Why can t I get a return on my efforts? Unrecognized for your efforts?

People expect something in return. This is also the right of the giver.

But does true 'love' need to be reciprocated?

Interestingly, we don't expect anything in return for our love for our families. For example, parents to children, children to parents.

However, often our love for the opposite sex is different.

I gave less, how much I wanted to give back, and how much I wanted to have from the other party.

Innocent 'love' may not be like this.

My love, if I can make the other person feel happy and happy, I can see her happy life, this is the return of my love.

If you lose someone, can you expect anything in return?

Being able to be together is already a reward.

One day, the other party will be more grateful for your sincerity of waiting silently.

The above is my idea, if you disagree, please understand).

Intentionally planting flowers does not bloom, and unintentionally planting willows and willows into the shade.

Approval. Although this sentence seems to be a bit sad, Bai must understand in his heart that there may not be a return for paying, but not paying dao

There must be no return if you go out. A lot of the time, the effort is still valuable. If you pay attention to the result strategically, and the process in tactics, then you will also gain something, and you will not return empty-handed.

I agree with the first half, but I don't agree with it in the second half, because there are too many people in this world who don't get anything for nothing.

There's nothing wrong with that.

Because we don't necessarily pay back, but if you don't pay, what about the return that is, only by treating people with sincerity can we win people and be helpful. The relationship is mutual.

In fact, those who have a little conscience will give a certain reward to the giver. So, if you don't pay, there must be no return? This statement is not complete, for example, if a girl falls in love with a young man unconditionally, even if the other party is poor, she will marry him, so there will be a return without paying.

Hello, many people are looking forward to the job very much, but when they get such a job but there is no hope of promotion, different people will have the frustration of working hard but there is no hope of promotion, the sense of loss that there is no hope of promotion and career development, and the life is worry-free so lie flat, these three different feelings.

1. I have experienced hard work, but I can't get promoted, and I have frustration in my heart.

The strongest feeling of not being able to be promoted in the workplace is frustration, people who have experienced very hard work and made a good job performance, but in the end they did not get the opportunity to be promoted, then there will be a very strong frustration in the hearts of these people, thinking that they have experienced a very serious failure, this feeling will last for a long time, and they will not be able to cheer up for a long time.

2. There is no hope for promotion, and you will not be able to continue to develop your career, and you will feel a sense of loss in your heart.

Only by constantly promoting in the workplace can you continue to develop your career, but the promotion in the workplace is not unlimited, at a certain time, your promotion path will come to an end, and you will no longer be able to be promoted.

3. Although he did not get promoted, his life was completely guaranteed, so he chose to lie down.

Compared with the above two types of people, although some people have not been promoted, but their mentality is much better, although these people have not been promoted, they are very satisfied with their current situation, and they think that they are living a good life and working easily. All aspects are stable and secure, so they choose to lie flat and no longer strive for promotion, but begin to enjoy what they have now, and there are many older people in the workplace who make such a choice when there is no hope of promotion.

Good luck!

If you don't get something in return, will you still give?

In fairy tales and stories, we read too much expectation and beauty, and real life often interprets another version. In addition to facing the trivial life of firewood, rice, oil and salt every day, we also need to face more complicated things such as interpersonal relationships, family, career, and children.

Has anything like this happened in your life?

Unsuccessful career, reluctant marriage, sick parents, embarrassed life, rebellious children, etc., maybe one of the situations I mentioned appears to you, and maybe many things are overwhelming you at the same time. You are obviously very good, you are also very hard-working, and you have given much more time, money, energy, and companionship than ordinary people......Even sacrificing everything they have.

Maybe you've lost yourself and you're still not getting something back. Therefore, you have insomnia, distress, irritability, depression, and even hysteria, but you still can't change everything in front of you, and it seems that you are the most unfortunate in this world.

No, you're fine. Your biggest deficiency is that you have no bottom line, you are relied on by everyone around you, but you have nothing to rely on. In your eyes, the people and things around you turn a blind eye to your hard work and helplessness, only when you feel sorry for yourself, you have time to embrace yourself in the dead of night.

Since there is no return, you might as well try to be "selfish".

1. Don't give up your career for anyone, and don't get carried away by empty checks.

2. When your ability is not enough to support others to pay, then learn to make yourself better.

3. When you think it's not worth doing something, stop your losses in time.

Fourth, the child is your responsibility, he is also an independent individual, do your best, do not expect everything to be as you wish.

Fifth, the lover is the partner who accompanies you through the whole life, but love is mutual, don't just give stupidly, you need respect and equality in marriage.

6. Parents are the people who give you life, and only when you live a good old age with your parents will you have something to rely on and will be happier.

Therefore, when you don't get a corresponding return for your efforts, it's because you haven't done your best and you're not strong enough.

Start today and only be the best version of yourself, no one has anything to do with it.