I don t want to be in a relationship now, why don t I want to be in a relationship now?

Haha, knowing that you are an old man, stay away from those little girls? Okay.

Don't harm the flowers of the future.

And you said that you will hang up after a while, which means that you have no common language and your door is not suitable.

Oops, what is a man afraid of.

I'm only 21 years old, and I dare say so. If I like a girl, I'm 80% sure I'll catch her.

Teach you to chase simple, her ** number you know?..If you have nothing to do, send a message, talk first, and send her home when you have nothing to do, she won't let you send it. You just say it's okay for you to stay, in short, you just find an objective reason, say more funny things when chatting, you feel that the relationship between the two of you is a lot closer, so you go to the movie (you bet with her and deliberately lose once)...

You're going to give her a little bad feeling. But it's not the kind of bad character. I don't know if you can get it!

Don't be too honest, you just put your hair on end, and put some perfume on your body, light fragrance.

If you don't think it's good, don't scold it, one person, one character.

I'm also a very honest person, and I've been in a situation like you before. From your point of view, you should like him, but you feel that you are older than her, and you have a layer of psychological separation, so you will have a psychology that is close to her and dare not be too offended. In fact, you should throw away this mentality, take her seriously, and feel that she should have a good impression of you based on her behavior towards you.

All, kung fu is not afraid of people with hearts, as long as you treat it sincerely, try to respect her opinions (because you love her) and practices, don't think too much about what she thinks, as long as you follow her, over time, I believe that your efforts will not be in vain...

Of course, women pay the most attention to festivals, giving her an unexpected surprise in front of many people, etc., many such things are the most easy to impress her. You can try ...

Why are you so unconfident? If she really rejects you, why does she care so much about you, and call you every day? Think about it.

Maybe she has promised you, but she is embarrassed to say it so directly, maybe because she is afraid of being deceived again. Her performance should be the love you want to get, work hard, sincerely show love to her again, in order to win her love, come on!

Remember, age is not an issue!

She's still interesting to you, otherwise she wouldn't have returned it to you. Also, how can anyone agree with the truth when asked? Right? This is a girl's reserve, but I don't want to give up on you, so I'll give you **, be happy, take your time!

Knowing that he is an old man, stay away from those little girls.

A woman's excuse.

She's watching you.

Trust me.

It's a good man, and she'll naturally accept you.

You should think about it.

A woman who has been injured is more likely to accept honest men. Is the landlord honest?

Nowadays, young people accept a lot of new things, in today's highly developed material life, the cost of love is not as good as before, bread is necessary, why don't you fall in love? It is inseparable from these six reasons.

01.Probably not come across another one like that.

I don't want to ask a person's name, age sign and hobbies anymore, because I may not have met such a person again, it is already difficult to like myself, and it will really be difficult to like others again. can't give me love, and want to share my bread. Time only wants to be used to make money, and only after surviving can emotional problems be considered.

02.It is better to invest in others than in yourself.

Investing in others is not as good as investing in yourself, you say, falling in love is a matter of two people after all, one party is unwilling, or one party can't get along, it's better than a person, in today's society, the pressure is so great, it may be better to meet true love, but when you meet the kind of fruitless, how happy a person is, how free, and improving yourself is the most important thing.

03.There is still a lot of important work to be done.

I just understand that in this world, in addition to love, there are many important things to do, commitment to family, commitment to oneself, and the need for life, sometimes, when you can't even solve basic material problems, it's even more difficult to love, referring to Maslow's needs theory, which is why many young boys break up with their girlfriends, when the pressure is adults and tired, girlfriends have to ask noisily, why don't you pick me up**? Don't you love me anymore? Naturally, I can't stand it.

04.If you don't feel in love, you can talk about it.

Nowadays, many young people don't want to fall in love, and think that it is good to be alone, some people are too demanding and can't find a suitable partner, and some people are too poor to find a partner. Love is not just talking, feelings depend on fate, when love doesn't come, it's useless to be in a hurry, when love comes, you can't stop it.

05.It's too constrained to fall in love.

Because it's annoying to be in love. One person is very free, two people have to chat every day, but also consider each other's feelings, and prefer to be alone and chic. If the stress and troubles that come with it become double, you will spend too much time, money, and energy to maintain your love.

After weighing the pros and cons, some people will of course choose not to fall in love and not to cause trouble for themselves.

06.Reality does not allow it.

I was abused by work every day, let alone caring for someone; Chased by life every day, when I open my eyes, it is rent, living expenses, transportation expenses, and my head is full of money, how can I think about love. The cost is too high, and now getting married requires a house and a car, and many people don't want to get married and have no motivation to fall in love.

Because there are too many negative emotions in the environment right now.

First of all, choosing whether or not to fall in love is a very personal decision, and everyone's situation is different. Some people choose not to be in a relationship all the time because they prefer to be alone, or they think that at this stage, they need to focus on their personal development and career and do not have the time or energy to fall in love. These reasons are all reasonable, because everyone has their own lifestyle and development plan, and they should make choices based on their actual situation.

However, some people do not fall in love because they are afraid of being hurt or other psychological disorders. These people may find it difficult to fall in love because they need to be emotionally committed and are at risk of rejection or hurt. In such cases, it is advisable to seek the help of a psychologist or counselor to overcome these obstacles and learn to build a healthy romantic relationship.

Also, it takes time and patience to find a good person. Love is not an easy thing to do, and it requires the joint efforts and commitment of both parties. If you wish to find a true partner, it is recommended that you do not rush to find a match, but to live your life to the fullest, do what you love, and build good relationships with others.

Finally, it is advisable to be open and honest when it comes to relationships. Learn to express your feelings and thoughts, and be willing to take risks to accept challenges and difficulties that may arise. This is not to say that you should give affection lightly or accept unhealthy relationships, but rather be open and honest in finding the right person.

1. I have been injured in a relationship and have not recovered;

When you have a serious relationship, but you break up in the end, it will be difficult for you to like someone else, maybe you still believe in love, but you just don't believe that it will happen to you.

Not everyone, after a period of injury, can put it down neatly and then quickly come out.

It's like you're almost done writing an essay, but the teacher says you've scribbled up the assignment and told you to write it all over again. Although you remember the beginning and the content, you don't bother to write it, because an article has taken all your energy, and you have to start all over again.

2. I didn't meet the right person, so I didn't want to settle;

There are indeed many people in this world, but it is not easy to meet the right person.

If they can't meet the right person, some people choose to settle, but some people are not willing to give in no matter what. He attaches great importance to love, and would rather die alone than find someone to fall in love with and marry casually.

You can do anything, but you can't have feelings, I'd rather live alone than find someone to mess around.

3. The circle is small, there is little contact with the opposite sex, and the personality is not good at communicating;

When your circle is too small and you don't know a few people at all, then it is often difficult for you to meet people who are suitable for you in this limited social circle.

There is another reason, that is, most young people nowadays have social difficulties to some extent, and they may boast on WeChat on their mobile phones, but they are not good at speaking in front of real people; may play in front of the same sex, but be quiet in front of the opposite sex;

I'm not used to taking the initiative to hook up, let alone be sultry, knowing that there will be a story if I take the initiative, but I never take the initiative. You say you want to find a partner, but you can't resist it in your heart, and as soon as others show you favor, you will immediately distance yourself from each other.

4. After being single for a long time, I am addicted, and I don't want to fall in love very much;

If you have been single for a long time, let alone twisting the bottle cap, the bottled water will be carried for you in minutes. is so strong that he doubts that he can open the world, and he is much better than too many people.

And now the "love" of the rising fiber is not very reliable, so I think it's okay to be single. They can't take care of you anyway, so they just take care of themselves.

A single person has been addicted for a long time, and he doesn't really want to fall in love, he enjoys that kind of freedom very much, he can do whatever he wants, you don't have to be controlled by anyone at all, I don't want anyone to intervene in my life, and I am not ready to fall in love, who to marry and have children.

5. It's hard enough to live, and you still have the leisure to fall in love;

Falling in love has always been a need for a certain amount of capital and a certain material foundation, because the reality is really that poor couples mourn everything, let alone get married without money, and even love is difficult to do.

Especially when your own conditions are not very good, then you have no time to take care of love, and will only spend all your time and energy on making money.

I always feel that I have to wait until my conditions are better and I have the capital on my body, and then I want to think about falling in love and getting married.

It's hurt by love, right? Respect your own heart and wish you happiness.