Who says family things have to be done together? Some people really don t like it!

Ha! People really have blind spots, especially when it comes to people close to them. For example, your family's arguments:

Don't like that if an outsider comes in and out of the house, then why do they want you to do something they don't like (do housework)? So you want to fulfill their dislikes, and you have to digest your dislikes? For example, since there are so many benefits of doing housework, they can enjoy it slowly by themselves, can you thank him for sharing?

The big guys upstairs also talked very interestingly, since everyone hates to do housework, and they are barely doing it, then at least give it to those part-time cleaners who can at least make money to do it, isn't it great? Especially the big version is not not a contribution or a penance! It's not a world of division of labor now?!

Whoever likes to do it, who has the ability to do it well and can make a living from it, then leave it to these people, and others also perform their own duties according to their own interests and abilities, this is not the principle of achieving a harmonious world?! Speaking of which, if these reasonable statements are told to a person with emotions, he can't listen to them, so it is recommended that the university find an appropriate time to communicate with his family. For example, if the other party is talking to you about not doing housework, it is definitely not the right time for you to reason with him, and you must be at peace with the other party in order to tell him this truth.

And then, like me, you have to agree with the other person at first, and this kind of empathy and acceptance is very necessary, because in order to dispel any doubts he may have (what are you going to say to me?). What are you trying to convince me? ), to be able to really listen to your reasoning calmly.

Sometimes we have to admit that it is really difficult to communicate, often the person closest to us, only because the other party cares too much about us, so we are eager to shoehorn the way he thinks is good to us, on the other hand, do we also want to shoehorn the way we think is good to the other party? Therefore, family members really need to learn effective communication models, first of all, do not communicate under negative emotions, secondly, express their own principled positions, and finally work together to find out the greatest common divisor of each other, because since it is a family, as long as they have a heart, they will be able to find a way not to wronged themselves or embarrass each other, so that each other can live happily under one roof!

If you don't want to get married, you probably won't have so many troubles.

There can be no common hobbies. I have always felt that the common interests and topics in love are not so important, the basic material conditions, common concepts, and excellent character are the cornerstones that determine whether you can live for a long time. In fact, it is important to be able to maintain respect and interest in anything that each other says rather than to have common interests, and to be willing to explain basic issues that the other person does not understand.

You tell me about the game, I don't understand, it doesn't matter, but I'm curious, what heroes do you usually use, what spells do you have, how many people do you usually play with, what strategic planning do you have......I'll tell you about Korean dramas, you don't understand, but you will ask me why the male protagonist and the female protagonist are together, whether you like the second male protagonist or the male lead, I don't think the screenwriter has too much brain......

Common topics don't have to be innate, and you don't have to have a common interest to last a long time, and if you're willing to learn something you don't like for me, I'll make changes for your hobbies.

It's only when both people are not self-centered, as the old saying goes: when your surroundings are in conflict, instead of letting the environment adapt to you, you should take the initiative to adapt to the environment. This is the best state of love.

Actually, I've always felt that two people who are too similar are more suitable to be friends, don't they all say that love needs to complement each other? Like Helen and Frank, their shared interests contributed to this sincere friendship, like my grandparents, although they did not have a common interest, but they were even more valuable.

True love does not have to have a common interest, and true love does not have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others; It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other. It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated. This love not only warms themselves, but also warms the hearts of those who are worldly; True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love. When you cherish it, please love it well.

That day, I bought a pack of White Rabbit toffee, and I felt that the taste was wrong when I ate it, and I took out the wrapping paper and looked at it"Big Day Rabbit Milk Candy"

In today's society, there is a lot of pressure and they are busy surviving, in fact, if it is a boy, as long as you are bold, it is easy to find a girl.

There is no need for two people to be happy or to meet, I feel that good is fate, bad is fate, and things that cannot be said clearly in the world are fate.

The word fate is very easy to write, but it is really difficult to really understand it!

Thousands of mountains copy twilight snow:

It's just that behind the curtain.

The intricacies, the entanglements with the three men in her life, are far more complicated than she expected.

Xiaoshan is the first love of beauty and sadness.

After missing each other's youthful years, can they exchange their persistent waiting for each other to stay together?

Mu Zhenfei is a sunny mystery.

His origin is unknown, his identity is unknown, why did he appear and why did he get closer?

Mo Shaoqian is a domineering and hateful beast.

No one knew who was staring intently in his dark eyes.

Drowning in the tenderness of the rain and the coldness of ice, how can her heart remain solid?

Stratus clouds, thousands of mountains and twilight snow, only the shadow ...... to whom

Stunning Allure: "Stunning Allure" is domestic"Cruel love"**The latest masterpiece of the first person Feiyan, published by Jiangsu Literature and Art Publishing House in January 2011. It mainly tells the story of how a wolf in human skin uses a woman's love for him for seven years to fulfill his revenge plan.

The story is gorgeous, poignant, beautiful and sad.

There are a lot, I can't remember clearly, Souhaojia**, there will be what you want.

"Divorce, Your Highness", "President's Ex-husband, Get Out", "President's Royal Sweetheart".

What's wrong with the thoughts, it's a mess.

It varies from person to person, of course, it is best to be together, and not being together will produce distance, and after a long time, the relationship will naturally fade away.

Not necessarily, it depends on the distance of the heart.

Yes, it's only good when it's together.

There is a cousin who is five big and three thick, but he is afraid of his wife.

Every time his wife scolded him, he didn't dare to say anything, so he took a wallet and put it in the back pocket of his pants and went to the train station for a walk. Wait for it to be stolen, and then beat up the thief for ......Later, the thieves at the station knew him and avoided him when they saw him.

A couple of lovers in the park are sweet. The girl coquettishly said, "I have a headache.

The boy then kissed the girl on the forehead and asked, "Does your head still hurt?" The girl said

It doesn't hurt anymore" After a while, the girl coquettishly said, "My neck hurts." The boy kissed the girl's neck again and asked

Does it still hurt? The girl was very happy and said, "It doesn't hurt!"

An old lady next to her stood and watched for a long time, and couldn't help but step forward and ask, "Young man, you are too godly!" Can you cure beriberi? ”