Why do you feel unhappy living with your mother in law?

The most important thing with my in-laws is to have a job, and if you don't hurry up to find one, don't be too little.

Personally, if you don't go to work, they will think that if you eat his son and drink his son, he will have to be obedient like a slave.

If you go to work, then the time you are not at home is your own, and if you are in a bad mood, you can say that you work overtime, and then you will eat and drink outside by yourself or with friends, and then you will be in a better mood.

Just try to shorten the time with them, you and your husband will still disagree, let alone your parents-in-law. Try to be in a good mood outside, and when you come home, you will be much happier, and then when you are happy, you will think about everything.

In short, it is to keep yourself as far away from them as possible, and if you don't have children, you can come back late and come back as much as possible not to get together; If you have children, you will go back normally, and after you go back, you will take your children out to play outside to reduce friction.

Normal. Therefore, not living with each other's parents is one of the first and necessary conditions for marriage.

If you didn't make it clear at the beginning, you probably won't be able to say it hard in the future.

If you don't have any children now, and tell your husband that you are not happy living with his family, and that your husband thinks you are vexatious, you should leave immediately. If your husband is aware of this situation and is moving away from his parents, go ahead.

If you have children now, you can only endure it, and your life will pass quickly, good luck.

Then let's live separately, right?

Falling in love is happy and sweet, because there are only two people, but if you get married, it's not a matter of the two of you, and the people in the other party's family, you can only be truly happy if you integrate into this family.

This principle was also taught to me by my mother, and I remember at first that when I married my husband, my life felt a little depressed, mainly because my mother-in-law was particularly strong.

Because in my mother-in-law's house, the head of the family is my mother-in-law, and my father-in-law and husband listen to my mother-in-law.

Under normal circumstances, it is the mother-in-law who has the final say, no matter what it is, big or small.

So I feel very aggrieved and I can't do anything, so I feel very depressed.

But my mother told me that this is to shout Kaixiang Your life has chosen him Zheng Bo, married him, you should learn to accept his family, accept everything from him, and integrate into this family, since they have lived for so many years, it is impossible for you to change, so you have to learn to accept.

It is impossible to change their lives because of your joining, change their decisions, change their habits, love her should tolerate everything about her, learn to understand her mother, at this time, you feel that you will live a more relaxed life, there is a person who is not in charge, you don't need to think about anything, live a step-by-step life, isn't it more free?

So I listened to my mother, I don't care about anything at home, as long as my mother-in-law says something, it's what? I feel very relaxed and free, I'm off work, it's harder, more tired, Sun shirt but my mother-in-law has cooked the meal, but there are dishes I don't like to eat, but I don't need to do it myself.

Because the in-laws are rarely like the mother's family, they will be more tolerant of us, they can communicate, and each other's living habits are also familiar, and they will be more freewheeling. It takes a while to run in to the in-law's house, whether it is compatible or not is another matter, it is a test of emotional intelligence and repentance IQ, and the husband also has to know how to adjust the chain and engage in a burning atmosphere.

The elderly like to be lively and afraid of loneliness. They are all a family, accommodating each other, living together, and slowly adapting to it after a long time.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law refers to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a family, and there are many issues that need to be paid attention to in getting along. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been complicated since ancient times. With the reform and opening up, affected by various foreign trends, the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have also escalated.

Relationship analysis. 1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also an interpersonal relationship.

2. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a special and difficult interpersonal relationship. Because, first, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law coexist in a community of economic interests, and there will be contradictions between economy and interests, and second, both parties want to let things be controlled by themselves, and contradictions will inevitably arise.

3. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should first adjust the mentality of both parties, and communication should be the main principle.

Whether you are a high-quality mother-in-law, or an uneducated, domineering, and cautious mother-in-law, you can't do without common words. And homely words are the easiest to communicate and exchange, so when you get along with your mother-in-law, you have to coax your mother-in-law and coax you with the most ordinary homely words.

It is not easy to change the mind of a stubborn old man, so this is the time to learn to adapt and empathize. Many times there are differences in views on a thing, such as the method of taking care of children, and the concept of consumption, but there is not necessarily a question of who is right and who is wrong.

At this time, you might as well put yourself in the mother-in-law's perspective and think that what she thinks is right. As long as there is this idea, it is actually a wrong start. In life, adaptation is the greatest wisdom and ability.

Honoring one's parents is everyone's responsibility and obligation! My mother-in-law loves to live with you, and that's a sign of her love for her son! All you have to do is find a way to solve the gap between you and your mother-in-law! It shouldn't be thinking about how to blow my mother-in-law away!

I also don't like to live with the elderly, after all, the way of life is different, and I can't tolerate Erhu before, this kind of thing is the key to the husband, of course, the respect and filial piety for the elderly are in place, so that the husband has nothing to say, and then tell the husband what he thinks, let the husband solve it, his son, the old man will not think much about it.

Since my mother-in-law likes to live with you, let them live, but young people nowadays don't like to live with old people. The elderly sometimes look at the lives of young people today. However, it will gradually get better after a long time, in fact, the old man has no malicious intentions.

They all hope that their sons will live well.

Why is it hateful? If the square is limited and the mother-in-law can take care of herself, you can suggest that the father-in-law and mother-in-law live alone! If there is no father-in-law, it is not impossible for the mother-in-law to live together, haven't you heard of "there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure"?

To embarrass your mother-in-law is to embarrass your husband, think about it! Open one eye and close one eye, measure your breath more, and nothing happens.

Respect for the old and love the young, filial piety to the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, mother-in-law is your husband's mother, you should go to honor the elders, say something unpleasant, everyone has an old time, be broad-minded, change thinking, empathy, I think you can and should take her.

Bad attitude towards mother-in-law.

When people are old, if the elderly of a one-child family lose the affection of their son and daughter-in-law, they will be like a lonely old man and lose their support.

Think about it from your mother's point of view, what would happen to you if she lost the filial piety of her son and daughter-in-law?

What example have you set for your children......

Your attitude is not very good, your mother-in-law must be your husband's mother, you must respect the old man, otherwise why would he raise his son? This is just a way for him to be attached to his son, so please understand, please be considerate of the old man's heart, thank you!!

People are afraid of loneliness when they are old, so he wants to live with you to be more lively, and he has paid a lot of hard work for this family

I don't like it either, because it's inconvenient, my mother-in-law will always take care of you, annoying.

There are also advantages to living with the elderly, so get used to it slowly.

Producers Zhu Min, Zhou Fengying, Keita Sato.