Rural elderly, are they happy in their old age? What do you rely on for retirement?

It's not going to be happy. There is a very serious phenomenon in the countryside, that is, most of the old people are counting on their children to support themselves, they rarely leave a pension for themselves, and how much money they have is given to their sons to marry their daughters-in-law, but in fact, for them, the old age life is not as happy as they imagined.

Relying on his children to provide for the elderly, he has no pension and is not free to do anything. In the countryside, those old people who rely on their children to support the elderly, when they reach old age, they have to obtain the consent of their children no matter what they do, especially some widowed old people, it is impossible for them to find a companion in their old age, because their sons and daughters will not allow them to do so, and some elderly people may have some diseases that cost more money, so some children are not willing to treat him because of economic reasons.

Do you think that if the old man is supporting his own and saving a sum of money by himself, he still needs to get the consent of his children? Not at all.

It is not happy to live a life in old age by looking at people's faces. Many old people in rural areas are looking at their son's face, their daughter's face, and their daughter-in-law's face in their later years, because they know that they have to rely on them to support their old age, so the life of the old people is still quite aggrieved.

Sometimes you can't buy something if you want to, because you have no income, and if your son and daughter-in-law are not so filial, then it will be difficult for you to buy something.

Most of the elderly who rely on their children to support their old age are living miserably. There are also some exceptions, that is, his sons and daughters are particularly filial, so they live well in their later years, but in most cases, they are those old people who completely rely on their children to support their old age, and they have lived a miserable life in previous years, such as his house was occupied by his children, and he can only go to live in a broken house, and he has to live on the charity of his children for three meals a day, and he is particularly aggrieved.

Old age is really not happy, this kind of old age, people who need to rely on others to live, will always have to look at the faces of their children, can not live a happy life freely.

Yes, this is also a phenomenon that exists in many rural areas, and these elderly people are also very happy, and the family is also very harmonious.

Most of the elderly in the countryside today are happy. Happiness is a feeling, but everyone has a different understanding of happiness and has different requirements. I summarized it and felt that the following three types of elderly people lived the happiest lives.

1. The elderly who love life and bear hardships and stand hard work.

Most of these old people have gone through wind and frost, in the polishing and tempering of life, they are still full of yearning for life in their hearts, and they are full of beautiful visions for the future. They have a drive in their bones, they can't be idle all day long, save money, and accumulate enough pension money. The old queen has savings in his hands, and he doesn't have to stretch out his hand to his children and grandchildren, and he lives a happy and comfortable life.

2. The elderly who are content and have a wide range of hobbies.

The old man who is content and happy live the happiest, life is originally mixed, no one's life is destined to be smooth sailing, but this kind of old man is open-minded, has no quarrel with the world, is at peace with the situation, can see everything, think clearly, is not impatient or impatient, and can face it calmly.

Most of these elderly people are physically and mentally healthy, often smiling and amiable on their faces, and have their own hobbies, either like to play chess; Either good at raising flowers; Either hobby fishing; Either you can sing and dance. They don't have too high needs and desires for life, as long as they have clothes to wear and food, they can live a comfortable and satisfying life.

3. The elderly who are in good health and accompanied by their families.

This kind of elderly people are healthy, able to take care of themselves, and have the company and care of their families. Every festival is a family feast, and the whole family is happy. In the strong family atmosphere, even if three meals a day are just coarse tea and light rice, life is very happy.

The old people who usually have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoy the joy of family life are the happiest.

The elderly who live happily in the countryside are often cheerful, friendly and kind people. When they are young, they pay great attention to their children's education, and use their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so when their parents are old, they can only enjoy the blessings.

A very small number of elderly people in rural areas have retirement salaries, and those who live well are in good health, and their children do not live together, and they still have a certain economic foundation, so they don't have to rely on their children!

Use your words and deeds to influence your children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so when your parents are old, you can only enjoy the blessings.

The elderly who live happily in the countryside are often cheerful, and they are very able to endure hardships and are willing to help others. Friendly and kind people. When they were young, they paid great attention to their children's education and used their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who came out of the family were often very promising, and they also knew how to honor their parents.

So when my parents are old, they can just enjoy their happiness.

I think it is those who are cheerful, friendly and kind, who will pay great attention to their children's education and use their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so this kind of elderly people live the best.

Today, a large proportion of the older people who help care for children are highly educated and highly educated.

They themselves have been well influenced by culture, and they will have their own set of relatively scientific and reasonable parenting concepts. This kind of elderly person will have a good sense of etiquette when taking care of children and be able to treat children rationally. At the same time, due to their own self-control, they are able to correctly guide their children to develop good living and reading habits from an early age.

Contented old people live their happiest lives. Life is meant to be full of flavors. No one's life is destined to be smooth sailing.

However, this type of older person is open-minded, isolated, and able to go with the flow. <>

They can see everything clearly, they can face it calmly, and most of these elderly people are physically and mentally healthy. They are always smiling and pleasant. They have their own hobbies, or they like to play chess; Either good at growing flowers; Or like fishing; Either you sing well and dance well.

They don't have too high demands and desires for life. As long as they have clothes and food, they can live a comfortable life, these elderly people are in good health, able to take care of themselves, and are accompanied and cared for by their families. Every festival is a family feast and the whole family is happy.

In a strong family atmosphere, even if three meals a day are just one less meal, life is very happy. Usually with children and grandchildren on their lap, the elderly who enjoy family happiness are the happiest, and true happiness is when the elderly have a sense of security, support, friendship, and a harmonious family. In fact, there are many families who don't have much financial income, but they all live well, most of them because of their families.

Having a happy family is happier than anything else. <>

The most important thing is that this type of older person has new ideas, is better at learning, and they do not reject new things. As long as you're on the right path, they can innovate. As a result, they can communicate more harmoniously with parents on hot issues in their children's education.

If you have an elderly person with a relatively high artistic accomplishment, your mother can also entrust the child to the elderly, which is equivalent to finding a good teacher for the child.

There is a subsistence allowance, a pension, a pension, a relatively wealthy life, their own wife, and the elderly who have the ability to do it are the happiest because they can do it themselves, and they don't have to rely on their children for money.

In good health, the children are relatively successful, can send living expenses to the elderly on time, and will go home to visit the elderly on holidays, such old people are currently very happy.

That must be that you have children and daughters, and you still have some pensions, so you don't have to rely on others anymore.

It is a beautiful thing for a person to live happily in his old age. However, some elderly people are single for various reasons, which will have a great impact on their later life, and some of these elderly people will choose to remarry and pursue their own love and happiness.

I am very supportive of the practice of these older people. The reason why I say this is because happiness in old age is the real happiness of a person, husband and wife can only get real happiness by living together before hail, and the elderly can get better care in life when they remarry, which is more conducive to the happiness of life in old age.

1. For a person, happiness in old age is true happiness.

We spend our whole lives in pursuit of a happy life. And for a person, true happiness is actually the happiness of old age.

Specifically, when we are young and when we reach middle age, we have to study hard, we have to work hard in our careers, and we are under a lot of pressure, and it is difficult for us to achieve true happiness in such a state. And when you are in your old age, these pressures are released, and you can really enjoy life happily, and you are happy at this time.

2. Only when husband and wife live together can they achieve true happiness.

Starting a family and starting a family is the trajectory of most of our lives.

In fact, only when a person has a complete family and lives with his lover can he fully appreciate the beauty of life and truly feel happiness. For those elderly people who are single, they cannot feel this happiness when they are alone, so it is necessary for them to choose to remarry. I am very supportive of their pursuit of happiness.

3. The elderly can get better care in life after remarriage, which is conducive to the happiness of the elderly in their later years.

From a practical point of view, the remarriage of the elderly is very beneficial to their happiness in old age. The reason why I say this is because the elderly who remarry can get a lot of care from their lovers, and their food, clothing, housing and daily life will be more comfortable and happy, so that the elderly will feel happier after remarriage. I certainly support things that can make the elderly happier.

I want every senior person to have a happy marriage and a happy life.

The happy life of the elderly in rural areas is as follows. First, good health, this is very important. Having a good body does not drag down the children, and the quality of one's life is also high.

Eat moving, eat what you want, walk around, go wherever you want. The eyes are not dazzled, the ears are not deaf, and they can communicate with people, this is happiness. Otherwise, there is no happiness with money.

Zhang Erma in the village, others envy her, saying that she fell into the nest of blessings. The old man works at the veterinarian station and earns a lot of money a year. The son opened a shop, selling veterinary drugs and feed, and the money he earned in a year was not counted.

The daughter-in-law opened a hair salon, and the business was booming. The old man has always been very good to his second mother, and his son and daughter-in-law are also filial, but the second mother's health is not good, and she has suffered a cerebral hemorrhage twice, thanks to the money, otherwise, she may have been gone for a long time. She is now paralyzed in bed, unable to sit and walk, and the family hires a nanny to serve her.

Sometimes the nanny pushed her out and chatted with the sisters in the village, and the women in the village said that the second mother was blessed, and the second mother smiled bitterly and said, I would rather be poor now, and I hope to be healthy and not sick like you, take grandchildren at home, dance square dances, and cook some favorite meals by yourself, how good. Now I'm like this, what's the point of living, I can't eat casually, I can't go anywhere, I can't even go to the toilet myself, I have no privacy at all, let alone dignity.

Filial piety of children and harmony of the family are more important. When people are old, they don't have too many needs, they just hope that their children and grandchildren will come around their knees and come to get together often, and look at these relatives and relatives, and the old people will feel proud and proud.

My parents-in-law gave birth to six sons, and in the countryside, there are many children, and the living conditions are definitely not good, which is inevitable. But these children are very sensible and obedient, and none of them disobey their parents.

Now there are six more daughters-in-law, four grandchildren, two granddaughters, and a granddaughter-in-law, and a great-grandson.

Our family is very harmonious, and if there is something in a small family, everyone will help together. On the New Year's Day, when the old man celebrates his birthday, he goes to the old man's house to get together and have a lively time.

The elder brothers led by example, the younger brothers followed suit, giving money to the elderly, giving more and giving less, no one cared, the sons did their best, and the daughters-in-law did not say. The people in the village were envious of their parents-in-law, saying that they had given birth to several good sons and found good daughters-in-law.

When my father-in-law was alive, he smiled every day, and his heart was happy, and there was nothing happier than a child being filial and sensible.

After the death of the father-in-law, these children treated the mother-in-law better, and the mother-in-law had nothing to do every day, so she walked around and found the old sisters to play small cards and talk together.

But she is a person who can't be idle, and when spring comes, she grows vegetables and raises flowers in the yard, and the day is very fulfilling.

In fact, it does not mean that you are happy if you have money, as long as you have food and drink, good health, filial piety of your children, and peace of your family, as an elderly person in the countryside, this is happiness.

I wish all the old people in the world a happy old age!