I really hate my home, I hate the people in my family, what should I do?

A person's greatest freedom is that he can make decisions for himself.

Who will you choose who you love and who you love? I must love you, and the vagrant and doctor you said don't love you, and you don't have a long-term relationship.

It's not easy for your boyfriend Your dad said he didn't have a good job because he didn't have social benefits and security like civil servants I'd rather bully the white beard than the poor young.

He's still struggling, and it's not easy for an out-of-town person to get a foothold in the city and have a good job, which shows that he's very promising.

Your dad's planned marriage is outdated, you have to believe in yourself, after all, he loves you, feelings are exchanged, bread is fought for.

At least my parents are typical, when they first arrived in Chengdu, they only had 120 yuan on them, and they didn't even have a house, so they gave birth to me, but now my family has 140 square meters, 2 cars, 3 computers, and the furniture is mahogany

Hehe, there are no absolutes in everything

Menopause is here, and it's normal to go crazy.

If you want your dad to accept your boyfriend, I guess it's very difficult to get your dad to change his mind...

So ask your boyfriend to do something for you that will move your dad

And I think you have to understand your dad, after all, he's old and you're not too youngHe is mainly afraid that your road will be difficult in the future. I feel that your dad is a man who cares a lot about his family, otherwise he wouldn't have asked you to find a man with a house

He's angry because older people do that for a whileSlowly recuperate yourself

I think you can reflect on yourself through your mom and your dad

I think you should go for your own happiness. Although the parents care a lot about the right door. But I don't think it's really necessary unless you're top rich. When looking for a man, you must learn to discover potential stocks, not just look at what is in front of you.

Take your own happiness into your own hands!

You are a woman, you should understand that if you marry a man, you have to go with him He is from another place, maybe he will go back to his hometown in the future to develop, your parents should understand that he wants you to stay with them, and there will be someone to support you in your old age In addition, you should understand the things that your parents give you Don't blame them for being demanding, because they want these things, if the man can give them to you, in the eyes of your parents, they think that at least if you marry him, you won't let him suffer. If your boyfriend develops locally in the future, then you have to talk to your parents well, and you have to be calm, I'm the same as you, I can't listen to my parents, hehe, but the truth is clear, maybe you're in it, and you don't understand

I'm depressed, I can't figure out if your parents are just for a house.

Your parents will always love you, and you have to learn to think from their point of view.

Your dad is typical of machismo depression plus male severe menopause.

You don't care about your home, I can't stay in such an environment!

If it were me, I would move out immediately, and when I became an adult, it was my freedom to live **. Moreover, if you fall in love with your boyfriend and it doesn't break the law, doesn't the law clearly stipulate that a man who doesn't have a house can't have a girlfriend? Big joke.

Your father is only short-sighted, and you yourself know that if you follow his path, the happiness of your life will be ruined! You and your boyfriend have such good prospects, why should you care about what your father says? If you're going to marry your boyfriend, I'm the first to support it.

Their own feelings are their own decisions, and it is a matter of feudal society for parents to manage marriage.

Now no one can interfere with you, you have absolute autonomy. If you love him, don't be afraid. If obeying your parents in everything is filial piety, then what if your father told you to kill someone?

You have fulfilled your obligations, as long as you have a clear conscience. You can't ruin your happiness like this!

I patiently saw from the beginning to the end, and I was so angry that I could see it.

You remember that your happiness is in your own hands, that only you can decide the path you want to take from here, and that your future belongs to you, not to your parents. Do what you want, and even if the results are not good in the future, you will not complain. If you really want to marry your boyfriend, then get married.

Your dad may not understand now, and may not understand in the future, you just need to take care of him like a vexatious child. Maybe he will understand the moment in the future, and at that time, I am sure you will be very happy!

Hehe, I'm also a teacher, and my dad used to be similar to your dad, always asking me to find a man with a rich house.

But my current boyfriend is from the countryside, his father is sick and can't do any heavy work, and he has a younger sister who is in college, and he is supported by him many times, and my father was very opposed to me dating him from the beginning. I think he has no money and no background!

I asked my dad: Do you want me to marry money or do you want me to marry someone who loves me? My dad said it's best to be rich! You can't live a good life without money!

I asked again: If the man has money given by his parents, and he himself has no interest, and he will not earn it when the money runs out, what will he do in the future? My dad doesn't speak.

I ask again: If that man will earn money even if he is rich, but he doesn't love me and loves me, and he doesn't go home every day, then what should I do? My dad said:

It's up to you, you're so old anyway, you just have to make your own decisions, anyway, my biggest hope is that you want to be happy Haha, I'm victorious

Now my boyfriend and my mom and dad get along very well! Sometimes they treat my boyfriend better than I do, and I get a little jealous

What an age?

It's up to you.

It's good to feel happy yourself.

Your dad will definitely forgive you.

Try to sit down with your parents and communicate with them, in fact, parents love their children, and everything they do is to hope that we can live a better life in the future. Talk to them calmly, and you may understand something you didn't expect. Give it a try.

You can do this with your family who hate yourself:

1. If you really can't control your emotions, then try to have less direct contact to avoid hurting your parents because you can't control your emotions and regret it afterwards.

2. The starting point of parents is still for the good of their children, but it is possible that the way of love is not right, or what you give is not what you want, but their nagging is also to hope that you are good, if you don't want them to be like this, then you can prove to them that you can live well! If you're really good, they don't have to worry about it, and they won't be nagging you anymore.

Changing others is a psychopath, and changing oneself is God. "You are getting better and better, and it will naturally affect the people around you and their attitude towards you.

3. When your mood stabilizes, you can calmly talk to your parents and talk about your heart. If you can't do it, then sort out the reasons why you are out of control after you are emotionally stable. Remember that although the family of origin has a great influence on a person, many choices are made by yourself, don't be an ostrich with your head buried in the sand, have the courage to face the storms of life, and try to be the master of your own life.

No one can beat you but yourself.

4. Read more books and study more to enrich yourself, keep yourself busy, don't think nonsense all day long, complain about others, when you have wisdom in your brain and a good fortune in your heart, you will be able to better understand your parents' "hate" and your own "impatience", and you will no longer be entangled in these haves and nos.

1. Children from single-parent families, whose parents have a bad relationship and quarrel at home, will not like to go home. 2. I like freedom, and I don't like to go home if I have too many children at home. 3. There are brothers and sisters at home, and they are not loved by their parents, and their parents are partial and unfair children, and they don't like to go home.

4. Nowadays, many people who work outside the home are forced to go on a blind date when they go home, and the children who are forced to get married will not want to go home. In general, it is the lack of affection and pressure from parents, siblings, that leads to this result. If going home is easy, pleasant, and comforting, I believe there is no one who doesn't like to go home.

Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you, why do you hate your home? I think it will basically be the following situations: 1. Children from single-parent families, whose parents have a bad relationship and quarrel at home, will not like to go home.

2. I like freedom, and I don't like to go home if I have too many children at home. 3. There are brothers and sisters at home, and they are not loved by their parents, and their parents are partial and unfair children, and they don't like to go home. 4. Nowadays, many people who work outside the home are forced to go on a blind date when they go home, and the children who are forced to get married will not want to go home.

In general, it is the lack of affection and pressure from parents, siblings, that leads to this result. If going home is easy, pleasant, and comforting, I believe there is no one who doesn't like to go home.

A happy home is a warm nest under the umbrella of a safe haven, and an unfortunate home is a sad burden, a hole that can never be filled, and can only be said to be a place that you can't forget.

I don't like what to do with the family now.

If you don't like your current family, you can run away and live alone.

Summary. Dear, good morning, the family hates us, then we have to find problems from our own body, I believe that our family will not hate us for no reason, dear, we must have such and such shortcomings or mistakes, then let's find out our own mistakes and correct it, I think the family will definitely like us after we correct our mistakes, after all, it is our own family, and we will not worry about anything.

Dear, good morning, the family hates us, then we have to find problems from our own body, I believe that our family will not hate us for no reason, dear, we must have such and such shortcomings or mistakes, then let's find out our own mistakes and correct it, I think the family will definitely like us after we correct our mistakes, after all, it is our own family, and we will not worry about anything.

My dear. We should also pay attention to the attitude of talking to our family, if we are in a state of hostility for a long time, then I think our relationship with our family will not be good.

In short, my dear, we also need to respect each other with our families, and only when we respect the people in our family will the family respect us.