Rebellious girls don t like to wash, what to do with bathing?

Updated on educate 2024-06-05
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    For such a child, what parents need to do is not to persecute, but to let the environment affect her, for example, parents take her to an elegant environment to visit, to contact more neat girls, and gradually bring her to the ranks of loving cleanliness.

    It is not enough for children to blindly persecute by force, they need to be guided.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It should be a reluctance to communicate more with parents and family members, conflicts...

    You can try to communicate and communicate with her with an equal and kind attitude, and slowly eliminate her hostility, which may have an effect. If you wait, you may gradually form a habit, but I am afraid that it will be difficult to communicate in the future...

    You should have a good talk with your dad and try to get his understanding about the rebellious period.

    Children should communicate patiently and give enough respect, which will better resolve the child's heart knots, get through this rebellious period as soon as possible, and return to normal.

    In this case, you should slowly communicate with your father, so that he gradually understands that his attitude will affect the child's emotions, if he blindly does this, there will be greater hidden dangers, let him seriously consider, how to better help the child transform? Could it be that he will really oppose what is good for the child? You must pay attention to your attitude in order to make it easier for your father to accept and think deeply.

    Then I had to coordinate slowly, hoping to change his attitude; And it is still necessary to actively communicate with the girl, so that he can also try to understand his father's thoughts, after all, he is older and his personality is difficult to fundamentally change, but his purpose is for the good of the child, but the way is inappropriate. This may achieve the best possible results ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It is recommended to try to communicate with the child to understand the child's inner thoughts, such as why he is reluctant to wash, whether he doesn't like the taste of toothpaste, or what other reason, don't blindly tell the child to reason, let alone blindly blame the child. If there is a problem with the child's usual habits, it is necessary to pay attention to correcting it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You don't step on her, a girl doesn't like to wash and bathe, slowly his friends will stay away from him, generally normal people will not have this situation, if he has this kind of behavior, most people don't like it, slowly he will return to normal, you force him useless.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The rebellious girl's thinking problem is not good, you need to be patient and careful, I think if you don't like to wash or take a bath should be better, if she develops a good habit of hygiene, she will be very comfortable, parents should reason with her more, and take the lead in hygiene, she will improve.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should let him go out in his dirtiest clothes and let the other classmates laugh at him, and slowly he may feel it. I will make people laugh, slowly become obedient, and learn to take a bath and wash up. It also needs to be supervised by parents.

    You can also chat with your child to let him know that you care about him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is not a question of the rebellious period, it is just a matter of habit, since it is a habit, it is to be formed slowly, take your time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The girl in the rebellious period is true, she doesn't like to wash and bathe, so leave her alone, if he is really uncomfortable, he will do it himself, and the compulsion of this matter will only backfire.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Girls in the rebellious period should learn to love themselves, and washing and bathing are a kind of love for themselves.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No matter how rebellious a girl is, she should know how to be clean, she should know how to pay attention to hygiene, because she is a teenager, then you just tell him, if you are rebellious, you have to pay attention to hygiene, and if you don't take a bath, it will smell.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Rebellious girls don't like to take a bath. There is no need to dwell on this, since people don't like to take a bath, we must respect other people's choices, and no one has the right to interfere with other people's freedoms, whether as parents or anyone.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I said that if a rebellious girl doesn't like to wash and bathe, then you should tell him that girls should pay attention to hygiene, can't be like this, and sloppy, who doesn't like such a sloppy girl?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is not a big problem, it may be fine after this period, and the rebellious period should be enlightened and not forced.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This girl should have not rested for a month or two, and her energy is gone, but the whole person is still awake like a puppet, so no one doubts that she is not rebellious against everything, and she can't do anything and everything is opposite. When she is favored by the magnetic field, no one will suspect her of rebellion after resting, and she will return everything to normal and even love many around her.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Say on time that girls like to be clean, and rebellion is changed because of the child's temper and personality, and he has nothing to do with washing and bathing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    As a mother, I try my best to lead my child to the right path, but my child is still obsessed!

    Seeing that the child is tired of school, doesn't like to study, and yells at me, I can only do it in a hurry!

    The child talked back to me, I didn't appreciate his kindness, and I even wanted to do it, my heart was cold!

    Faced with the countdown of the child's class and grade, I hired a lot of private tutors, but the child still didn't learn, and I was half angry!

    The door is closed when the child comes home, we talk less than ten words a month, I am worried about the child, but he never cares!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Children are like this, which may also mean that she has not really grown up psychologically. When you know how to dress up and know how to love beauty, it means that you should pay attention to the fact that she may be ignorant of love (*

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love cleanliness and hygiene, no matter how old or young, you must develop a good living habit.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In this case, it is recommended not to nag the child and communicate with the child consistently

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Children in the rebellious period are generally teenagers, and only with the right guidance can they be solved.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No matter how rebellious you are, you can't ignore hygiene, is there a mental illness? Look at a psychiatrist.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    The child is already 17 years old, and this mother must have reached middle age, at least thirteen or forty years old. I'm very curious, why does a mother ask this question about bathing when a child is already 17 years old?

    If it was 16 years ago, when a child was still one year old, I thought that my mother brought it up, my child doesn't like to bathe, I want to know what to do? Then I feel like I'll have at least three or more answers to give you. But now that he's 17 years old, I say there's only one answer, and I can say it.

    That is, there is nothing you can do to change that fact.

    Before he was a year old, you didn't cultivate his pleasure in water; During his anal phase before he was three years old, you did not assist him in bathing exercises; When he was still attached to you before he was six years old, you did not affect his habit of exercising and bathing; When he was still in elementary school, and you didn't dare to disobey him in his heart, you still didn't care if he took a bath. And he's already in the rebellious period of adolescence, and you're asking him what to do if he doesn't want to take a bath, how will I know what to do? You don't know, he himself doesn't know, no one knows.

    So I'm very curious, why would a mother put off asking such a question for 17 years? Now that you ask such a question, it is already an unsolvable question, so you might as well not ask.

    I'll give you a simple piece of advice, which is to do nothing, don't care about anything, and let him go on his own. People who don't bathe themselves have hemorrhoids, lice, and pustules that shouldn't have rashes, but that's all his business, it's all your son, a son who is about to become an adult.

    You can't change the fact that he doesn't bathe, and you can't change his predetermined fate. By the time I was 17 years old, I had already stopped listening to my parents, whatever they said. They asked me to go to the school in this city, and I was going to go to college in another place; They told me to eat more vegetables every day, and I had to eat cake and beef every day. They told me to go to bed early and get up early, and I just stayed up until two or three o'clock to watch**.

    Can you handle me? can't control it, so it doesn't matter if your son loves to take a bath or not, you can't control it now, give up this fact, give up **, live your life well, don't spend all your energy on your son every day, and start thinking about what you should do with the fat in your body? Think about what you should do with your straw hair?

    Think about all the dull spots on your face, what to do? Don't let your ugly appearance scare your grandson in the future.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Bathing is a very comfortable thing, if your child does not like bathing from an early age, it means that the child may be too low or lack self-confidence. Leads to a somewhat introverted personality, or does not like to speak and express. Then we should guide him well, let him change this bad habit in his heart, and become more and more sunny and free.

    First of all, if your child is a boy, you may want to pay attention to the way you guide. Because boys may be slightly more rebellious, they are prone to rebellious psychology and lead to a decline in academic performance. Therefore, it should be guided from the negative side, and it is not recommended to guide from the front.

    For example, we can post some comfortable words in the bathroom, post some clean pictures to make ourselves feel comfortable, and we can also post celebrities to promote shower gels, showing a very clean and harmonious picture.

    Second, we can slowly use communication to guide the child to swim in the swimming pool, so that he can become bold and sunny. Slowly, he will feel that taking a bath is a comfortable event that is just needed.

    If your child is a girl, then speak slowly in a tactful tone so as not to hurt your child's self-esteem. Because girls are more afraid of embarrassment, she will be shy. Therefore, it is necessary to speak softly, for example, not taking a bath is not good for the body, it is not good for **, and it is easy to cause ** disease or something in the future, so that the child will slowly accept the bath when he hears it.

    You can also buy her some beautiful clothes, because it is impossible to wear beautiful clothes to school without taking a shower, and she herself will not feel good.

    I think, to be tactful, slowly guide from the details. The child will accept it, because it is due to personality or low self-esteem, not the innate lack of bathing. Therefore, I hope to be able to have a child's concept and make the other party sunny and confident!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Habits, as well as the environment of life, it is advisable to send your children to the army without bathing? Can't kill him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The 15-year-old child does not take a bath on a hot day, perhaps because he is now in the growth and development period and is a little shy or something, but as a parent, he still has to communicate with his child well.

    Even if he doesn't want to take a bath, parents have to talk to him well, don't say well, lose your temper with him or something, because children at this age are indeed very sensitive, if parents are too strict with him or speak too harshly, or even say that he will be more rebellious, so he will be more rebellious, so he doesn't wash it in hot weather, maybe he can still insist on it for a day or two, but if he insists on it for a long time, maybe he himself will not be able to bear the discomfort, so what, As a parent, you must tell him these hygienic things, but don't be too verbose, you don't force him too much, because too much reluctance is easy to backfire.

    I don't know what you mean by saying this is not a good family? Do you not go home or do you not talk to your parents? If the child does not go home, it must be at home for some reason to make him feel uncomfortable, so he doesn't want to go home, but if he doesn't tell his parents, in this adolescent child, many of them feel that there is a generation gap with their parents, and they are unwilling to say something to their parents, but you want the parents to do the most important things and to find out that the child is happy, when he is in a good mood and very happy, you can talk to him more when he is in a good mood, Perhaps, the child will slowly be willing to talk to you.

    Parents must not use their identity to suppress their children, in this case, children will really be very rebellious.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    A 15-year-old child is in the rebellious period, don't force him if he doesn't take a bath, when he feels uncomfortable, he will take a bath by himself, the more you force him to wash, the more he doesn't wash, but more rebellious.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    A 15-year-old child is in a rebellious period, and a 15-year-old child does not take a bath on a hot day, you can reason with him first, and he will listen to him casually. Is there air conditioning at home? If so, please turn off the air conditioner and let him sweat so hot that he can't take a shower?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I'll tell you a good way to take a child to take a bath, is to take her to swim, due to the requirements of the swimming pool, to take a bath before swimming, after swimming, because the child is playful by nature, so he will definitely be willing to take a bath, you just do what I said, absolutely no problem, swim while taking a bath by the way.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    From an early age, children should be trained to pay attention to good habits of personal hygiene. A 15-year-old may not want to take a bath with an adult and give him his own independent privacy space.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    15-year-old is no longer a child, to prevent him from going to the pool to play in the water must be good, the bath can be changed in a different way, so that the child is interested, that kind of girl can let the mother try to talk about why not wash, the boy directly let the father to wash it.

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