What it s like to be a female doctor

After being exposed to doctoral research, life experience and way of thinking will be greatly improved. Even if you may have been the best of your peers before you did your PhD, or traveled the world, or worked for a few years and made a great achievement, or had many opportunities to meet and talk to many successful people, or lived in a society with many different cultures and histories for a few years. However, the people and knowledge that I have come into contact with during my doctoral research have brought me improvement that I could not have imagined if I had not been exposed to them.

No matter how good you think you are and how proud your grades are before you do your PhD, you will feel very clearly that you still have those areas that need to be improved. It's a feeling I'm experiencing right now and will be grateful for it for the rest of my life.

A Ph.D. is just a job, and it just so happens that there are PhDs all around, so it's nothing special. The female doctor does not have three heads and six arms, or she is stupid in reading, and she is no different from an ordinary girl. When looking for a job, you still have to interview, and you can only find a suitable position after passing five hurdles.

Looking for a partner has nothing to do with the title, the most is to look at the face, there are many people who are beautiful to chase, and those who are not beautiful are trying to chase people. A female doctor is a girl first and a doctor second. The problems that the girl can encounter, the female doctor will also encounter, but the way to deal with it varies from person to person.

My husband and I are both medical doctors, but one is engaged in clinical practice and the other is engaged in scientific research. Under the current system, I helped him design the experiment, he helped me collect clinical specimens, and in the end everyone was happy. When you are busy, everyone can concentrate on their own things, cook a table of food for each other in their spare time, travel, exercise, and tease the cat.

He can accompany me to watch short American soap operas in my parents, and I can also accompany him to watch the NBA. If I have to talk about the impact of studying for a doctorate, I think it is that under the long-term academic pressure, we have become more able to deal with various things efficiently, and the leisure left is to enjoy the good life after this busyness.

Studying for a PhD is a matter of great courage and perseverance, and I think only those who truly love it can experience the joy of it. I don't belong to the kind of person I really love, I just use my usual sense of responsibility to do everything I need to do well, although things are done, but I don't have the happiness and sense of accomplishment I imagined. There are many female doctors who encounter some problems in marriage, mostly because they don't have the time and opportunity to contact some excellent male students, and when they graduate from the doctorate, they miss the best age to choose a mate, so they have no choice but to join the army of leftover women, which is also a very real problem.

It was after many years of work that I went to study for a part-time doctorate, and my daughter has gone to elementary school, with a stable income and a happy family. During his doctoral studies, he also gave birth to a boy and had both children and daughters. Studying for a PhD is a dream that has only been realized after many years of hard work, so I cherish it very much and work hard, because my family has no worries, so I can devote myself to academics.

It is indeed not easy to keep reading and thinking, as well as insisting on academic training, there have been no winter and summer vacations and holidays in the past few years, and I have not gone back to my hometown to visit the seven aunts and eight aunts.

To be honest, I used to think that a doctorate was so powerful, after all, this is the highest degree in China. But when I actually took the Ph.D., I realized that Ph.D. is definitely not a title, let alone an honor, it is just a lonely journey. Because I have some dishes, I rarely tell others that I am a doctor, and I am afraid of embarrassing this group, haha, I still have self-knowledge.

Now Boyi, I plan to do my research hard and strive to become an excellent scholar.

I have never felt that I am different from others, for me, studying for a doctorate is just a life experience, with the most precious youth to do one thing without distractions, there are joys and sorrows on the way, and there are many detours, but I stumble, but I finally saw the different scenery along the way, and experienced the loneliness, depression or joy that others have never tasted. I've never been the one to shine in the crowd, maybe I was destined to be a little passerby, but on the day I put on my degree gown, I felt like the proudest princess in my heart.

It's cool to say to my boyfriend every day that I live in this world by wisdom and not by beauty, so don't look at me through the eyes of a man you have been constructed by society. After watching the movie, I want to explain it to my boyfriend, do you know that the logic of this worldview is wrong, because it does not establish legitimacy for its own power. That's how Foucault understood power.

But in fact, in the eyes of my boyfriend, I am a little fool who reads literature and writes **, but it is also not very reassuring in other aspects. He doesn't manage his own money, often goes out and takes the subway, and refuses all utilitarian interactions. Maybe it's that knowledge has given me enough confidence to live happily according to my own ideas.

I would like to tell all my friends who want to pursue a PhD study to think clearly about their desired life before starting their PhD. I'm not actually a top student in other people's imagination, I'm not the kind of girl who thinks of "academic girl" when you see it. I like to dance, I like to draw, I like to write, I like photography, I like smelly beauty.

During my years in Hong Kong, I spent all my scholarship to buy all kinds of big-name skincare products and all kinds of fashionable seasonal clothes. My cramped dorm room was filled with my booty, but I barely had a chance to enjoy them. In order to complete the research project, I had to stay in the lab all day, often returning to the dormitory after 10 p.m. ‍‍

For me, I don't have any special feelings, our school is a science and engineering school, and I am basically surrounded by PhDs, as well as master's and doctoral students, or I plan to transfer to PhDs. Our teachers are basically female PhDs, the only difference is that I am straight, my sister is said to be 10 years older than me, this year's Pubo student I guided, the same sister, 5 years older than me, but everyone feels very young, I will also suggest that I change my dressing style, shopping and chatting together are very nice.