What kind of psychology is this roommate? My roommate always learns from me, what is her psychology

The louder the scream, the more fragile the psyche becomes. There is an idiom called "grandstanding", which says that this is the case. He actually wants to communicate with you, but he doesn't know how to get your attention, so he does such a thing.

It is a mental illness with low self-esteem. Brother, all you have to do is either become good friends with him and try to transform him, but the cost is too great. So it is better to turn a blind eye to the recommendation and keep a tolerant heart.

After all, the forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. In the future, when you set foot in society, you will see more people, so be lenient with others.

Don't worry, this is a manifestation of self-talk, self-talk is not a serious problem, just a normal psychological phenomenon, most people will have the phenomenon of self-talk when they are under pressure, feel anxious or fearful, but most of them are short-lived, with the prolongation of time and the disappearance of the source of anxiety, the phenomenon of self-talk will disappear. But some people who are introverted or lonely at heart will talk to themselves for a long time. When this phenomenon appears, the self-talker is often mentally detached from reality, accompanied by a certain degree of fantasy in his mind, and will imagine the object, environment, plot, etc., and has a tendency to obsessive.

In other words, the patient feels psychological catharsis and spiritual comfort from his own self-talk, so that he feels addicted to his self-talk behavior and cannot be restrained. Sometimes, long-term self-talking, or uncontrollable self-talking impulses, will bring great distress to the self-talker, so the self-talker often has a short-term psychological comfort in the process of self-talking. Hope it helps.

That's people's freedom. You don't have a mental illness. It's just that the tube is too wide.

Hello subject, from your expression, I can feel that you must be very troubled when you encounter this kind of thing. I've also had the experience of being imitated by others, and every time this kind of thing happens, I get very bored.

Inner Life mentions that there are 3 primitive identities in infancy, and they are actually 3 different paths to "how people learn to be themselves". They are adhesive identity, projective identity, and intrinsic identity.

In my opinion, this behavior of the subject's roommate is undoubtedly a typical sticky identity. This type of person lacks an internal value system, their values do not arise from the heart, but are attached to others, and they form their own judgments by listening to the judgments of others. In other words, they can't really judge what they approve of and what is more valuable.

They will only pursue the East and West that will be recognized by more others. They will imitate the appearance of others, copy the lives of others, and like to catch up with fashions and chase new trends. Some people seem to be doing well on the surface, but in fact they are really calm and content.

Obviously, your roommate has fallen into a situation where copying someone else's life to form a self-identity. Faced with this situation, the subject may have two options.

One is to help your roommates get out of this situation.

As mentioned in the previous answer, you need a quiet and suitable environment to talk about each other's thoughts alone.

The second is to try to adjust one's mentality so that it is not affected.

In fact, the other person's imitation of you reflects the affirmation of your lifestyle and personal worth. In other words, you just need to continue to follow the trajectory of your life, and there is no need to change your life because of some unnecessary things.

I hope it can help the subject.

Psychological Judgment Analysis:

From your description, you can feel that your roommates imitate you in a lot of disorderly behavior, which makes you troubled, angry, and feel violated, right?

1 Why does she imitate you? Does she imitate only you or a lot of people?

Looking at your description, you didn't ask the other person directly, mostly your own feelings. From your point of view, she has a lot of behaviors that replicate yours and make you uncomfortable. So why would one person imitate another?

Maybe she's so envious of you. Envy your aesthetic, dress, lifestyle. Maybe she wants to be close to you, maybe she has low self-esteem and wants to get closer to you by being like you.

There should be no ill will towards you. So if you look at it again, does she imitate others as well? Is this a way for her to survive?

2 Aside from her question, why did you react so much to this?

I don't know what your personality is, who are you closer to in the dormitory? Do you have a small circle? What kind of impression and evaluation do you have of her as a person?

Why did you react so much to this? Through your own analysis and introspection, you will know what you care about. What triggers your feelings of dissatisfaction or even being violated.

Can you find a way to adjust your feelings?

3. Communicate at the right time and exchange ideas.

In a more relaxed state, it is best to communicate when the two of you are alone. Listen to her thoughts and tell us how you feel. It is also a method of negotiation between the two parties.

In various circumstances, we are always prone to meet some people we don't like. It may be that his behavior, or even his looks, makes you dislike. But more often than not, we have to get along with each other and even cooperate with each other.

It's a kind of jealousy, and he wants to hit your self-confidence in this way, and he will use this way to highlight himself.

A: This is a kind of jealousy mentality, and I think this kind of psychology is not right, and it needs to be eliminated as soon as possible.

It's a kind of trickery that wants to make you ugly. Not only will it make you a joke for everyone, but it will also make your original inferiority complex even more inferior.

Summary. Dear, what questions did your roommate ask?

Dear, what questions did your roommate ask?

It's just that I want to ask, my roommate helped me to delete the key, I told another roommate, and suddenly remembered, I said that I helped my roommate before, clockwork, I believe how to delete me? This belongs to the broken draft, don't you say it's broken?

I asked my other roommate if he saw through it, didn't he say it?

Dear, you've seen through it.

The best thing to do is to pretend to be confused, and don't ask anyone.

Just keep it in your heart and stay away from this roommate.

I'm ha, you speak slowly.

It's that I helped my roommate put things away, and then I asked on WeChat to find out that I was deleted, and then I asked another roommate to say, Why did I suddenly remember one thing, that is, I helped her put things away, and sent WeChat to delete me, and then I asked another roommate, and then, she said she didn't know, I said why she suddenly remembered this, so it doesn't belong to seeing through the world, and it's not about breaking the limbs.

I pretended to suddenly remember and suddenly asked another roommate curiously, haha, so I can see through it.

Hahaha, this is a roundabout way to see through it.

So is this a way to see through it?

Yes, you didn't ask your roommate directly.

But this leaky hail does not belong to the meaning of seeing through it and not saying it, what about breaking the Wu Wu and searching the stove, this person doesn't need you to take it to heart, so make a small move behind it.