Why do I tend to get depressed after spending time with my in laws?

Hello dear! It's a pleasure to serve you. Living with my mother-in-law, I travel to the spine every day to be depressed solution:

1. Discuss with your husband and live away from your mother-in-law In a person's life, in fact, no one will be afraid of hardship and tiredness; Most people, as long as they are happy, happy, and tired, don't care; 2. Confide in your husband that the unhappiness in your heart is caused by depression because the mood is too depressed and not released; , 3, go back to your parents' house and tell your parents about your situation Most women, in front of their parents, will confide in their parents; 4. Go to a psychiatrist to solve the unpleasant things in your heart Cure the disease, which is the guarantee of good health; So when you are depressed, you must see a psychologist in time; 5. Divorce your husband and don't make yourself more serious If you discuss with your husband, he is still unwilling to leave your mother-in-law to live with you; Then the last way is to leave your husband Mao Liang.

There are the following possibilities.

1. It may be the mother-in-law's own reasons, in real life, some mothers-in-law are really annoying, often bully their daughters-in-law, and have a lot of dissatisfaction with their daughters-in-law.

2. It may also be due to their own reasons, for example, when they were in their mother's house, their mother doted on themselves, and now they live with their mother-in-law's family, and it is impossible for the mother-in-law to spoil herself like her biological mother, so if she feels dissatisfied, she will have resentment towards her mother-in-law, in fact, this is just a difference in personal living habits, and you should not have so much resistance.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been full of contradictions, think about it, in fact, it depends on the man's adjustment, and he is also in a dilemma! Try to let your mother-in-law do it, after all, people are elders, it's really not good, the conflict escalates, so I move out with my husband!

Since ancient times, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a problem for many families, and they live separately if they are not in harmony, and young people have a lot of different ideas from them

Maybe it's because you've been stressed out lately, or you've been in an environment for a long time and tend to be depressed, try to think more about her.

In this era, it stands to reason that there will be no such bad relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, clothes, washing machines, that is, small things, eating, washing dishes, some small things, just want to open some of them.

Have a good life.

Generally, this kind of relationship is difficult to deal with, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law plus the generation gap are basically depressed to the home, and they have to find a way to move out.

I want to open a point. Watch more TV, for example, double-sided tape, the good times of daughter-in-law, you may be a little inspired!

What's in your brain isn't the same as what's in hers, for sure. Can she think the same way you do?

I live with my son and daughter-in-law now, and I don't think it's bad.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are natural enemies, so it's better to live separately.

She's Mom....Heart-to-heart with her....

Because she's not your mother, she's your mother-in-law'......

You can discuss it and live separately.

If you have the conditions, you will move out, and if you don't have the conditions, you will hold back, this condition includes, buying a house alone, whether the family needs to rely on the elderly to help part of the economic conditions, your husband's recognition, if there are children involved, can you take care of the children yourself, etc., if you lack economic ability and material conditions, then you can only be better to yourself and do a good job of communicating with yourself.

When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarrel, if the conflict is caused by the mother-in-law first. Then as a son, you should coax your daughter-in-law well, so that your daughter-in-law should not get angry with her mother in line with the principle of filial piety, after all, the elders are the greatest. If the matter is caused by the daughter-in-law, the son should communicate with his wife well, calmly explain the ins and outs of the matter, and then apologize to the mother.