My boyfriend is attracted to someone else, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-29
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Of course not, and not for a long time.

    First, you're still students, and you're still facing very few things, really. In such an environment, people whose feelings are not yet stable should not have any thoughts about them.

    Second, look at a person not to look at his kindness to you, just the opposite. You have to see how he treats others, even strangers, it's a reflection of his nature. There's a saying about being courteous for nothing, and you'll know that later.

    You're looking for a good person, a reliable person. A person can be very good to you, and of course he can choose to be bad to you in the future.

    Third, love for a lifetime, and when it comes to not being able to do it, it is a matter of distrust. How can a person accompany him and believe in him if he has no faith, that is, he can't talk about a person who can stand on his own? Since he just let it go, you just wish him happiness, but I'm afraid that when he will remember to look for you again.

    Don't give him hope at that time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello. I can give you a little advice.

    If you still love him, talk to him well, what belongs to you is always yours.

    If you feel that a man like him who has been going on and over again is not the person you want, then break up decisively for so long.

    I am disgusted by a man who has a girlfriend and likes others. A man who is not single-minded.

    Dear, think about it yourself, remember, girls should be decisive and be their own queen.

    Hope. Thank you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's hard to rely on such a boy for half-heartedness.

    Think about it, you have repeatedly indulged him, I don't know how to cherish it, but betrayed you, is it that he thinks again, no matter what, there is still you in the end, so he is unscrupulous?

    But it's hard to be sorry for this man, and as for why, I think all boys who have had experience know it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    A long-distance relationship is very hard, so don't embarrass yourself and break up decisively, it's for yourself and him...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think so, I think if you, as a boy, encounter such a situation and have such confusion: that is, your girlfriend in love is attracted to another boy, what should you do? I think it's better for you to do that.

    First of all, when you are a boy, when you encounter such a situation, what you have to do is to figure out the accuracy of your own information, and don't make a wrong decision because of a misunderstanding, after all, it is fate for two people to fall in love together, so you should cherish it as much as possible.

    You can find out if it's true that your girlfriend has a crush on other guys before you make a decision.

    If you say: After you are a boy, after carefully understanding it, you find that your girlfriend is indeed interested in other men, and has developed substantially. So if that's the case, I think you, as a boy, should break up with this girl as soon as possible.

    However, if you are a boy, after you get to know each other, you find that your girlfriend is attracted to other boys, but it is just a flash of thought in your mind, and there is no substantive action, and at the same time, your girlfriend's love for you is also true.

    So if that's the case, I don't think you should be so careful, as long as your girlfriend doesn't have any substantive action, you continue to get along with her. At the same time, don't forget to keep your attractiveness, don't let it decline too quickly, because when your girlfriend meets someone else she likes, she will subconsciously compare, if you are excellent, then your girlfriend will naturally not give up on you and choose someone else.

    Therefore, when you are a boy and encounter such a situation, what you should do depends on the situation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you should break up with the other party, because the other party has a heart for other men, so there is no need for you to continue to entangle with the other party, you should break up decisively.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should choose to break up, which means that your girlfriend has very little affection for you, and if you don't break up at this time, it will only make you particularly painful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Be sure to tolerate each other, communicate more with each other, understand each other's true thoughts, and don't be in a hurry when you encounter this situation.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Many people value the other party's single-mindedness most in their relationship, and some people, once they find out that he is transgendered, will immediately and decisively choose to break up. So if we obviously have a boyfriend, but recently become interested in a man, what should we do?

    In fact, when we ask this question, our hearts are making choices, but we must know that it is love, not choices. That is to say, at this time, what we should do is to be loyal to our boyfriend, not because we are attracted to this boy, we have to choose this heart. And in fact, the most taboo thing in the relationship is this kind of choice, if we always do it like this, choose the hole, and definitely abandon our boyfriend because of a new person next time.

    What's more, most of the time, most of the time, it's just a moment of heartbeat, not a love for this person, the heart can only show that he is our ideal type, or we like a certain trait of him, but the boyfriend is the person we love, liking is not the same as the heartbeat, and love is different. So what is the need for us to make a choice for the sake of this moment's heartbeat, or to abandon our boyfriend.

    What's more, for a person's love, a boyfriend is very important, that is to say, in this process, even if we are attracted to a boy, we should not let this relationship continue. If it continues, we are likely to fall into a cycle of novelty, that is, if we choose this guy and abandon our boyfriend because of this heartbeat, then we may do the same next time. So what we must know is that in this matter, we have to choose our boyfriend, not the person with this heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Hide your love for this boy, because you already have a boyfriend, you can't be sorry for your boyfriend, and you have to be responsible.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    At this time, you must break up with your boyfriend, because you are already in love with someone else, and if you have this situation, don't delay your boyfriend.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    At this time, you have to think about who you like in your heart, and you can only choose an emotion that cannot occupy both parties, which is not right.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Unsettled, looking at the bowl and eating in the pot, it is recommended that you precipitate yourself first, otherwise even if you break up with your current boyfriend and be with the person you like, it is difficult to guarantee that you will not do the same thing in the future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Divided with the heartbeat.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. What should I do if I have a boyfriend and meet someone I like? If you have a boyfriend and meet someone you like, you can do this.

    Calm yourself down. Many girls know that this kind of motivation may just be due to a momentary impulse, so when you realize that you are passionate about this man, you must calm yourself down. Don't assume that you have a strong liking for that guy.

    Don't be possessive of this guy.

    What should I do if I have a boyfriend and meet someone I like? If you have a boyfriend and meet someone you like, you can do this. Calm yourself down.

    Many girls know that this kind of motivation may just be due to a momentary impulse, so when you realize that you are passionate about this man, you must calm yourself down. Don't assume that you have a strong liking for that guy. Don't be possessive of this guy.

    Now my boyfriend communicates more. When you realize that you are a person who has a boyfriend, but you are attracted to other men, you must communicate more with your boyfriend at this time. Maybe in the process of communication, you will find that in fact, the boy is just a temporary interest, not a real liking.

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