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I'll pay in full, the blind date is just a blissful temptation, and I don't think I mind paying a little more.
When the older unmarried has become a label on you, blind dates may already be an inevitable thing. When I met someone who didn't want AA on a blind date, of course I was willing to pay in full, and I didn't think about AA system myself.
The times have given more privileges to girls, and as a boy, I am very self-aware. In modern society, it seems to have become a default rule that a boy is responsible for all expenses in the process of getting along with two people. In this context, I don't think I'm very special, and when I go on a blind date with a girl, I didn't think about AA system.
In these years of blind date experience, every blind date dinner is basically my treat, I have become accustomed to this kind of life, and I don't care about this kind of thing. If one day a blind date girl suddenly pops up and says she wants AA, I may be surprised.
I'll pay in full and I don't find that hard to accept. After so many years of blind date life, I have also had the topic of blind date with my friends, and I really haven't heard from my friends about whether the blind date is an AA system.
Maybe it's because of the circle of life, or maybe it's because of personal thoughts, I never think it's unacceptable to invite a girl to dinner on a blind date.
Of course, this doesn't mean that I'm a fool, under normal circumstances, the blind date is arranged by me, and if anyone treats me as wronged, I don't think I will be so easy as people wish.
In fact, there are not too many things worth tangling in life, just invite each other to have a meal, if two people can become lovers, it is not a loss, if two people can't become lovers, it can be regarded as improving their lives, I don't think it's a big deal.
I don't know exactly what kind of person would calculate that they must AA when eating on a blind date, but I know that this kind of person is difficult to find a partner through a blind date.
We can pick the door, but we should also be generous when we should be generous.
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If I were a boy, I would definitely pay in full, but if I were a girl, I wouldn't have been so proactive when we met for the first time.
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I won't, I'll only pay half of the bill because I'm not obligated to pay for what he eats, after all, it's the first time we've met, and I don't have to be so generous.
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Yes, because I think it's very normal for a guy to pay on a blind date, after all, it's not that easy for a girl to make money.
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I will pay in full. Because I think that's the only way to avoid embarrassment. And I was able to make a good impression on me.
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I don't pay in full because I don't think it's worth paying in full because it's just two people who are on a blind date, and there's no more intimate relationship yet, so I'm going to insist on AA, and if he doesn't agree, I'll just keep my part of the money.
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First of all, to be able to start a blind date, whether it is introduced by relatives or friends, when it comes to the end of the year, it is also through the consent of both parties to reach a meeting, that is to say, blind date is completely voluntary. Therefore, when two wishful people sit together, there is no difference between the sexes, and the two people are completely equal in their relationship, so they should regard each other as friends for the first time, and there should be no problem of one party taking advantage of the other. That is to say, since the two spoilers have a casual stranger who has a casual idea, they should not owe each other, and the AA system is the best choice.
Secondly, if you don't have feelings for this blind date, it means that there is no possibility of continued development between you, as a woman, you should calculate the money with the other party clearly, and don't let others feel that since you don't have the idea of continuing to talk, you still have to take advantage of the other party. It can be said that if you let your blind date pay for this meal, you become a person who rubs the meal, and the relationship between you will be unequal from this time on, and it is very likely that the other party will imagine you as a frivolous person, and you should show your attitude through this meal, and tell the other party that you are not a person who likes to take advantage of others.
Thirdly, if you have feelings for each other because of this first meeting, you should also AA at the final checkout, even if the man pays first, you should ask for a transfer to transfer the other half of the money to him. Maybe the other party won't want it, but you should behave like this, and don't let the other person think that you are a greedy person. If you want to meet more times in the future and get to know each other slowly, you should leave a good impression on each other for the first time.
Finally, if the woman has feelings for the man when they meet for the first time, and feels that it is possible to get along again, they need the AA system even more, and maybe they can take the initiative to pay the bill. Originally, in this meeting, the woman's feelings for the man were more obvious, so she needed to take the initiative to "seize the opportunity", in order to leave a better influence in the boy's heart, and for the next time he invited the boy out for dinner, he was not good at shirking. Moreover, it is not easy for everyone to earn money, and it should not be said that it is natural for boys to pay, but we should still understand each other more.
Actually, the AA system or the boy pays, but it's all voluntary, but this kind of thing about money, or two people who meet for the first time, it's better to calculate it clearly.
We shouldn't take it for granted that boys should spend money on money, and men should be gentlemen, but that doesn't mean that women should take it for granted that they should enjoy a "no-cost" lunch. Blind dates are originally based on the principle of mutual equality, and the two would not know each other before.
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Everyone knows each other with an attitude of blind date, the AA system is the best, and no one suffers.
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If you are a man when you are a parent, it is best not to AA, which will make the woman feel that you are too old and too old. If it is a woman who takes the initiative to propose the AA system, then it is okay.
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Generally, the man pays, because it shows more generously, and it is easy to disturb the girl's favor.
I'm a girl, even if I can't look down on boys on a blind date, I don't dare to mention AA easily, because I don't know what the other party thinks, and I'm afraid of hurting other people's self-esteem. However, I basically go to very cheap places (basically about 100, and more than 200 for boys who are more pleasing to the eye), especially for boys who don't like it at first glance, I even ordered ** for more than 20 yuan.
Blind date with my husband, the first time we met, he invited a guest to eat hot pot, chatted during the meal, he asked me if I watched a movie, I said okay, by the way, the mobile phone group two movie tickets, I wanted you to invite hot pot, I invited the movie We are flat, I went home and told you that it was not suitable, I didn't expect him to understand that I was very optimistic about him, and I agreed to watch a movie with him, and I paid for a ticket, and after I went home, I chased and beat hard, and then we were together, and there was a week of marriage.
To be honest, if the man doesn't want to pay for the first meal of the blind date or wants to AA system, basically the other party will not continue with you. If you think it's expensive to eat, you can make an appointment for afternoon tea and a drink. Of course, girls can't take other people's money for granted.
If it's a café on a blind date, I usually only order one drink, because I don't necessarily accept the other person, so I don't want to spend so much money on the other party. However, I can pay the bill, but I will definitely lose points to the other party in my heart. Now my boyfriend and I basically take turns to pay when we go out, and even though he pays more than me, we don't care about that.
Sometimes I use hundreds of dollars of skincare products directly for him.
I don't think it's anything, if the other party is too concerned about money with me, I will definitely not go down with him, everyone's income is about the same, why bother so much about men who don't have the ability to pay to go on a blind date? The so-called blind date, most of the objects are recommended by elders or friends, the rate of cheating is very low, the blind date is over, the two sides look at the menu and count the money, what kind of system is this, it seems that Wang Han is too stingy.
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