1Can I be friends after a breakup? 2Why doesn t he want to meet me?

Lovers who were originally in love with each other, facing a breakup, may have unavoidable reasons, or have unspeakable reasons. And to be friends after a breakup, wouldn't it bring everything from the past back to your own life? Why bother?

Of course, I don't approve of turning enemies and enemies into enemies after a breakup, slandering each other, and wanting to kill each other.

You can't be friends after a breakup, because you hurt each other You can't be enemies after a breakup, because you love each other deeply! ~）

When you see your former lover living happier than you, will you be jealous? When the former lover excitedly brings the new lover to make an introduction, even if you pretend not to care, but the taste in your heart. Why do you bother to find a yellow lotus to chew yourself?

If the life of the former lover is not happy, your old love plus compassion will definitely think a lot.

After all, you used to be lovers in love, and you also used to have a good love life, in the face of the frustration and confusion of your former lovers, will you lend a helping hand? Will you fall into that emotional vortex again?

In the end, everyone has a new half, you continue to be friends with the old love, what will the new lover think in his heart, the thread is broken? The new love must be dissatisfied, and what is even more terrifying is that in the suspicion and justification, a geometric relationship is generated. Of course, there are some successes, but it always sounds like there is a slight embarrassment.

has never been unforgettable, how easy is it to be friends after a breakup? Look at your former lover, kiss me and me with others, and rejoice, you will definitely have. Why bother making your own drama for yourself and for them?

If you've already broken up, why do you want to deliberately maintain a relationship that borders on friendship? It's better to seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away and welcome a new life.

If you break up, why bother to be friends again? Otherwise, what a point.

I don't think there are many people who can be friends after a lover breaks up. It's really not much, after all, there have been memories of joy or sorrow in common Now it takes too much courage to calm down the inner turmoil when you meet and say hi, goodbye and bye Can you still imagine being a good friend who talks about weal and woe together? Don't be too attached to this, let each other be free, if you can really be generous, it will be a good thing to do"Friends"Procrastination is not good for everyone, as long as you have really loved it.

In other words, it is only possible to become friends when the heart of each other is completely let go, or they have never really loved, in fact, who can get up in style, this guy in front of you is the one who broke up with you

If you want to pass"Friends"If you want to restore this relationship, you still have to say it bluntly, the difference between a lover and a friend is really big.

As for you and the other him, I think that since it hasn't started yet, and he has no intention of falling in love, it is better to be friends happily

He's your ex-boyfriend's classmate The identity is also very embarrassing, isn't it You said that you wanted to find someone to fall in love with and forget your ex-boyfriend He must be very uncomfortable in his heart Now that he likes it, will he accept you without any guilt You also realize that instead of becoming a stranger, it is better to be a long-term friend Let go of the little love in your heart I believe this is okay Because you haven't seen him in real life You haven't gotten along well and understood each other It's easy to hypnotize yourself As for him not wanting to meet you First, he has no intention of starting a new relationship Maybe you just want to communicate spiritually After all, the reality is more ruthless and cruel A lot of confidants can't be said Isn't it good to be a netizen Somewhere in this city, there is such a familiar and strange friend You can chat about gossip in life.

You've written a lot, and I've thought a lot. I hope you can solve the confusion and reap the benefits

On the first question:

I never believed in the phrase "goodbye is also a friend", if you can really be friends, you won't be lovers, if you can really be friends, you won't separate. So it's better not to see it, so as not to be sad, whether it's you.

Or he (she), it's all hurt. So let's be the most familiar stranger, although it will be sad, but after a long time, everything will naturally be light.

On the second question:

For the sake of distinction, let's call your ex-boyfriend A, and his friend B) I think you are trapped in your own emotional world, to put it simply, what you love is not necessarily B, he just happens to be at the right time, in the right way and in the right capacity. You have just broken up with A, and you are in a gap of emotional hurt, and he happens to appear; The Internet will always make things fairytale-like, so if the two of you had met in person and not through the Internet, then I don't think you would have thought you liked him; His identity is that of a friend, and in your shallow consciousness he will automatically seek out the familiar breath.

Actually, you're just in love with your love, if all the conditions are met c, d, e... I think the result is the same.

So, let these people go, whether it's A or B, let yourself settle for a while, and I think you'll make the right judgment.

Don't break the thread. The sequelae of this are very serious, and it is easy to affect their respective lives, and if they don't get it right, they will break up with their future partners.

I can be friends after a breakup, and because she is shy, she ignores you.

The good things that used to be turned into injuries when we broke up

What you have done with each other cannot be happy now

There is happiness between you, a relationship, and a feeling.

I don't know, I broke up with my boyfriend, and he said he wouldn't see each other again, or something, but he was in a good relationship with all of his former girlfriends, and I was puzzled by why we were in this situation, and we were good friends before we were together, and he was so ruthless to me.

If you break up, don't expect to be friends again!

We can't be enemies, because we once loved each other;

We can't be friends because we've hurt each other before!

No one is anyone's before they get married!!

Love is not a game! Fake love doesn't stand the test!

Some small things don't show a person, and all small things can judge that person!

I can't be a lover.

Definitely not going to be my friend.

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Breaking up and being friends can still meet, this question is certainly okay. A breakup doesn't mean two people are no longer in touch. After a breakup, two people can bless each other, be friends, and help each other in difficulties. <>

Can you still meet when you break up and become friends.

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Friends can also meet and split, of course, this question is okay. A breakup doesn't mean two people are no longer in touch. After a breakup, two people can bless each other, be friends, and help each other in difficulties. <>

On the fifth day of our breakup, she always said that I was hungry and it was impossible, yesterday I agreed to add me on WeChat, and said to me that we can be friends, we can't do it, but before we broke up, she said that he would be busy with his career and studies for a year, and I said that I would pursue you again after a year, and she said okay, at this time, do you want to meet her from time to time.

<> related expansion: Blind acceptance is actually that you and your ex are friends again, or even turn around as friends, then you put yourself in a situation where "Nachang seems to be in the middle but in between". In other words, you are no longer lovers, but you are not true friends.

Things are not people, and even people are difficult to dismantle. It is true that lovers can still face it calmly after a breakup and walk amicably as friends, but it is not the best policy to start this friendship journey immediately after a breakup. After the two become friends, the way they get along will naturally be very different from before, and you should also remind yourself not to compare the current relationship with the past, and admit the fact that the two have broken up.

If you still want to be able to stay, you can really get along with the other party as a friend, and you are not in a hurry or bored, so as to add hope to the recovery.

To be friends after a breakup, the first thing to know is that the purpose of the two people is different, and the person who wants to redeem is friends with the other party, and he wants to get back together, and at the same time, he must hide this kind of thought, and he can't let the other party know, because the party who mentioned the breakup said that he wanted to be friends with you, and he really just wanted to get along with you as a friend.

Maybe it would be better to meet? In a friend way for the time being.

If you meet alone, there will probably be no rough group rate, after all, the two of you are no longer your former identities, you can ask your mutual friends to play together, brothers use this year to get along as friends Put aside their previous identities, and then think about whether the two of you are suitable, and whether each other's hearts are in each other's bodies after they are together again.

When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

Dear landlord.

Glad to analyze for you.

I've had your problem before.

Here's my own.

Hope it can help the landlord.

If two people are serious, they are really in love

It is absolutely impossible to be friends after a breakup.

If both of them are just having fun

You may also be friends after the breakup

You can't be friends because you've hurt each other, and you can't be enemies because you've loved each other!

It is precisely because of the past vows that it can only be a stranger!

Even if you are friends, you can't be a real friend anymore, and there is a separation in your heart...

If two people have no feelings for each other because of time, maybe they can be friends in a superficial sense!

If one party still has feelings, the party with feelings will want to continue to be friends, but in fact, even friends are spoiled

And if couples break up due to contradictions, betrayals, etc., it will only be strangers!

What if two people become friends?

Look at the people you once loved

And now you don't love each other anymore

Once you are friends, how should you get along with each other, how should you deal with it, that may only remind you of your past.

It only hurts more

It's better to be a stranger

Let time fade everything that once was

Just let it be a rainbow in memory

I wish you happiness

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

If my own.

Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !