Ask a question about a relationship and what questions to ask in a relationship

My situation is the same as what you said, I have been with him for 5 years, and you have the same psychology, I am also waiting for him, finally one day he said, I waited for nothing to wait, hehe, you are a boy, girls are very reserved, like you, like her, you should tell her, it's time to come, otherwise her heart will slowly become cold, a girl, waiting for you for so long, don't you think, she is very hard? State! I'm not talking about myself, just consider her current mood from the aspect where I am similar to her, when you lose her, it is impossible for you to redeem it, love is like this, it is not easy to find someone who really loves you, cherish it, maybe one day, she suddenly left, and you who still like her, will feel overwhelmed, and she said it, nothing, otherwise you will not have a taste in your heart, I think you must not like the feeling of waiting like this, when will it be a head?

Like one that is more pure than your trust and avoidance, and seeing the end I don't know if you really like her, not the habit of so many years,

Love has to be spoken out loud, what are you afraid of? Why are you so scared of things?

If you like it, take the initiative!

I really hope you are happy!

I ask you a word, do you really like her?

Be proactive if you like it. You're a boy, and she's such a good girl. Make it clear to your face.

You may find it difficult, but as long as you muster up the courage to say the first sentence, the rest of the words will be all spoken. Problems like this should be judged when it is decisive, and if it is continuous, it will be chaotic ("broken" means decisive). If you keep running away, you won't be able to solve the problem, and it will also hurt others.

Finally, I would like to be brave if you love, and decisive if you don't love!

Talk about the topics you are interested in, and try to be as tactful as possible about the questions you want to ask, after all, it is just a state of love.

Speaking from the heart is the most beautiful, the premise is that there is true love.

We all know that everyone has a little bit of their own secrets to a greater or lesser extent, but in an intimate relationship, it seems that there should be no secrets, so when women are in love with men, they are most afraid of men asking themselves these questions, because they don't know whether to tell the truth or not.

In the case of breaking up because of willfulness, frequent quarrels or personality incompatibility, etc., the psychological change of a man is that he will feel a sense of relief at the beginning, feel very relaxed, and at the same time will have a sense of guilt towards the other party, at this time he will not be willing to meet the other party, because the pain of meeting you at this time is like a reminder of his cruelty and failure (no matter who proposed the breakup of this relationship, it is a failed relationship). Won't want to think too much about anything between you. At this time, most of the time he is immersed in or transferred to something of interest, so you can't see on the surface that he has any pain or thoughts about the relationship.

In this case, the woman may understand that those who may ignore you and are unwilling to meet, or you may find that he is emotionally entangled from the previous side.

The second is because of the reality of the situation, such as studying abroad, long-distance and other reasons to break up, the man's psychological changes, at first will be very rational, think of various reasons to persuade himself, will be very attentive to the other party's situation, but also very painful, and unwilling to meet, which will aggravate their pain and incompetence, willing to do a lot of things for each other and miss the sweet love time very much, in this case, if there is no external force, the possibility of a third party is very rare, and then it will slowly calm down. But the feeling of powerlessness will always be there. In this case, there is no need to worry about why the other party seems to be the same as when they were in love, but everyone knows very well that the relationship is falling apart, just like breaking up after graduation.

Third, in the case of hurting self-esteem, for example, the girl has a sense of superiority in this relationship, or the conditions are superior, the woman's parents do not agree, etc., the man's psychological changes, he will begin to resent the woman very much, and will transfer his emotions through games or immediately looking for a new lover to alleviate this pain, and at the same time, he hates himself more because he is incapable, and when his self-esteem can't stand it, he will hate the woman again, and then another round of such a cycle of resentment, if the woman is recovering, she will bear a lot of anger that may be vented, The stage of breaking through the defense is also the most difficult part.

Generally, the breakup is nothing more than these three situations, some people may say that we are opposed by the man's parents, we are in a different place, but it seems to be a personality incompatibility, then I count which one, his mentality changes to see which situation, that is, the most important reason for your breakup is which is which situation, such as those mentioned above, the most important thing is that the personality is incompatible, then look at the first one. In fact, don't always worry about how the other party is, think about it, and don't focus all your energy on tangling and guessing what the other party thinks in their hearts.

People who truly love each other should be able to endure the wait.