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Dare to be good at walking your own way, choosing to learn is right, the so-called people live to learn all the time, knowledge is endless, with a wealth of knowledge, the future is still far for you? There is a story about a college student who graduated, and a friend asked him if you "graduated"? When?

The college student said yes, just this year. Yes, that's just that he graduated from college and finished college. But the real one has not yet graduated, and a person is not considered a graduate until he dies, and he can learn every day of his life.

What he learned in college is only a little knowledge, but will he have anything else in society? Others can ...... computer, accounting, logistics, nursing, procurement, management, administration and human resourcesWill he? The answer is yes, as long as he learns, a person is only willing to learn, there is nothing that will not be, with the spirit of willing to learn, can it not infect the people around him?

When you have a successful career, do you still worry about love? Friend, let's learn with confidence. This is the right path for your future.

I'm pretty much like you. There are very few friends. Female friends: I have a very good and beautiful junior high school friend.

For various reasons, we never saw each other again. I'm more of a sunken type. So don't recruit girls to like.

I don't think you have to get married. There is a lot of pressure to get married, a house, a car. Wedding banquet. Wait a minute.

It will be a pleasure to meet a virtuous wife. When you meet an ignorant wife, it becomes very stressful.

So, let things come naturally. Being single can earn as much as you can spend and don't need to think about your family.

There's nothing wrong with being single. I am 21 years old. I've long thought it's good to be single. Do what you love. What's so bad?

Wouldn't your ideas be too naïve......It's not that your family is poor, it's not that you're not handsome, it's that you're not self-motivated, you don't have a sense of responsibility, if you don't change yourself, even if you go to beg for food, there will be no result......

Have you ever wondered why you're alive? You don't even deserve to beg ......

How can a manly man have no wife!! You don't want to find a girlfriend or get married, but can you refuse or stop someone from liking you and marrying you? Wild lilies also have spring!

Money is earned, not just talking! Handsome is not the criterion for finding friends! Self-motivation is something you can strive for! You don't have so much confidence in yourself, no wonder you have this thought.

Everything needs to come for a long time, maybe you will meet someone you like, someone who loves you.

You think the same as me, how annoying it is to get married and fall in love.

Haha: There are a lot of such characters

At this time, it is the best period of learning, training, and exercise, don't think about falling in love and getting married so much.

If you improve yourself, you will have a better love and a better future.

When I was so old at your age, I was a poor student who received subsidies, I fell in love for the first time when I was 26 years old, and now I am 31 years old, the column editor-in-chief of a news unit. If you trust me, listen to me and focus on "being poor and being alone"!

Wow, your name is the same column as mine, let's talk privately about it, what's your name, jsx?

Brothers. I'm just like you.

I feel the same way.

Why am I reluctant to get married, this is my situation.

One, there are many failures, and there is no enthusiasm.

To say that you don't want to get married is false. Seeing others in pairs, I still have some envy, and I also hope that there will be someone together.

Every time I put a lot of time and effort into it, I failed, and now I start to doubt that I can still get married.

Second, the inferiority complex in the heart.

When I just graduated, with a salary of 2,000, I always felt that 18,000 yuan was a small amount of money.

Now that I'm older, I'm no longer tempered by reality, I've lost my ambitions, and there's no light in my eyes. Looking at such a pitiful salary every day, I feel that it is difficult to support myself, and I have the courage to get married.

Now even if you meet a girl you like, you don't dare to pursue it boldly, for fear of rejection, and for fear that you are not able to take on family responsibilities.

It's still single to save money, nibble on steamed buns, eat a bowl of instant noodles, and the day can pass.

I feel that I have achieved nothing, my income is not high, I have no house or car, not only do I hate it by others, but I hate it.

Third, get used to living alone.

After so many years of being single, I have long been accustomed to living alone. In addition to going to work every day, I basically stay at home, and I usually don't like to talk or communicate with others. It's nice to be alone and quiet.

Once you get married, you are faced with the woman's chattering every day, and sometimes it's scary to think about this kind of life.

I'm used to being single, it's hard to get along with others, and I don't know how to get along with girls. It's difficult to even communicate, let alone coax girls to be happy.

For my introverted personality. Chasing girls is much more difficult than taking exams.

There is a high probability that no one will want this kind of honest person, this kind of person is very boring, not the type that girls like, so it's good to be alone.

Maybe the relationship is traumatized, so I don't want to get married.