What experiences in your life have you had that didn t pay off for your efforts?

We have been working hard for a long time, but when you work hard for a while, you don't see any hope of success! I would like to say that this can be divided into two situations: one is that the thing is wrong from the beginning, and no matter how much you do, you will not gain the slightest!

On the other hand, we have not done enough, we are still far from it, and we need to continue to work hard. Just like a person starting a business, maybe he has his own ideas at the beginning and is making more or less money! But after a while, the loss was made!

Instinctively, there is a problem with our direction, or it may be that the direction of our efforts is fine, but greater success requires us to continue to work hard and persevere, and only after continuous precipitation will we achieve greater and more significant success. ‍‍

Just like a person, you have liked her for a long time, but when you give a lot and do a lot, in the end she still will not choose to be with you, but the best friend! When encountering this, you can say that you are too stubborn, or you can say that you are too infatuated! Everyone has their own favorite type and their own living habits, and we can't ask others to accept us and like us because we like others!

All we can do is try not to regret ourselves, and no matter what the outcome, we tried. ‍‍

I used to study so hard that I didn't go out on the weekends almost anymore. But when it came time to take the exam, I still didn't get a good score, and I felt that I hadn't been rewarded for my efforts.

A person works very hard, there are many types of work, one of the hardest efforts is manual labor, no matter how hard you work, it is just a hard work, relying on the efforts of coolies can only support yourself, and it is difficult to support a large family expenses.

When I was in school, I had to run because of the sports test, and I practiced in the playground for a long time but still didn't get the results I wanted.

I worked hard to go out every day to send orders, and then communicate with telemarketing, but the results were never satisfied, I couldn't close the order, and I was tired of back pain every day.

I've liked someone for a long time, but I haven't gotten the results I want, no matter how good I am to him, I can't see my efforts in his eyes.

I remember one time when I went to pursue a girl, I tried very hard, but the result was not rewarded.

When I was a freshman learning to drive, I met a girl and tried my best to be nice to her in order to pursue her, without asking for anything in return.

I've worked hard to make money, but my wife still thinks that I don't make enough money and doesn't feel like I'm getting her approval.

Work harder than everyone else, and the boss says you don't have to go to work because you're going to make a layoff.

Study hard, work hard, but you don't necessarily get a good job.

Chizuruko Ueno, a well-known Japanese sociologist, gave a special advice to the students of the University of Tokyo who were present:

So, don't use your superior abilities and circumstances on your personal path to victory, but use them to help those who are not as good as you. “

You may have always felt that hard work pays off

But just like I mentioned at the beginning about the unfair examination of the exam, what awaits you is an unfair society, and even if you work hard, you will not be rewarded accordingly. And please don't forget that the idea that hard work pays off is the result of your surroundings and not the result of your efforts. It is precisely because of the circumstances in which you live that you have been encouraging, pushing you and praising you that you have this kind of thinking.

There are still many people in this world, who have worked hard and have no reward, who want to work hard but can't start, and who work too hard and are physically and mentally ruined. There are also many people who have been poured cold water on them before they start working hard, and their fighting spirit has been hit.

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Your efforts cannot be done just for the sake of your own victory.

Nor can you despise those who are not as fortunate as you because of your privileged circumstances and abilities. You should help those people. Also, don't be too strong, be able to admit your weaknesses and help each other.

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Treat the results with a normal mind, and do your best is the best process.

Don't give up if you choose, and don't regret if you give up. Since I have determined that there is no return in a short period of time, I can only say that the quantitative change has not yet reached the qualitative change, and life is like this I want to see the effect within the acceptable pressure range, I used to be a student who is about to enter the third year of high school, and I often study various learning methods, and the only purpose is to find the most suitable path for myself that people say is the most suitable for you, and from then on once and for all. But in fact, I later learned that there is no such way at all, you just have to keep adjusting yourself, keep encouraging yourself, this path must be right, you can't try and doubt the road under your feet at the same time.

Friend, if you have tried hard for a long time and still have no results Think about why you did it in the first place After all, I am also a little casual In the end, I can only give you a Buddhist sentence The pursuit itself is meaningless, and the process of seeking itself is so dazzling.

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It's kind of hard work that doesn't pay off.

Very heartbroken, desperate, doubtful life Especially when other people's efforts are not as rewarded as you are more, you will question yourself more, when this happens once or twice, in addition to reflecting on your own problems, you will be like this in life. It's very sad, after all, I worked hard, and I even doubted myself for a while. As the old saying goes, if you give something, you get something back.

When I took the high school exam, I worked very hard and memorized history every day, but the result after the exam was still 50 points, which was about the same as the score that I didn't memorize. I was quite shocked after the examWhy can't I get paid for my efforts? Actually, it's not, because there may be a gap with others from the beginning.

The stupid bird flies first, there is no one worse than the other, as long as you put in the effort, there is always a reward.

I like what the head teacher said:"Maybe you can't get the return you want if you work hard, don't worry, don't give up your efforts, what you want will be given to you slowly, in a word, don't see that you can't get a return for your efforts now, give up, never give up your efforts. ”

The English teacher always said before our exams, "Never give up!" ”

I think this kind of thing is really on your own, if you don't work hard, you won't get anything, even if you don't get a reward for your efforts, you will feel that it is worth it, after all, I tried my best.

Maybe it's not trying hard enough, or maybe it's the wrong way to work hard. After working hard for a long time but not getting a reward, the whole person begins to doubt himself if he is stupid. Then I get bored, I don't want to try any harder, and I try to give up.

I want to give up, but I am a little unwilling in my heart, I have worked hard for so long, how can I give up if I give up. In this way, we are stuck in a cycle of anxiety, and the internal friction is getting bigger and bigger. Slowly adjust your mood and cheer up again.

Or fall into depression.