It s so complicated for people in college, they re all classmates, do you need that?

.This, if you can understand this, already shows that you have understood the rules of interpersonal communication in the university -0-

Anyway, my college was like this, I was a little numb, although I continued to believe again and again that I would make true friends, but, to be honest, there was none--

Maybe there are some flaws in interacting with others.)

The only thing I can tell you is: sit quietly and think about yourself, and don't talk about others.

Maybe you think that you can talk to each other about what is going on with you if you have a good relationship, but you have to see if that person is reliable? Because this world really is"The isolation is strong and has ears"

It seems to be a bit decisive -0-)

Don't despair, because you have to live well, don't you?

In addition to the proverb above, there is also the need to be stronger!

It's okay to be on your own! (This is not to make you detached from the masses and isolate yourself, ah-v-)

Although university life is very relaxed, you must study the subjects well!

You may feel annoyed by this, but it is necessary, otherwise you will regret it when you graduate and step into the society).

Establish your own goals, your ideals, and work towards them with all your might!

When you think about it this way, don't you think it's naïve to think about those complex interpersonal relationships? Time is precious! Put it on something meaningful! )

Do what you have to do ... Smile at the people around you ... Let's read some books on life cultivation.

My high school teacher told me that college is a training class for entering society, and college is not like middle school, just a city person, or occasionally a few people from other cities.

The university is full of all kinds of people from all over the world, that is, a small society.

In fact, this is the time for you to study, intrigue is inevitable, to the society, everyone is fighting for their own interests, the reality is to step on other people's corpses to climb up...

Learn how to behave with others and how to protect yourself.

The fittest survive, the unfit are eliminated, people are not for themselves, and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. I've been stumbled in Darwin's theory of evolution, and I've just been tricked out of three or four thousand by a close classmate.

I think that's how the personality is smoothed out little by little, after all, to protect yourself, you have to be insidious when necessary, hey, helpless! Now we are in the early stage of graduation, and a few students in the class are trying their best to earn the last money from their classmates, is it interesting, so the surface is kind, and the stabbing in the back is also forced. But I think I should insist that people don't offend me, I don't offend people, and if people offend me, I will offend people.

It's normal, this situation is fine, and it was not exposed in person.

University is about to enter the society, so let's do an internship first.

It's a girl. Boys don't seem to have that. Ignore what others do, just feel that you haven't done something sorry for others. That's what college looks like. Those who speak further behind have already lost to you.

Hey, it looks like you're the same.

It's supposed to be girls, and boys are not like that.

It's like this at any university, and you'll understand when you get to society...

Half of the society, the society is more that, let's get used to it slowly

1. Stay away from greasy and official-mouthed people.

During college, there will definitely be such a person around you: dressed in a suit and tie briefcase all day long, full of official "Chairman Li is good, Minister Zhang is good", and if you don't have any ability, you will only lick teachers, suppress junior students, and be full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people. If you meet this kind of person, I advise you to stay away from him, and I do not recommend that you make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him.

College is a period of secondary cultivation and construction of your world view, and what kind of people you make friends with and fall in love often greatly affect your future way of thinking about dealing with the world and socializing. When you fall in love with such a person, he will not teach you what maturity is, but will subtly make you become mercenary and make you look nasty in the eyes of those around you. When you fall in love in college, you can go to those who are capable of the opposite sex and make yourself excellent.

But you must not look for people who are like boys who are "incapable and can only put on an official show", this is the reason for those who are close to Zhu and those who are close to ink. Note: Such people often haunt unhealthy student unions.

2. It's best not to choose a long-distance relationship.

I'm just suggesting that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "the love for each other is really strong, and at the same time you have enough patience and a good way of dealing with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth. But the reason why I don't recommend it is because long-distance relationships have a high risk, a low sense of love, a short time of companionship, and are also prone to vicious behaviors such as splitting legs and cheating. After all, college is a stage where you can be quiet and not think about material things, and simply enjoy the beauty of love.

When you fall in love through a screen, you have to learn to experience the taste of loneliness alone in college. You have to learn to suppress the envy in your heart, and at the same time keep your distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love. Nine times out of ten, if both parties do not have emotional intelligence and minds higher than their peers, then this relationship will most likely be haggard.

3. Don't fall in love with depressed and negative people.

When investigating the concept of college love, I found such an interesting phenomenon: what kind of partner you choose during college actually profoundly affects your direction in the past four years. If you choose a partner who is addicted to games, clubbing all day long, and tells you that "it's okay to fail the course", then most of your four years of college will become useless and have not learned anything.

But if you choose a partner who is self-disciplined and active, can manage your college time to the fullest, but is not boring, then the meaning of your relationship is not limited to "finding someone to accompany you", but growing together into a "better person" with each other's encouragement. To put it realistically, there are many people who can accompany you to play games to the king during college, but the people who can accompany and urge you to pass the fourth or sixth level and have all A grades are real rarities. Don't look for someone who will only play with you, waste time and study, you will eventually realize that "the beating of society is all about paying off the debts you once owed".

And those who accompany you to slowly become excellent are the objects you should really consider and choose.

Sloppy, not motivated, greedy and cheap.