Is it the happiness of the elderly in the countryside or the happiness of the elderly in the city?

Everyone's definition of happiness is different, and everyone's answer is definitely different. Some people like the convenience of the city and the atmosphere of the city. Personally, if I can survive well in the countryside, I think I will choose the countryside because I like to be quiet and like to be close to nature.

The clean environment in the countryside, the clean sky, the insects and birds, and the beautiful mountains and rivers are all what I yearn for.

The city is prosperous, the economy is active, the transportation is convenient, the people's cultural quality is high, and the quality of life is ten or a hundred times stronger than that of the countryside. In the final analysis, cities are the product of the development and progress of human society, and they are not on the same level as rural areas. In short, which place is happier in the countryside or in the city?

Generally speaking, the elderly, peasants and manual laborers are happier in the countryside, while the young, workers and intellectual workers are happier in the cities.

In rural areas, there is basically a yard and a house, and there is no problem of noisy upstairs and downstairs in the middle of the night affecting rest, and there is no property fee, and the cost of living is relatively low! If you have nothing to do, you can grow some vegetables and raise some poultry, and the food safety is relatively much better! The air quality is also incomparable to the city, more suitable for the elderly, the slow-paced life will make people feel very comfortable, the urban infrastructure is perfect, if you are still struggling at the age of suggestion or in the city will be much better, the opportunity is great, the child's education and medical conditions are better than the countryside, in general, it depends on personal choice, I plan to go back to the countryside in the future, the gap between the infrastructure between the rural and the city will be smaller and smaller after the development of the society, and the countryside is a good place to like a quiet life!

Of course, it is a city, and the employment in the city is wide, as long as you want to do it, you can find something to do, and the salary is higher than that in the countryside. In rural areas, except for a small number of people who start businesses and find employment in rural areas, most people have only one way to go out to work.

In the city, the infrastructure of the city is more perfect than the rural area, and people's travel, medical care, education and culture are better than the rural areas.

City people feel that the city is happy. Life is convenient and amateur life is abundant. The transportation is convenient, urban people feel that urban life is unhappy, air pollution, high pressure, fast pace, dizzy to say, happiness or not depends entirely on their own requirements.

Some people are happy if they have enough to eat. Some people don't feel happy when they earn 1 billion, but I personally feel that as long as there is a family, parents are there, children and daughters-in-law are there, this is happiness.

Everyone has a different definition of happiness and different choices. Personally, I feel that city life will be happier. I was born in a rural area, and I was deeply touched by the fact that I was admitted to a key university through hard study and walked out of the mountainous area, and I have changed jobs several times in my working life, and I have spent a lot of time in the center of a first-tier city and a small county town in a third- or fourth-tier city.

Life in the countryside is indeed very leisurely, and the more tiring time of the year is the sowing and harvesting season of each year. However, farm work is indeed hard, requiring a lot of physical strength, and the input and output are not necessarily proportional. Self-sufficiency is not a problem to support yourself, but it is basically hopeless to live a higher quality of life.

Rural people feel that they live happily in the countryside, guarding their families and land, and guarding their parents and children. Some people in the city feel that the rural life is happy, chickens, ducks, fish and geese, pastoral life, good air and good environment, and some people feel unhappy, rural life is inconvenient, and information is backward. Poor quality of life.

So I feel unhappy.

Most of the elderly in the countryside today are happy. Happiness is a feeling, but everyone has a different understanding of happiness and has different requirements. I summarized it and felt that the following three types of elderly people lived the happiest lives.

1. The elderly who love life and bear hardships and stand hard work.

Most of these old people have gone through wind and frost, in the polishing and tempering of life, they are still full of yearning for life in their hearts, and they are full of beautiful visions for the future. They have a drive in their bones, they can't be idle all day long, save money, and accumulate enough pension money. The old queen has savings in his hands, and he doesn't have to stretch out his hand to his children and grandchildren, and he lives a happy and comfortable life.

2. The elderly who are content and have a wide range of hobbies.

The old man who is content and happy live the happiest, life is originally mixed, no one's life is destined to be smooth sailing, but this kind of old man is open-minded, has no quarrel with the world, is at peace with the situation, can see everything, think clearly, is not impatient or impatient, and can face it calmly.

Most of these elderly people are physically and mentally healthy, often smiling and amiable on their faces, and have their own hobbies, either like to play chess; Either good at raising flowers; Either hobby fishing; Either you can sing and dance. They don't have too high needs and desires for life, as long as they have clothes to wear and food, they can live a comfortable and satisfying life.

3. The elderly who are in good health and accompanied by their families.

This kind of elderly people are healthy, able to take care of themselves, and have the company and care of their families. Every festival is a family feast, and the whole family is happy. In the strong family atmosphere, even if three meals a day are just coarse tea and light rice, life is very happy.

The old people who usually have children and grandchildren around their knees and enjoy the joy of family life are the happiest.

The elderly who live happily in the countryside are often cheerful, friendly and kind people. When they are young, they pay great attention to their children's education, and use their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so when their parents are old, they can only enjoy the blessings.

A very small number of elderly people in rural areas have retirement salaries, and those who live well are in good health, and their children do not live together, and they still have a certain economic foundation, so they don't have to rely on their children!

Use your words and deeds to influence your children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so when your parents are old, you can only enjoy the blessings.

The elderly who live happily in the countryside are often cheerful, and they are very able to endure hardships and are willing to help others. Friendly and kind people. When they were young, they paid great attention to their children's education and used their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who came out of the family were often very promising, and they also knew how to honor their parents.

So when my parents are old, they can just enjoy their happiness.

I think it is those who are cheerful, friendly and kind, who will pay great attention to their children's education and use their words and deeds to influence their children, so that the children who come out of the family are often very promising, so this kind of elderly people live the best.

Today, a large proportion of the older people who help care for children are highly educated and highly educated.

They themselves have been well influenced by culture, and they will have their own set of relatively scientific and reasonable parenting concepts. This kind of elderly person will have a good sense of etiquette when taking care of children and be able to treat children rationally. At the same time, due to their own self-control, they are able to correctly guide their children to develop good living and reading habits from an early age.

Contented old people live their happiest lives. Life is meant to be full of flavors. No one's life is destined to be smooth sailing.

However, this type of older person is open-minded, isolated, and able to go with the flow. <>

They can see everything clearly, they can face it calmly, and most of these elderly people are physically and mentally healthy. They are always smiling and pleasant. They have their own hobbies, or they like to play chess; Either good at growing flowers; Or like fishing; Either you sing well and dance well.

They don't have too high demands and desires for life. As long as they have clothes and food, they can live a comfortable life, these elderly people are in good health, able to take care of themselves, and are accompanied and cared for by their families. Every festival is a family feast and the whole family is happy.

In a strong family atmosphere, even if three meals a day are just one less meal, life is very happy. Usually with children and grandchildren on their lap, the elderly who enjoy family happiness are the happiest, and true happiness is when the elderly have a sense of security, support, friendship, and a harmonious family. In fact, there are many families who don't have much financial income, but they all live well, most of them because of their families.

Having a happy family is happier than anything else. <>

The most important thing is that this type of older person has new ideas, is better at learning, and they do not reject new things. As long as you're on the right path, they can innovate. As a result, they can communicate more harmoniously with parents on hot issues in their children's education.

If you have an elderly person with a relatively high artistic accomplishment, your mother can also entrust the child to the elderly, which is equivalent to finding a good teacher for the child.

There is a subsistence allowance, a pension, a pension, a relatively wealthy life, their own wife, and the elderly who have the ability to do it are the happiest because they can do it themselves, and they don't have to rely on their children for money.

In good health, the children are relatively successful, can send living expenses to the elderly on time, and will go home to visit the elderly on holidays, such old people are currently very happy.

That must be that you have children and daughters, and you still have some pensions, so you don't have to rely on others anymore.

The happy life of the elderly in rural areas is as follows. First, good health, this is very important. Having a good body does not drag down the children, and the quality of one's life is also high.

Eat moving, eat what you want, walk around, go wherever you want. The eyes are not dazzled, the ears are not deaf, and they can communicate with people, this is happiness. Otherwise, there is no happiness with money.

Zhang Erma in the village, others envy her, saying that she fell into the nest of blessings. The old man works at the veterinarian station and earns a lot of money a year. The son opened a shop, selling veterinary drugs and feed, and the money he earned in a year was not counted.

The daughter-in-law opened a hair salon, and the business was booming. The old man has always been very good to his second mother, and his son and daughter-in-law are also filial, but the second mother's health is not good, and she has suffered a cerebral hemorrhage twice, thanks to the money, otherwise, she may have been gone for a long time. She is now paralyzed in bed, unable to sit and walk, and the family hires a nanny to serve her.

Sometimes the nanny pushed her out and chatted with the sisters in the village, and the women in the village said that the second mother was blessed, and the second mother smiled bitterly and said, I would rather be poor now, and I hope to be healthy and not sick like you, take grandchildren at home, dance square dances, and cook some favorite meals by yourself, how good. Now I'm like this, what's the point of living, I can't eat casually, I can't go anywhere, I can't even go to the toilet myself, I have no privacy at all, let alone dignity.

Filial piety of children and harmony of the family are more important. When people are old, they don't have too many needs, they just hope that their children and grandchildren will come around their knees and come to get together often, and look at these relatives and relatives, and the old people will feel proud and proud.

My parents-in-law gave birth to six sons, and in the countryside, there are many children, and the living conditions are definitely not good, which is inevitable. But these children are very sensible and obedient, and none of them disobey their parents.

Now there are six more daughters-in-law, four grandchildren, two granddaughters, and a granddaughter-in-law, and a great-grandson.

Our family is very harmonious, and if there is something in a small family, everyone will help together. On the New Year's Day, when the old man celebrates his birthday, he goes to the old man's house to get together and have a lively time.

The elder brothers led by example, the younger brothers followed suit, giving money to the elderly, giving more and giving less, no one cared, the sons did their best, and the daughters-in-law did not say. The people in the village were envious of their parents-in-law, saying that they had given birth to several good sons and found good daughters-in-law.

When my father-in-law was alive, he smiled every day, and his heart was happy, and there was nothing happier than a child being filial and sensible.

After the death of the father-in-law, these children treated the mother-in-law better, and the mother-in-law had nothing to do every day, so she walked around and found the old sisters to play small cards and talk together.

But she is a person who can't be idle, and when spring comes, she grows vegetables and raises flowers in the yard, and the day is very fulfilling.

In fact, it does not mean that you are happy if you have money, as long as you have food and drink, good health, filial piety of your children, and peace of your family, as an elderly person in the countryside, this is happiness.

I wish all the old people in the world a happy old age!

In the countryside, the elderly who violated the family planning policy back then, and the elderly who had more than two children, lived the happiest

Personally, I think that not all rural elderly people live happily, but at least some rural elderly people live very happily, such as the elderly with children and grandchildren. If you are old, you will choose to go back to the countryside because the air will be better and the pressure will not be so great. <>

In fact, some rural elderly people are still relatively happy, especially if their children are married and have grandchildren, then the rural elderly will feel that their life is worth it, and they have hands and feet, so they can live a particularly good life in the second half of their lives. However, there are still some rural elderly people, if they do not have children, in fact, they are often not so happy, because there are some rural elderly people who think that they are inferior to others. In fact, this is not the case, but these rural old people can't change their minds, so this kind of old people are often not so happy.

In addition, there are some elderly people in rural areas who may not be able to adapt to urban life at all, but the weather in rural areas is particularly good, and there are no high water and electricity bills, let alone property fees, so there is actually not so much pressure on the economy. <>

When I get old, I will choose to go back to the countryside, because the pressure of life in the countryside is not so great, and I can go out fishing or square dance with my like-minded friends, and life is still relatively comfortable. Now many rural areas have improved very well, especially the green environment is very good, and the air is very fresh, but in the city, you can only smell the exhaust fumes of cars, so you will definitely choose to retire in the countryside. Although many rich people have bought houses in the city, they will not let others live in their hometowns in the countryside, because these rich people will choose to return to their hometowns to support their old age when they are old.

The countryside is really not as poor as before, but it is very suitable for living, and everyone's understanding of happiness is different. <>

Finally, I hope that everyone can live a very happy life when they are old, and I also hope that you can choose to retire in ** according to your actual situation.