What kind of ex girlfriend to be, how to be friends with an ex girlfriend?

Let yourself live well, don't forget him very deliberately, because this thing will only make people think more intentionally, now that they are separated, then let him go, let yourself go, in fact, it doesn't matter if you let go of it! Now you should keep yourself busy and fulfilled, instead of giving yourself time to think about him, you have to make yourself excellent, I think one day in the future, you will become very mature and excellent, when he sees you, maybe he will feel an inexplicable heartache, maybe not regret, maybe a guilt, a debt, but in his heart, you are already a landscape that you have once and now, an unforgettable landscape I hope you can give yourself time to come out, and then be yourself Remember, live to be kind to yourself, a little faster

There's no way, the person he loves is his current girlfriend, if you want him to miss you, you can grab him back.

Withdraw from his circle of life and silently follow everything about him. Comfort him when he needs you, take care of him, don't put any pressure on him, and be the unknown confidante behind him!

It is to leave his life and let him find his own happiness!

Although there is a lot of reluctance at the beginning, it can be done!

After leaving, his happiness has nothing to do with you, bless him.

I think it varies from person to person, if you are a very enthusiastic and cheerful person, and you have a strong desire to continue to be friends with the other party, and you can do not blame the previous little embarrassment, then I think you can be friends; Secondly, from the other party's point of view, she He rejected you, there may be feelings of guilt, at this time you can show your attitude and say: I have been clear about your thoughts, but also respect the decisions you made, the past will not be mentioned, we will still be good friends from now on, and we can usually share all the ...... of learning, life and funAnd so on, express such a concept of friendship with high emotional intelligence in a brisk tone.

Everything is possible, and there is still the possibility of developing into lovers when both of you are still single, after all, you may not have known each other for a long time and do not know each other very well, which may also be one of the reasons why she rejected you (purely personal speculation).

Next, let's talk about the aspects that are not recommended to be friends:

Relationships are something that is somewhat complicated. For example, if you have the desire to continue to be friends with the other person, if you still like her, is the feeling of being out of reach a kind of torture (masochism) for you?

The best thing is that you let go of your feelings for her and him, and for you, this relationship becomes the icing on the cake, and there is no freedom and freedom. Love itself is the icing on the cake, not a necessity like water and air, and understanding this is the most important thing.

If you put all this aside, you really need this friend, she has some kind of quality or shining point in him that attracts you, and it has nothing to do with Fengyue, just want to make a friend simply, then there is nothing wrong with it.

The road is long, and I have to search up and down to find the object I always think that the consistency of the three views is fundamental, of course, most people can not find the right person at once, and then the combination of the right and then the right one also needs to continue to run in to find the most comfortable way to get along, we must have the courage to continue to trial and error, to find the one that belongs to us".

Go back to the source, ask your heart, you can't deceive yourself, and the problem will be solved. Hopefully, my answer will give you a little bit of Risby*.