Is it true that the more you can t do anything, the more blessed the girl who can t do it?

Updated on society 2024-06-28
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    There are indeed such girls in life who can't do anything, and girls who can't do it are indeed married very well. Maybe you just see that they are happy on the surface. In fact, as a girl, you still have to have your own career, at least you have your own job.

    In this way, not only can you live a fulfilling life, but also have a certain economic foundation.

    Nothing will happen when it comes to spending money. Let your husband pay for it, so you should also have a kind of confidence!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not like that.,Don't be a strong woman.,But a girl who can't do anything will be annoying.。 I don't think I'll do anything, it's basically a piece of waste. When a man is stressed, a woman cannot comfort a man and share the pressure.

    When a man comes home after a tired day, the woman can't cook or do housework, and such a man can easily collapse.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, this is according to everyone's blessings, some are beautiful and capable, and those who marry are not good, and some are ugly and don't do anything, but the husband who marries is good, this is fate.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not like this, you can't do anything, and those who can't do it won't necessarily be blessed to marry, so you can still do everything, and capable girls are likely to be blessed when they marry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    No, now is the era when women can hold up half the sky, and if they don't know anything, even if they get married, they don't have the right to speak.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't work, at least, I don't have to do it myself at first, but it doesn't mean that I won't do it in the future. If you can't do it, you will be restricted, rely on others, and you will be happy.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    How can you have this kind of thought, since ancient times, there have been industrious birds to eat? You won't get anywhere, pie will fall from the sky.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If a girl wants to marry well, she must have her own advantages, maybe she looks good, maybe she has a good career or is relatively capable. Men won't look for someone who doesn't know anything and doesn't know anything, and such a woman won't talk about what she likes. Both men and women like their other half, who is beautiful in appearance, has a career, and has a lot of excellent places, and will be disliked if they have nothing to do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This statement is certainly not accurate enough.

    Because the requirements for men to find a partner are relatively high, if a woman can't do anything, then the man will definitely not be willing to marry her.

    Husbands and wives must also help each other, and if their wives are incapable, they will definitely not be recognized by their husbands.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A woman who can't do it will be held back by others when she marries.

    On the surface, I am happy not to work.

    In fact, there has been a loss of autonomy in life.

    There is dissatisfaction in the heart, but it cannot be vented.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I can't do anything, I can't do it. What do people ask you to do when they go there? Won't you have to be helped with food and clothing? So who has the patience to serve you? Will some people take a fancy to you? Beggar. I won't even take a fancy to you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    That's right, the world is a man's world, and women have the ability to rebel against thousands of years of feudalism.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not so absolute, anything can happen.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    No man will find a woman who can't do anything.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I very much agree with this statement, such a good woman will not rely too much on men, but a good woman will definitely make full use of men to establish her advantage.

    For both men and women, men need to take on family responsibilities as much as possible, and at the same time, they need to take the initiative to take care of their family and friends. And for women, women need to make themselves as good as possible, because an excellent woman can get more resources. To some extent, if a woman puts too much attention on her work, it is actually difficult for such a woman to be truly attractive, and it is difficult for us to see a woman take the initiative to inherit the financial responsibility of the family, so women do not need to prove themselves through the so-called career.

    1. It is indeed better for a woman to marry well than to do a good job.

    This is a very real problem, some women may overly advocate the so-called financial independence, so they will think that they need to have an independent career. In fact, when a woman becomes a strong woman in her career, the woman's relationship is generally not too smooth, but she will also feel very stressed. And for those women who marry very well, although their own ability to do things is limited, because they are very beautiful and know how to get along with men, their lives will be happier.

    2. Women and men have different concerns.

    For women, some women may think that financial independence is a prerequisite for how much men respect a woman. But for men, men will first pay attention to the beauty and ugliness of women, and then they will pay attention to women's character issues. If a woman has an advantage in these two areas, regardless of the woman's own work, the man generally does not overthink the woman's ability to generate income.

    In general, I personally think that women don't need to pay too much attention to their work and career, because this kind of behavior will only lead to distraction. As long as a woman has an independent character and beautiful appearance, this woman basically will not have a bad time.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't agree with this statement, I personally think that women still have to rely on their own efforts to achieve a wonderful life。In the past, the traditional concept always linked women to family and marriage, believing that women can only achieve happiness and live a smooth life by relying on men. But in fact, with the development of society and the popularity of the concept of equality between men and women, more and more women have a sense of independence, and prove their talents and abilities in society and family, and can rely on themselves and no one else.

    This statement is a prejudice against women. The saying "it's better to marry than to do well" is actually to ignore the real needs of the entire female group and treat them as dependents. Whether you are a man or a woman, relying on yourself is always the right choice.

    Especially for women, only by being able to gain a foothold in society and have a certain social status can they truly achieve inner peace of mind. Women should also have a variety of choices, she can get married if she wants to, and if she doesn't want to get married, she can have enough capital to maintain normal living needs, take care of her parents, and let herself live happily and wantonly. Instead of having to rely on marriage to realize the value of life, some people do want a family, but they should also have the right to say no if they don't want it.

    Women need to have independent careers and ideas. As a woman myself, I have my own ideas and have a voice when it comes to women's issues. The outside world always has inexplicable constraints and restrictions on women, imposing some morals and values on them.

    If you really go with the flow and succumb to the interference of the outside world, you will not get the happiness you want at all, and you will have to suffer. Therefore, only with an independent career and ideas can we not be affected by the remarks of the outside world in our own judgment and pursuit. The more disturbing you are, the more important it is to stay calm and rational so that you can make decisions that go your way in every moment in the future.

    All in all, women should still pay more attention to their inner needs, be firm in their choices, and realize the meaning of life with their own efforts. Except for our parents, no one can always bring us a sense of security and trust, and these are things that we need to strive for.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not like that, women should be independent no matter what, don't trust anyone and don't think of marriage as another way out for themselves. Women still have to do a good job and have their own careers, so that they can live a happier life.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I don't think so, women are also independent individuals, they have the right to pursue their own careers and family happiness, depending on everyone's choice, some people prefer careers, do things well by themselves, marriage can also be very happy, some people choose to sacrifice themselves at home, not necessarily married well will be happy. I don't agree with this view, women should still have their own careers.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I don't think so; I think that you can marry well if you do a good job, and without a certain ability, you can't keep your happiness.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Some women are indeed better at marrying well, but not all, you still have to have a certain strength, don't always expect to marry someone to change your life, of course, most of you still have to be obedient to Mr. is happier, otherwise most of them are not very happy!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This is a vulgar idea that only by doing a good job will you be respected by others, including your husband.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's really tiring for a woman to marry badly. The family will drag you down, just like men, is it better to have a good wife?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Marrying well can help a woman reach success faster, but it doesn't mean that if you don't marry well, you won't be able to counterattack.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After marrying well, you still have to rely on your own ability, and you have the ability to control the family.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Not necessarily, strong women are also favored by men. A capable woman is no less than a man.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think it's different for a woman to do a good job and rely on herself to marry well, and I think it's very good to be independent!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, financial independence is still very important, both before and after marriage.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course not, today's men and women are equal, and women can also make their own way.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think so, it's better for women to have their own careers and be proud of themselves.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, in this era, women are the most reliable on their own.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There is always a home for a woman, don't marry if you are not a capable woman, you haven't thought that a very capable man has to marry a wife at many years old? Don't you want to sleep with money for the rest of your life?

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    A very capable woman also needs family, love and family fun.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Any woman longs to have a complete home, and strong women are no exception, although she is very capable, she also needs a man's care and needs a man as her strong backing.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Everyone has the right to choose their own life, a very capable woman, she can take care of herself in life, in the end, do you need an equally good man by your side, share the joys and pains of life with you, share the heavy responsibilities of life together, care for each other, no matter when, he is willing to be by your side.

    This is also the wish of parents, they want you to be happy forever. When they are old, there is someone with whom you can take care of them, and when you are old, you have children by your side.

    Life is too short, we all want to live a more perfect life, we become daughters, we have to be wives, mothers, grandmothers, ......Only when we have experienced all this can we leave no regrets in this life.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    A very capable woman also needs a family need, well. Follow the rules of society! No matter how capable this person is outside, how much money he can make, or the image of a strong woman, when he reaches a certain age, he also needs uh, find someone who cares about her and start a family.

    That's outside, well, while working, and then when you're tired, there's a place to rest, and there's a warm home. Everyone is like this, whether it is a boy or you or a girl when they reach adulthood, everyone wants to start a family, so this is the only way for everyone to go through, and it does not necessarily mean that a strong woman can't marry, but it can also be said that you can find a husband to marry yourself, now the society is already very open, and the tolerance of the society is also very high, so it depends on your own situation.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Lonely yin does not give birth to solitary yang, only yang does not grow, yin and yang are born together, and all things are born

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Do you live a lifetime alone, do you still have to get married?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Because without a man, there is no child, and a woman is for this child in this life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Who decreed that a very capable woman should not marry? No matter how capable a woman is, she also needs to have a home, a husband who loves her, and can share her joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Passing on the family to the next generation and starting a family.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Men should get married, and women should get married, which is an inevitable requirement for the continuation of human society.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If you don't get married, do you have to live one by one for the rest of your life, you can be capable when you are young, and you can play casually. Don't you have children, what is home, it is complete to have a wife, husband and children!

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because there are still many very incompetent men who need capable women to help him grow.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Strong women also have a weak side to injuries.

    Strong women also have seven emotions and six desires, and they also crave love.

    Strong women also have to reproduce.

    Therefore, it is normal to get married, and it is not normal not to get married.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Why do you still marry a man who can't do it?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Of course not, there are many reasons why a girl can't get married, maybe because she has a high vision and has high requirements for her other half, but it doesn't mean that she is very good, not necessarily because she is too capable to marry.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's not because girls can't get married because they're too capable, and they haven't met someone who suits them, don't worry, the people who love you are on the way.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    No, it's too picky, they feel in their hearts that no boy can be worthy of them. Some people feel comfortable living alone.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Of course not, a lot of capable people are also very well married.

    Girls are rich, so to find richer, girls are general managers, it is necessary to match the CEO of a listed company, in short, men will always be better than women in their careers, this kind of outdated concept makes many girls dare not even read a doctorate, because a female doctor has to find a postdoctorate. "Women love because of worship, and I can't fall in love with a boy who is worse than me", this sentence is actually only half true.

    In this world, there is not only one kind of success, and it is not to measure whether a man is worse than you, nor is it to see whether he is better than you in the field you are good at. Zhang Ziyi, who is good at acting, can find Wang Feng, who is good at singing; Fan Bingbing, who started the company, matched Li Chen, who drove a racing car; In the past, Sun Li was more popular than Deng Chao, but Deng Chao has always been a competent joker; and Xu Jinglei, leaving the next sentence "Why am I marrying a big money, I am a big money myself".

    You and your future lover are not two planks, you must be taller than me, but if it is a barrel, two people work together, complement each other, be grateful for each other's longboard, and strive to make a bucket with a larger water storage. In this process, both people must be able to do it, but the direction of their ability is different. If you have to say that a capable girl can't get married, it can only be said that the success of her career narrows the vision and mind of some girls.

    On the one hand, they want to break the old concept and become a new woman, on the other hand, they inadvertently maintain the old concept, believing that men are better than women because they make more money, have higher official positions, and have more connections. Seriously, you are not engaged in technical competitions, you are busy and tired at work, and when you can go home and have a funny young man to play with you, you should be grateful, be his fans, worship him, and praise him, because not every man has the ability to live a dull life, and not every man has the courage to give up the dream of entrepreneurship.

    As a new woman, you must have the confidence that being competent in the workplace and successful in your career will only make you increase in value in the marriage market, not depreciate. Men's values are also quietly changing, and if they understand life and want to find someone to do their career, a diva like Faye Wong, no man will think she is too capable, has too much money, and is unwilling to marry.

    You prefer to believe that it is capable to make you single, because you are not willing to face up to your own shortcomings, and it is certainly cooler to talk about your advantages, just like a girl in the advanced stage of princess disease, saying that I broke up with my boyfriend because I was too beautiful, and lightly brushed aside my personality shortcomings, never reflected, never improved, and always blamed society.

    But why are there so many women who are better than you and better married than you? It's really hard to face ourselves, but we have to do it. In any case, when your core competitiveness and advantages are questioned as the disadvantages of a certain market, you must firmly believe that what needs to be corrected and doubted is not your strengths, but your approach to the goal.

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