I quarreled with my boyfriend 27 times in a semester, can I still be harmonious We are both 22 years

I've seen a couple who often quarrel over trivial things, such as buying fruit, one says to buy apples, the other to buy oranges... Such a couple is real.

Although there were constant quarrels, they still got married because they loved each other, but later divorced. Why is that? Love should be tolerant and considerate, but they don't understand it, so it is doomed to failure.

Maybe it's better to pass this stage, we were too, almost every day, but now it's okay. There is no couple who does not quarrel, and after the quarrel, both people should reflect on it and consider the reason. It's better to calm down and not argue about who's right and who's wrong when arguing, there's no point.

In hindsight, maybe both of them were at fault. Let's run in slowly. Wishing you happiness!!

Since you remember the number of times so clearly, it means that you will not forget the unpleasantness, since this is the case, then break up and find someone who can accommodate you to continue a new life, 22 years old is not very old!!

Divide it early, the longer it drags on, the more it hurts, and the road ahead is still long, and there is no point in dragging it out.

Yes, my girlfriend and I fight every day.

What is the reason for the quarrel? In the first year, I could quarrel 27 times, an average of once every two weeks, and after three or five years, I would argue almost every day.

If this is really the case, it will be like this even after you get married, so let's break up.

The man also has a strong sense of self-esteem, he just doesn't take the initiative to apologize. It's been a cold war for several days, and this feeling can't withstand such a toss, and the toss and toss will be gone. As a woman, do you want to win or lose at this moment or have a long-term harmony between husband and wife?

After entering married life, we all know that quarrels between husband and wife are common. The result of many quarrels between husbands and wives is: I don't want to pay attention to you, and you don't want to pay attention to it, and enter the cold war.

After calming down, you may regret your previous behavior, why did you quarrel at that time, but at this time, no one is willing to take a step back to take the initiative to reconcile, or wait for the other party to take the initiative to reconcile, anyway, they can't save that face. It seems that if the other party takes the initiative to show goodwill, it will show: Ha, you finally bow to me, I defeated you, I won, I am powerful, I am the strong one.

But in the end, in such a non-concession between the two sides, or in the power struggle between the two people, in fact, no one can make a good profit, it will only make both parties scarred, and in the long run, it will hurt each other's feelings, and slowly the feelings will become weaker and weaker. Just like the money in a piggy bank, it is slowly used up, and when there is no new money to save, your relationship will slowly fade.

Think about it, is this the result you want?

I believe that no one wants the relationship between two people to be slowly exhausted in marriage, and anyone who steps into marriage hopes that marriage will grow old together, and I hope that the relationship with this person will always be as sweet as it was at the beginning. Then we might as well think about it differently, if in the relationship, when two people quarrel and have a cold war, at this time, one party can take the initiative to reconcile with the other party. Attention oh:

This reconciliation does not mean: I can't live without you, I beg you, this reconciliation is actually facing up to your own problems when you see them, and taking responsibility for this part of yourself in the quarrel.

Dare to express your shortcomings and weaknesses It may seem as if you are weak, but this softness is what is really strong. You will realize that the result of this softness is a win-win situation, in exchange for the opportunity for both parties to communicate with each other on an equal footing, through equal communication, each other to see their own shortcomings, and then slowly correct in life, your relationship will get better and better.

It seems that you took the initiative to apologize at first, but this kind of voluntary apology in exchange for the longevity of your future life, the longevity of the relationship, the nourishment and sweetness of life, and your husband will also be grateful to you for your kindness and tolerance. Such softness, in fact, in exchange for the result is good.

No, maybe it's because the two of you don't know how to think about each other, you should communicate more and learn to empathize.

No, there will always be a lot of contradictions and frictions between two people together, which need to be slowly run-in, and there are often contradictions between husband and wife, just pay attention to communication.

I think that two people who always quarrel can't just think that it's their own fault, both parties must be responsible, so two people should care about each other, understand each other, find a common problem, and solve it together.