She refused to confess to me twice, but each time she felt bad

Updated on psychology 2024-06-18
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Some people are only suitable for being friends, and many topics do not mean that feelings have entered, listen to a buddy, whether you are really destined or not are really friends, you can only use time to identify. Time will judge everything, it doesn't matter if you are unrequited love, or if she really feels more and more deeply about you! The result is not what others are commenting on!

    Rely on your own time to judge, if you are in a hurry, the situation may not be better, I wish you happiness (whether you are friends or lovers, you must be happy).

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Personal experience feels that this girl really has no feelings for you, just as a friend, and thinks that you are actually a good person, and quite willing to get along with you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm sure she's feeling for you, so hold on ... Happiness is yours.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Ha, it's a netizen, right? There are not many successful cases of online dating, most of them end up due to geographical restrictions, but they still work hard and find a more reliable one in real life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I really want to help you analyze, but I'm afraid you won't! So let's just say a few words, in fact, girlfriends are not omnipotent, and the friend who can really reassure a smart woman should actually be a person who loves her. I can tell you 100% of your current state that you are out of play, and you are developing in the direction of a confidante with blue face.

    The more ripe it is, the harder it is to start.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Do you want to continue to confess after two failed confessions? It's a hard question to think about. If you continue to confess, you may have to bear the risk of rejection, but if you don't continue to confess, two people really don't have a chance to be together, and there will always be a dilemma in life, so do you continue or not?

    Let's think about it from two perspectives.

    Do you want to continue to confess after two failed confessions?

    There is really no need to continue to confess that you failed twice, the first time you were rejected, I believe that most people have already flinched, but you are brave enough to go for the second time, which has made many people admire your courage, but the second time was also rejected, although this is a very uncomfortable thing, but it also makes you understand that if you don't like it, you don't like it, and it's useless to confess again. If you don't like it, you can refuse it decently, and it's that simple to do things. It's no longer like when I was a child, it's time to worry about which apple to eat, which apple you like, respect her wishes, and let yourself be able to get rid of it as soon as possible, don't continue to confess, don't do useless struggles, use the time to give her confession, and then meet the next girl who makes your heart move, not one step earlier or one step later, but just happened to meet, you were far happier at that time than now.

    Sometimes feelings arise suddenly, or they may disappear suddenly, after you are rejected twice, you may not like her so much, at this time letting go is also a very free and easy thing, and when you think about it later, you will only shake your head and smile at the stubbornness and purity at that time, people always have to grow, your rose is far more precious than others, but I haven't met it now.

    It is necessary to continue.

    It's really not easy to meet someone you really like in your life, if you like her enough, what is it if you fail twice? And you can learn from your failures so that you can succeed better in your next confession. When you hesitate to confess twice and whether to continue, she may be waiting for you to confess to her next time, in case once, he will be moved by your perseverance, which should be the best ending.

    A person's life is like a journey, and it takes several reincarnations to get this journey, and this journey is very short, so you might as well be bold, be bold, love this person, climb a mountain and chase a dream.

    There is no need to continue.

    Everyone's psychological tolerance is different, if you are always obsessed with confession, but in exchange for rejection again and again, it will have a huge impact on your study or work, you will be depressed all day because of this matter, unable to concentrate on doing things, so it is also a harm to yourself, it is better to let go after the confession failed twice, so that you can face the facts calmly, open-minded forward, time does not always stay in those times, there are so many beautiful things waiting for you to explore.

    Try again for love.

    When you think about whether to continue if you confess your failure, in fact, your heart has been shaken, you are afraid of being hurt, and you want to pursue love, but if you have the spirit of becoming more and more courageous, of course, you will continue to confess again, in order not to leave regrets for yourself, in order to let the people you like see you, it is worth you to try again.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can consider giving up temporarily, if you can communicate normally and get along normally, then, temporarily stop confessing, change yourself, improve your ability, improve your image, give full play to your talents, show your strengths, as long as there is contact, there may be hope, if you don't have the next confession object, you can continue to get along well, the situation may change.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think I should give up, because it's been twice, girls may really don't like you, knowing that there is no result, there is no need to work hard, love needs both parties to be willing to do so, not one party can have results if they work hard, if one party is entangled, it is also a kind of torture for the other party, so it is better to give up earlier and stop bothering others.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I've seen a movie called 101 marriage proposals, I was impressed by the spirit of the male protagonist in the movie who didn't give up, in the pursuit of love, it's easy to give up, but if you really love, you will be reluctant, even if it hurts, you have to face the wind. If the real fate has not arrived, let it go first, give each other a loose space, start with the care of friends, and love is more willing to be happy for her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think that if the confession is rejected by her twice, it means that there is no hope, and there is no need to dwell on it. Forget about it. There's no need to go on like this, it's a little easier.

    Find another girlfriend again. In this way, others are more comfortable, you don't pester her, and she is a little happier.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's better to give up, after all, people have already rejected twice, even if they confess again, it will still be the same result.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think you've failed twice in your confession, so don't bother anymore, let her go, and let yourself go.

    Confessing twice without success is enough to prove that she doesn't like you, she doesn't have any feelings for you, and it's possible that she has someone she likes, so even if you are with her, you won't last long.

    I think it's better for you to give up, maybe you can, but if you keep pestering, she might hate you, because people are always longing for what they can't get.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Confessed twice.,Rejected it.,Anyway, I don't think I can confess anymore.,Because this girl should be disgusted with you.,But I don't know why I rejected you.,If you really don't like you.,You ask clearly.,Then you shouldn't bother her.,If she's hesitating.,You still have a chance.,See you distinguish the situation.,Then take the next step.。

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's just three things, you can give yourself and her another chance, try hard, if you don't succeed, don't force it, there will always be your own rainbow after the rain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Being rejected twice already shows his attitude, he doesn't like you, so you don't have to continue, it will only make the two of you more embarrassed, and it will also annoy him, you can talk to him, but don't confess it again. It's still okay to be friends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Then give up and refuse to do it twice, which means that the other party really doesn't want to deal with you, and you can meet a more suitable person in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think if the other party refuses twice, this situation shows that the possibility of the two of you being together is not too great, so it is better to be interesting and try not to disturb him, so that you will have the opportunity to find other people in your life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Feelings that do not bear fruit should be abandoned.

    If a confession is rejected, this is still understandable. But the two confessions were refused, indicating that the other party didn't like you at all. Such emotions are fruitless, so give up early.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Now that you have a decision, make it. Go with your heart. Maybe the two of you just don't have fate. Believe in yourself and you will always find what you like.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If she doesn't have a boyfriend, you can continue to confess her, provided that she doesn't dislike someone, and there's nothing wrong with confessing, so if you really like her and she doesn't dislike it, I support you.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are rejected twice in your confession, then you should give up first, you can't say give up now, you can only say that you may not like a little bit, so you have to work hard now, make yourself really good, then you will like you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Actually, I personally think. It doesn't matter if you are rejected, as long as you love someone. Express it and make it clear to the other party, if you continue, you still won't get recognition. It may have to be done differently.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then give up, no matter how you confess, it's the same result, she doesn't like you just doesn't like you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Two confessions, were clearly rejected, then maybe the other party really has no intention of falling in love at the moment, don't be discouraged, distressed You can get along as a normal friend first Later, you can watch your emotional development, go with the flow, you may meet a better Oh.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Don't give up, if you like it, say it, don't worry, one day you will succeed.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I confessed twice and gave up, I think you can hold on one last time, because there is a saying that things are only three, and if you can't do it three times, then you should not insist on it again.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.

    After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.

    Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.

    This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".

    Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, secondly, very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.

    2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.

    Why did confession fail? This point must be analyzed, to avoid making the same mistake next time, some confessions, never reflect on this problem, wait for the next confession, and fail, and some are rejected more times, began to cast nets in a large area, selective fishing.

    I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.

    Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.

    3) Try a second confession.

    After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!

    Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last confession failed, maybe you didn't do it enough, maybe you were too nervous, maybe you were too sudden, and scared the other party, why not try to confess again?

    Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.

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