Do you support the notion that a person with a bad temper is actually a person with a bad character

Do you support the notion that "a person with a bad temper is actually a person with a bad character"?

I don't agree with this point of view, as the old saying goes, "knife mouth, tofu heart", many people with a bad temper are very soft-hearted. So temper has nothing to do with character, but it has to do with ability.

People with a bad temper are not very good at social skills and are not good at interpersonal communication.

People with a bad temper often lack communication skills.

Unable to express the content that needs to be communicated clearly, or effectively convey one's own meaning, to put it bluntly, is a lack of skills and abilities in communication, and in order to achieve one's own ideas, one can only rely on anger to deepen the impression and impact.

And people who are really good at communication often control their emotions well even if they are angry, and they don't lose their temper.

How do you deal with people with bad tempers?

1. Try to understand the reason for his bad temper.

There must be a reason for people with a bad temper, and in today's world where information is so developed, no one will be unaware of the dangers of losing their temper. The reason for his bad temper is usually that some words poke his sore spots, or inadvertently violate his taboos, and after understanding the reason, try to avoid mentioning things that make him unhappy.

2. Don't try to convince him.

People with a bad temper are generally more stubborn, and if you dissuade them from getting angry at the beginning, you may further anger the other person anyway. It is only through the guidance of the good and the inducement that it is possible to make one's own point of view acceptable.

3. Stay away from people with bad tempers and selfishness.

Some people have a bad temper and are very selfish, and they will take the first place in anything that has interests, and push the bad things cleanly, and if they are slightly unsatisfactory, they will be angry. It is important to stay away from such people, and if contact is unavoidable, then try to talk as little as possible so as not to accidentally start a quarrel.

Summary

People with a bad temper often lead to a deterioration of physical condition, Chinese medicine says that "anger hurts the liver" is this truth, people can only communicate effectively with each other by comparing hearts with hearts and treating each other with sincerity, and very few communication can be completed in anger.

I don't support this idea, because I think people with a bad temper are because they don't have a good ability to control their temper, but friends who are very familiar with this person know his character, so his character is also very good.

Further support, because the character of a person with a bad temper is very good, and it should vary from person to person, everyone is different, and everyone's temper is different.

If you don't support it, a short-tempered person may just be more impatient, which doesn't mean that people are dishonest or that people like to take advantage.

I don't support this idea at all, although some people can't control their temper, but there is no problem with their character.

A person's temper is not a question of his character, nor is it a question of his character, but of his character. Of course, it is also the lack of cultivation of his own people, and he will not deal with it calmly.

Therefore, it is recommended that the person strengthen the cultivation of personal qualities, and gradually the temper will become better.

A person with a big temper is not a quality, and a person with a bad character is a person who cannot control himself, that is to say, a person who is not demanding of himself and immature, but it has nothing to do with his essence. Only the kind of bully is the essence of the problem.

Just talking about being short-tempered, it belongs to the person's cultivation is not high, and he can't control his emotions, so he can't say that he has a bad character. This is a bit biased.

A person's temper is different from his personal qualities.

A big temper does not mean that the personal character is bad.

Temper is a matter of human character.

If you have a big temper, you can say that the cultivation of his person is not good; Or they have some kind of disease in their body, such as an unhealthy liver that makes people lose their temper.

Therefore, it is recommended that people with a big temper either strengthen their personal quality cultivation, or go to the hospital for a check-up and targeted treatment. As a result, your temper will gradually improve.

A person's temper is different from his personal qualities.

A big temper does not mean that the personal character is bad. Temper is a matter of human character.

If you have a big temper, you can say that the cultivation of his person is not good; Or they have some kind of disease in their body, such as an unhealthy liver that makes people lose their temper. Therefore, it is recommended that people with a big temper either strengthen their personal quality cultivation, or go to the hospital for a check-up and targeted treatment. As a result, your temper will gradually improve.

Personally, I think that the temper is big, and the person's quality and character have little to do with it, because in real life I know a lot of people, the quality and character are very good, that is, the temper is bigger, but the temperament of people is generally very capable.

The size of the temper is a person's personality, and it does not mean that people with bad quality and character will help others when they encounter problems.

Temperament is genetic, because it has nothing to do with quality and character, and people with a big temper can be generous and helpful to others.

The temper is due to the character of the person. It doesn't mean that his character is bad.

A big temper is not a bad character, but a temper has nothing to do with character.

A big temper can only be said to be a relatively impatient personality, which has nothing to do with good or bad character.

The two have nothing to do with each other, and the real villain will make you think it's good.

Some people are just very aggressive, but after a long time of contact, you will find that they are actually very good.