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Anonymous users2024-02-12First, see what you need in your heart and look for ways to meet your needs. If you need high-quality communication, then maybe the elderly are not a good candidate. Fortunately, we are in the information age, please find your friends to communicate.
Also, the platform has a listener who can find their help.
If you need the warmth of the family, then let yourself grow up actively and happily, and then find someone you love, set up your own small family, and then have a good warmth. If you need the company of your parents. At present, it is true that reality cannot be realized.
So, do your own inner companion! Please warm yourself first and accompany yourself!
Secondly, the lives of parents are their own. And your life is yours. Therefore, what your parents' lives are not up to you, and the conflicts between them have nothing to do with you.
Please see for yourself. Find your own trajectory in life. Maybe you are missing some parents' love and companionship in your life, then, you must love yourself well!
Also, your "lifeless" feeling may not be in your environment, but in your heart. Maybe your heart is in such a state at the moment, so it makes you feel that the environment is not good. I know it's not easy to change your mindset.
Especially if you have a lot of unhappiness and dissatisfaction. Please try to use a positive and happy attitude to find the little luck in your daily life, so that your day is a little bright.
If there is a conflict with the elderly about study and work, you can discuss and inform them. Study at a fixed time every day, and work the rest of the time. This may be good for you to use your time and reduce friction between you and the elderly.
Finally, I would like to tell you: there are indeed some moments in life, as if you are at a low point, in the dark, and lonely and don't know what to do.
Actually, there are a lot of people who don't want to be at home, and you are an adult now, so you can leave home and do what you want, whether it's school or work. As long as fellow relatives know that you have not violated the law and discipline, you can rest assured and laugh. Report your safety regularly and be an independent and free version of yourself, and they will not stop you.
But, rest assured, such moments will pass!
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Anonymous users2024-02-11may be because of the divorce of his parents, which has a huge impact on himself, and there is a generation gap between him and the elderly, it will be more difficult to communicate, and he will be very depressed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10This is because you feel that you are abandoned, that you don't have a complete family, that you feel unlucky, so you feel very depressed.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09In the third year of college, you will not only face the anxiety of where to go in the future, but also face the pressure of your family, so you will feel depressed, and you should regulate your heart correctly at this time.
It seems that your family is traditional. The invitations that should be sent must be sent, as for whether he comes or not, it is his business, and others have no right to interfere. Even if others think that the mother is too much, it is her own mother after all, and she must be invited. Let it be.
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