Why do I want to get married so much, please help me

It's not a mental illness! When you talk about your parents' divorce, it may be due to your long-term lack of family warmth and love! Make you crave it even more!

I'm as old as you, and I've thought about having a home! That's because I want a son! What we want is often what we lack!

So don't worry, 20 years old is not too young, and people in the past got married in their teens! You may be too uncaring right now! It is estimated that it will get better when you fall in love!

There are a lot of issues to consider when getting married! Money, houses, etc.! So it's better to adjust your mentality by yourself.

This is affected by the instability of the family breakdown, and I always hope to have my own happy and peaceful small family as soon as possible, which is natural, but I am not in a hurry, and I am stable.

Definitely my parents have a relationship.

It was your parents who influenced you.

It's not a bad thing to consult a doctor.

Yes. To a certain extent, people of your age need to be loved by their family and want to see them get along. The divorce of your parents has hit you hard.

After so many years, you should have a clear understanding of these issues. So you have to adjust yourself, you can't live in that shadow all the time.

If you really have a problem, you go to a psychiatrist.

I don't know who you're talking to, I don't assume you're talking to someone, then talk to your girlfriend about your previous things, and I'm sure you'll change quickly.

It's not that you want to get married, you just want to find a warm home. If you want to live happily in the future, then work hard now to pave the way for your other 1 and a half to live a happy life in the future. Marriage needs to be maintained by two people.

Now that you're young, just study more.

It's normal to want to have your own home!

The reasons for wanting to get married vary from person to person, here are some possible reasons:

Love and intimacy: Many people want to get married because they love their partner and want to have a deeper intimacy with them. Marriage can provide a stable, long-term partnership that makes people feel more secure and content.

Family and social pressures: In some cultures and societies, marriage is seen as a tradition and an expectation. Family and society may exert pressure to make people feel compelled to marry in order to meet their expectations and demands.

Financial and legal security: Marriage can provide some financial and legal security, such as joint property, social security, inheritance, etc. These guarantees can make people feel more secure and stable.

Children and family life: Many people want to get married because they want children and family life. Marriage can provide a stable, safe environment in which children and family members feel more at ease and happy.

In short, the reason for wanting to get married.

To a certain extent, children are not the necessities of Zenhan marriage, children are the crystallization of love between both parties, and it is the best time to have children when both parties are ready to take on this responsibility.

It is more due to traditional concepts, as well as the pressure and gaze from parents or society, I feel that if two couples do not implement or plan to have a child, they will be very "different", just like the current lack of understanding and support for "Dink". Even if we face the "struggle" of "chickens and dogs" with children every day, we will still promote the concept of having children to the young people around us, is it the meaning of "we have entered the pit, not you and who you are".

There is no need to numb oneself for reasons such as raising children to prevent old age. To this day, parents in the family are still running around for their children to help their children raise the next generation. Even if parents who are not involved in parenting tasks are taking care of themselves, if there is a real need to "prevent aging", maybe there are few things that children can do for their parents.

In order to participate in the growth of a life, a life starts from nothing, from small to large. Feel the wonder of a life, the surprise of two hearts beating in a body, the wonder of slight changes and fetal movements. Feel the tenacity of a life, and come to a world with complete trust.

In order to better understand yourself, to be a seed, a new life, and an understanding that comes to this world with trust. To better understand one's own state in the process of growth, to see and accompany the process of one's life growth, is to take care of and understand oneself in the process of growth.

In order to better understand life, it is precisely with children that our lives can be celebrated and laughed. It is with children that we can become parents and better understand our own demands, our own love and hatred.

Why do you want to get married? You have to ask yourself, what's the point of asking outsiders?

Marriage is happy, and each of us pursues to have a happy marriage. But some people choose to divorce because they are unhappy in their marriage and do not want to marry again. ......For me, if I had the opportunity to choose again, I would still choose to get married.

The reason why I chose this way is because I think that a person should get married, that you can only have a happy life if you marry the person you love, and that your marriage is very happy.

If you choose again, of course, you will choose to get married for these three reasons. Men should get married, women should get married, and in my philosophy, a person should get married. Everyone has their own ideas about marriage.

As far as I am concerned, my view of marriage is that men should get married and women should get married. I think a person should get married, and only married life is complete. And in my opinion, getting married is a natural choice.

It is precisely because I have this concept that no matter how I choose, I will choose to get married. Only by marrying the person you love and starting a family can you have a happy and fulfilling life. Each of us is in pursuit of a happy and fulfilling life.

And if you want to have a happy and fulfilling life, you must act accordingly. ......My opinion is that if you want to live a happy life, you must marry the people you love and start a family in order to have a happy and fulfilling life.

It is precisely because of this idea that even if I choose again, I will still choose to get married. My marriage is very happy, so if I choose again, I will definitely choose to get married.

From a practical point of view, my marriage is very happy, and I feel very satisfied. ......Because of this, even if you choose again, you will choose to get married. And the person I marry will still be my current lover.

I have already obtained a happy marriage, so no matter what I choose, I will let my happy marriage continue. ......It is precisely because of the above reasons that if I really have the opportunity to choose again, I will still choose to get married.

Actually, I really want to get married. I don't know if it's because I envy others, or I want to belong to my heart, or I just feel that everyone has a family and children at this age, and it seems that only I am still floating in the sea, and I have to suffer from other people's saliva.

A leftover woman in her thirties, teaching in the countryside, sometimes finds that in addition to work, she is like a lonely boat floating in the sea, swaying when the wind blows, and is in danger of sinking into the sea every minute. At this time, I want to dock so much! I tried to find a harbor for me to dock into, but the wind in the sea made me lose my way, and I couldn't find where to return.

I have no place to return to, seeing the time when others accompany my parents and children, and seeing the scenes of others showing affection, the envy revealed in my eyes really makes me feel a little sad. I also want to settle down and have my own home, my own children, and accompany her to grow up. Maybe I won't be a patient mother at the beginning, but I will definitely keep reflecting and summarizing to make myself a patient mother!

I want to settle down like this, and I still look forward to the fantasy of him who makes me impeccable. I look forward to the one who can make me happy and bring me stability. She was persuading me that such a person did not exist, and even if he existed, he would disappear in the future, but I still had a glimmer of hope to meet the person I wanted.

But I don't seem to try to meet, I'm always waiting to meet! Time passed in the waiting to be met.

Don't wait, don't complain, do what you want, fight for it, no matter how tired and annoying, work hard, try to try!

The reason why I want to get married is because I have met someone who is more suitable for me, and I also like him, and he also likes me, you don't have that idea at the moment, and you may not have met someone who wants to get married right away.

That's because your mind is not mature now, you feel that you can live well alone, you don't need an extra person, increase your burden and pressure, but in fact, this kind of thinking, when you get older, the more you will realize your mistakes.

I've thought this before, so why do I have to be tied to another person?

Later, I learned that the vast majority of people are like this, and when they grow up, they need to get married and have children, and pass on the ancestry, which is the tradition of the Chinese; If you go against tradition, you will be under a lot of social pressure, and your parents will not agree, which is very difficult to bear.

I've asked a lot of people why they want to go to school before, and a lot of people are that everyone else is going to elementary school, junior high school, high school, and university.

When you haven't grown up enough, some traditions are confusing.

Later, I felt that a person is always too lonely, there will be a lot of difficulties and confusions in life, and it is very warm to have a person who can always accompany and support himself, so the other half is also called a partner. I also want to have a child, so the other half is also called a wife. Maybe it's because you fall in love with a beautiful woman, which is called a lover.

So slowly you will find that we need the other half and need to live together, and marriage is the legally recognized ...... of this relationship

Therefore, it is not easy to find the other half, it requires fate and hard work.

Sometimes there are several kinds of marriage, one is that the two love each other and get married, and the other is that there is no way to get married if you are pregnant before marriage, and the other is the marriage caused by the urging of parents. If you don't have the idea of getting married now, it means that you haven't met someone who makes your heart flutter, and you haven't met someone you are willing to get married! There are several types of marriage, but it takes the hard work and cooperation of two people to run a marriage!

Because we want to get married because we want to get married, I don't have this idea, because I feel that I am too lonely alone, and I want to find someone to accompany me, so that I don't have to be too lonely. You don't have this idea, it's because you don't want to get married.

When you reach the age, some people want to get married, and some people don't want to get married, which is a normal idea. Maybe you haven't met a partner who makes you want to be able to go through life together, and you haven't met someone you like. Not wanting to get married, it's no surprise.

Improve yourself, take your time, and maybe you will have the idea of getting married when you meet your favorite partner on the road in the future.

Two people get married because they want to go into married life to a certain extent and let their marriage be guaranteed, so they will get married. The reason you don't have this idea is that you haven't met the person who makes you feel tempted.

Maybe it's because I'm too young, my thoughts are too simple, and I haven't met anyone who wants to get married, so I don't have such thoughts! Not everyone wants to get married, there are also non-marriages, they enjoy freedom! Everyone thinks differently and can't be generalized!

We got married because we reached the right age and met the right person, so we chose to get married and have children, support each other, help each other, and live a good life. You don't have this idea because you haven't met the right person yet.

You still don't have the idea of getting married, probably because you are still young, not yet old enough to get married, and your parents at home have not urged you, and one day you are older, and your parents are always urging you, and your relatives and friends are already married, at this time you may start to be anxious, or you may start to want to get married.

We want to get married because we feel that we have been together for a long time, we are familiar with each other, and we are quite happy. There is a family that is more stable, so I want to get married. You don't want to get married, maybe you haven't played.

I think that other people want to get married, but you don't have this idea, because you are still not particularly confident in married life, maybe you are not ready for this aspect, so you don't have this idea.

Whether it's a man or a woman, I think marriage is mainly physiological. There is another thing is to find a destination for emotional sustenance, this is the true meaning of life, although I don't understand these, I also knew a little about these things at the time.12