Chat a lot, just like it? Frequent chatting, will it generate likes?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-02
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Chatting often is just liking, you don't have to make excuses for yourself, and there is no need to make excuses.

    Everyone will meet someone in their life, but not everyone has the courage to admit that they like it. When you're constantly getting closer to someone, when you're chatting with someone a lot, that's actually liking, whether you admit it or not.

    We always subconsciously get close to people we have a good feeling for, and subconsciously stay away from people we hate. When I was in college, there were a lot of girls in my class, but I liked the girls in the last row. I don't think I like it, it's just pleasing to the eye.

    But after the passage of time, I realized that it was actually liking. I have a very good opinion of her, and she is not averse to my proximity. But back then, I was really naïve, I didn't think about confessing, and I didn't think about getting together with each other.

    People are actually like this, we will always subconsciously approach the person we like, whether it is sitting side by side with the other person, or chatting with the other person, if you really don't have a good feeling, you will not take the initiative to do these things.

    Chatting a lot is like, it's just that there are a lot of people who don't want to admit it. When you are always willing to find someone to take the initiative to chat, and that person does not refuse your initiative to approach, but often takes the time to chat with you. If the two of you don't like each other, you should be too idle.

    But in real life, everyone's life is extremely busy, everyone is busy seeking a happy life, they are busy improving their quality of life, and there are really not too many idlers in life.

    Although chatting often is like, but there are not many people who really dare to admit this in life, and many people think that it is just a simple good feeling. But in the process of chatting often, good feelings have long turned into likes.

    Perhaps for most people, it is a little shy to take the initiative to say that they like someone, but in their love life, they should take the initiative to say that they like, and it makes no sense to hide it in their hearts.

    Like is like, don't let your cowardice affect your love life.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes. Because each of us will only chat with the people we like often, and never chat with the people we don't like.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I don't think chatting often means liking, because you don't know if the other party is still chatting with others, and the feelings across the screen will be broken once there is no contact, and it is not excluded that others chat with you because they are bored.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I really like it, because the other party is willing to talk to you all the time, just because they feel that they have a common language with you, which is interesting to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think that chatting often doesn't mean that the other person likes you, it's just that I feel lonely, and I won't be particularly lonely when chatting with you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not necessarily that you like it, it's just that two people have a common language, so they are often willing to chat together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think so, only if you really like someone, you will often chat with them, which shows that you have a good impression of them.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I always like to talk to others because I am lonely.

    Chatting is spiritual loneliness, otherwise why do you like to chat with people so much? Anyone who likes to chat is because of spiritual loneliness, meeting a person, having a sustenance, and then starting to chat.

    It's just that men and women chat, if they chat, don't get distracted, just chat, the key is that they chatted and chatted into the soul and into the world of love, but they can't love, because they have a family, what should they do in such a situation?

    Since it originates from loneliness, it is better to start with loneliness and solve the problem from loneliness: insisting on loneliness is a sign of a person's maturity.

    Loneliness is God's gift to people, when you grow up, you must learn to manage your own spiritual world, if you rely on others, you will feel very happy and excited when you just rely on, but a lot of reliance is not reliable.

    Because it is difficult to stabilize emotions, many people's relationships are good at the beginning, and they begin to fade with time later.

    Especially when you are very deeply dependent on someone, they will feel pressured and they will become more and more distant from you.

    Even if he loves you, then this love has a time limit, it depends on whether he is in a good mood? If you are in a good mood, you will chat with you, if you are in a bad mood, you may be cold, and if you are a sensitive person, your mood will change from side to side in the process.

    Therefore, it is better to let someone chat with you, you also pay a lot of mental cost, it is better to be quiet alone, it is better to be comfortable to come alone, and it is better to be lonely and save trouble.

    The more mature a person is, the more soberly they will see this, and then they will not look outward for the spiritual nourishment of others, but will rely on themselves to manage their own spiritual world.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, frequent chatting can give people the illusion of love. It's like you're in love, but you're actually indulging in a feeling, a fantasy, or a spiritual sustenance.

    Second, you're in love with someone you imagine.

    He may be soft-spoken, and it just so happens that you don't like people who are too hot-tempered, so you automatically substitute him as the perfect partner.

    You keep refining his image in your mind, constantly convincing yourself. Besides, through the screen, you don't know who's on the other side. Words can express the essence of people's hearts, but they are also easy to disguise.

    Maybe a punctuation mark, a word, can make you misunderstand, such a low-cost love experience will be easy to indulge.

    And words are actually an illusion, because words can be packaged, and language can be modified.

    Some people wait for you to look through the text and over the screen to meet face-to-face, only to find that it's not like that at all. And true love should be based on the sincerity of mutual appreciation and mutual giving.

    If you personally often chat with you, and you have the illusion of being in love, but the other party chats with you ambiguously and does not confess, playing Tai Chi routines. Then please be careful, either you will be treated as a fish in a net. Maybe he has a crush on you, but not enough to develop into love.

    Love is a tangible experience, not a screen saying goodnight to each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Some people like to chat with you, and the reason may be because you have high emotional intelligence, and others will feel happy when they talk to you. It could also be that because he likes you, he will enjoy chatting with you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If the other person is willing to chat with you, it means that he feels that you are a good person. Or maybe you have some good interests with him or something, and you already have some good feelings about you. That's why I'm willing to chat with you and communicate slowly, which shows that you are a good person.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have affinity, talk to you happily, talk more about good mood.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    That's because people like you, that's why they talk to you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I also like to talk to you, but I don't know you, what can I do? I'm worried!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. You like to chat with others because of your personal personality, you can improve friendship in the process of chatting with others, and you can also know the new things that happen to others every day, which can make your daily life very fulfilling.

    Why do you like to chat with people so much?

    You like to chat with others because of your personal personality, you can improve friendship in the process of chatting with others, and you can also know the new things that happen to others every day, which can make your daily life very fulfilling.

    I'm married, and I like to talk to other strange men, and that's it, and they add me, and I agree, and it's just that I'm used to chatting, and that's what's going on.

    This is because you like to be in contact with different new people, because chatting with those who are not familiar with it will be fresh and there will be a lot of topics to discuss.

    I'm married, is it normal to talk to these people.

    Dear, if you're just chatting, that's definitely normal! But if you have some ambiguous language, that's not going to work.

    After all, you are also a family person.

    Because your personality determines that you like to make friends with a lot of people, and at the same time, chatting can also enrich your life.

    I don't love my husband because of these reasons why I like to talk to strange men.

    Because you think that other strangers are better than your husband, and in many ways they are better than your husband.

    Why are they so charming in their conversations with me, I don't want to resist at all, but I enjoy it.

    Just because you like to seek security from these people, and at the same time have a sense of pursuit and admiration for these new people.

    I told the other party that my colleague knew that we were chatting, why did the other party suddenly tell me not to talk to him in the future, and that no one would talk about me, whether he was afraid of causing me trouble or hated me.

    He's not causing you trouble or hating you, he's jealous of you looking for someone, and then they'll know that you're chatting with him.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes. You've probably had the experience of chatting with the opposite sex a lot.

    I can't remember why it started at the beginning, but I remember that one day, someone frequently appeared in your conversation list, sharing daily life with you, and saying goodnight to each other every day.

    Later, you will talk and chat more frequently, from hobbies to future planning, from "what to eat at noon" to the next arrangement, he will report to you one by one, and will often send **and little**.

    You'll even talk about topics that are very opinionated, and there are dark sides that are not well known.

    The likes are the same, the chat is speculative, and even the zodiac signs are unexpectedly compatible, which makes you feel very compatible with him.

    He's always able to say something that makes you blush and put out fresh ideas when you're chatting, and you're on the other side of the screen trying to find something interesting to talk about and come up with something funny to respond to.

    Curious and fresh, it gives you the illusion of being in love.

    Long-term high-frequency chatting can easily create a mental feeling of "relying on each other and accompanying each other". You gradually become familiar with the way he speaks, get used to receiving him four or five WeChat messages in a row around 8 o'clock in the evening, and get used to ending the conversation with his "good night" and entering your daily sleep.

    You begin to want to know him a little better, fantasize about meeting him, expect a response to everything you say, and hope that he will have the same heart and feelings for you.

    On a Thursday night, you're sitting on the couch at home watching TV as usual, but your phone isn't ringing as usual. You look down at the time, turn on your phone to make sure the internet is smooth before locking the screen, and then continue watching TV while waiting.

    But fifteen minutes, half an hour, an hour has passed, and you have no idea what is going on on TV, and the plot is going on**, and those are all noisy and unimportant background sounds. Your eyes keep glancing at the phone on the table, but the phone screen never lights up, and you're empty, and you can't say why.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Ordinary chats generate feelings of liking. In particular, the opposite sex often chats and will talk about feelings, and both parties understand each other. Rub out the spark of love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Chatting with the opposite sex, after a long time, will produce likes. After all, companionship is the most affectionate confession.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Being able to chat for a long time shows that there is a common language, and being able to talk together is the key to love. So if you can talk to each other for a long time, you will definitely like each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is the so-called long-term love, and it feels good to chat, so I gradually like each other.

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