, it's nothing, maintain the relationship between friends, and of course, don't deliberately show how "happy" you are without him now, that's too fake. Show that this is a heartache for you, and remember, even if it hurts, don't hurt in front of them.

    He's just in the past tense, even if you really love him very much, don't avoid him like that, that can only show your cowardice. One: He won't sympathize with you and reconcile with you (and such a relationship shouldn't be).

    Two: Even if he sympathizes, does it make sense? As an independent woman, the last thing you need is empathy.

    When you crave the sympathy of others, you are self-deprecating.

    Remember, don't be emotional, be polite and friendly to his new girlfriend, and don't befriend her. Just a faint one would be fine. It's impossible to see what you think, whether you're sad about the breakup.

    That's all. Be calm and calm.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If he doesn't talk to you, then you don't pay attention to him.

    If he takes the initiative to greet you, you pretend that you don't care and don't care about the way he looks and say hello.

    Whew.

    As for his new girlfriend, if she doesn't know you're his ex-girlfriend, pretend she doesn't know.

    It doesn't matter if she knows you're his ex-girlfriend, they're in love anyway.

    It's normal for you to just say hello as a friend. (Don't have other expressions (which can be misleading.)

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  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    When you meet again, look him in the eye and try to prove that he is better off without him. If he greets you to prove that he has been in the past, don't be nostalgic, just talk normally (men are more likely to forget feelings than women), but don't talk for too long (avoid suspicion, you should understand), don't panic if you bump into his girlfriend, calm down and calm down, I think he will be the first to explain clearly (remember that you didn't do anything wrong), if you have to, you don't have to lie, just say it, who tells people to ask? Or just an ordinary friend, how to make it up to you, I think he will try his best to cooperate, after all, he doesn't want his current girlfriend to know about your previous relationship more than you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Don't be too cold, don't be very warm.

    That would make it seem like you still care about him.

    As long as there is basic politeness, it's fine.

    When you meet, say hello with a smile or have a few words.

    Then be sure to end the conversation before he turns away.

    But not very abrupt end, to be natural.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't worry, when you go, when you see him, meet him as a good friend, talk to him casually, if you can't do it, then ignore him first, and when he greets you, you can just say a few words, or if you still hate him, just ignore him. You can choose one of the three, but I suggest you don't take it to heart.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend, which means that the two of you are not suitable, she already has a new boyfriend, and you should let it go completely. Silently bless her. Because even if you don't let go, it's no longer possible between you, she already has a new boyfriend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can also find a new girlfriend, which means that the person has let go of the past, and you should also look forward and not dwell on the past.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's all ex-girlfriends, so it's none of your business, and you can find a new girlfriend. Men, you can afford to put it down.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think you should look away, after all, the relationship between the two of you is only in the past, and since you have broken up, you should live your life well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You should bless your ex-girlfriend when she has a new boyfriend, your relationship has become a thing of the past, and people have the right to find a new boyfriend.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Personally, I feel that this is a very normal thing, everyone has a place for everyone, and I have to adjust my mentality and find my other half.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    For impossible feelings, then you still have to learn to let go.

    Because you broke up with your ex-girlfriend and there is no relationship anymore, then she has found a new relationship, that is, she has completely let go of your previous relationship.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The ex-girlfriend has found a new boyfriend, it is better to learn to let go, they are already ex-girlfriends, no matter how much they care, it will only add sadness, it is better to find a new girlfriend by yourself, so it is practical.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You all know that she is your ex-girlfriend, and you just say that others have a new life, so you don't need to say yes, and then pester others, like this, you lose your own value.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You should completely let go of your ex-girlfriend and should find a suitable girlfriend again.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1. First of all, you must find a way to meet each other. The reason why your girlfriend did this may be purely to get revenge on you, or because she feels uncomfortable in her heart, she just finds someone to forget it. You're going to have to find her anyway, and you're going to have to figure out what's going on with her.

    Sometimes people do a lot of wrong things when they are down, and many things are often difficult to turn back once they are missed. Many text communication problems often produce ambiguity, so you have to find a way to meet each other, give each other a good chat, let the other party feel that you are not easy, and then you can deal with many problems, just separated from the girlfriend and found a new boyfriend, how can I get it back.

    2. Secondly, you have to open up to the other person and have a chat. In any case, you have to open up to the other person to have a conversation, no matter whose fault it was for your breakup. See if there is a misunderstanding between you, or if the third party is too powerful.

    Maybe you were in the dark at first, and you didn't know that the other party had a new love at first, so the breakup may have been predestined for a long time, if this is the case, you just leave quietly, after all, love is free, what about breaking up? If you still love something, you can't say anything, if you don't love it anymore, you can say anything very clearly, this is the truest standard for judging love. I just found a new boyfriend after separating my girlfriend, how can I get it back.

    3. Again, you must know how to redeem the other party. The right way to get your girlfriend back is to do it both hard and soft. If you just plead with the other person, then you will not be able to defeat the other person.

    Therefore, you need to be tough when you should be tough, even if the other party is not willing to see you and listen to you, you must find a way to fight for the initiative.

    Without communication, there is no end, and since it is decided to redeem it, then we must do our best. You know, it's not easy to really meet someone who puts your attention to yourself. Only by knowing how to take care of it with your heart can you carry out this relationship to the end.

    I just found a new boyfriend after separating my girlfriend, how can I get it back. How to get back an ex-girlfriend who has a new boyfriend? What should I do if my ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend?

    What should I do if my ex-girlfriend has a boyfriend?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hello friends, there is no standard for this, only everyone's personal experience. Generally, there may be two kinds, one is that you can't let go of the other sincerely, or you may really forget it, so the two of them. When this ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend, they feel differently.

    When I learned that my ex-girlfriend had a new relationship, I was sad and relieved, but I also wished them happiness.

    I don't think the two of us have come to this point because we don't love each other anymore, it's just because we're thousands of miles apart and there's really no way to give each other the warmth and hugs we want.

    After choosing to separate, I had long expected that sooner or later she would have a new relationship. It's just that when I really knew the news, I still felt a little sad in my heart, mixed with a little relief.

    Maybe I can finally let go of each other and finally find the love I want.

    After all these emotions slowly faded, all I had left in my mind was blessings. I hope she met the right people this time, and I hope they can walk into happiness.

    In fact, after breaking up with their ex, many people can't let go of it in their hearts.

    But knowing that it is impossible for the two people to have another future, whether they are willing to accept this ending or not, separation has become a foregone conclusion.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The ex-girlfriend means that you have broken up, so the ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend, what does it have to do with you, and why do you face him again? You don't have a relationship anymore.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Even if she is already an ex-girlfriend, she either blesses her or she doesn't cherish it, so she can only cry by herself for a while.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Ex-girlfriend has a new boyfriend. How do you deal with it? That's like a normal close friend bless him. The two of us came in by fate. Don't complain that the cover is slipping and making Lu hate. Even if you can't be friends, you can't be enemies.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Ex-girlfriend, isn't she a stranger? Still have something to do with you? Still in mind?

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