My boyfriend is terminally ill, what should I tell him?

Is uremia incurable? If yes, then tell him, if not, don't tell him, stay with him and know that he is cured.

Be by his side, don't let him have a burden, and support him to complete the **, if there is really no way, just go through the rest of the days with him, so that he will not regret it. Don't say it first, check it again to confirm, maybe it's not serious, maybe it's just scaring yourself.

If you really love him, undying love, then you can tell him frankly that you love him and will always be by his side no matter what happens, and don't let him have a psychological burden! I wish his illness a miraculous ** because of your unwavering love, and then stay happily together for the rest of his life!

Don't say it's a serious illness Don't tell him that it's so serious first, tell his parents first, **.

Well, I suggest you tell him.

Hiding it from him is the greatest disrespect to him.

If you like him, tell him the truth.

Because he has a right to know his body.

I don't think he's going to be like that, the point is that he cares about you, and he's going to think about what you're going to do when he falls.

You have to be strong and let him heal well.

Good luck.

Don't be so desperate, one of my relatives is in the late stage of nephritis, which is probably the kind in the early stage of uremia, and he has lived for almost 20 years.

He also felt that he was finished at the time, and later his relatives found a well-known Chinese medicine doctor, prescribed a prescription, and then exercised every day and played tai chi, but now he is in good health.

It's not a big deal, don't be afraid!

When faced with such a heavy dilemma, your emotional experience must be understandably complex.

Seeing your boyfriend's condition deteriorate, his future uncertain, and his financial worries can be very worrying and powerless. In the process, you need to acknowledge your feelings and give yourself time to process them.

At the same time, it is important to note that your boyfriend may also face many emotional difficulties. He may feel helpless, lonely, and lost, and feel uneasy and hopeless about his future brother. His personality may also change due to the worsening of his condition, which can cause a certain amount of strain in your relationship.

At this time, try not to overemphasize his negative emotions and encourage him to find pleasure and meaning.

It is recommended that you try to avoid using words such as "should" and "must" in your communication with him, and instead use encouragement and support to express your views. Try not to make him feel that you are judging him or giving him negative emotions, but help him find positive ways to face reality. For example, encourage him to actively communicate with doctors and teachers, participate in support organizations, and find support and comfort.

You can consider accompaniment to do something that makes him feel relaxed and enjoyable. These activities don't require much expense or time, for example, walking, watching movies, reading books, listening**, etc. These activities can help him get out of his negative emotions and better face the challenges in life.

There are also practical suggestions, such as helping him to set a goal and plan so that he knows that there are still things he can do and achieve in the midst of his illness. These achievements may be small, but they can make him feel confident and satisfied. You can help him find support organizations to connect with other patients and families and share their experiences and support.

Finally, it is important to emphasize that your emotional support and companionship are very important. Although you may face many challenges, your presence and care will make him feel not alone and will also make your relationship stronger. In this process, you also need to set aside time and space for yourself, process your emotions, and get enough psychological energy!

Men are the pillars of the family, and without the auspicious conversation, it is equivalent to the collapse of the family. If something unfortunate really happens one day and he suffers from a serious illness, he has to find a way to cure it no matter what. Even if there is no hope of **, you have to be cured, and you can't give up any hope.

Even if you buy peace of mind, you can't give up your partner. If it was me, I would tell them that there was no need for treatment, and that there was no need to waste that money. It's better to do something meaningful and leave fewer regrets for yourself. I don't want to burden my family because of myself.

**。Ms. Zhang should follow the doctor's advice, respect the wishes of her partner, and do what she has to do.

If such a thing happens, you must first see what the doctor is going to do**, and you must also listen to your partner's thoughts, and do what you should do when the time comes. If there is a disagreement between the doctor and the partner, we will choose to listen to the doctor.

Follow the doctor's instructions**, and you will definitely try your best to cure your partner. If it is really not cured, it will still be decided to do it based on the ideas of the doctor and the partner. Everything is about the partner, as long as it is for his good.

**。Mr. Luo: See if there is a possibility and then decide what to do.

It will decide what to do according to the severity of the disease, and if it can be cured, it will definitely be cured; If it can't be cured, there's no need to waste that money. It's also good to use the money for something else and reduce her regrets.

Now the probability of suffering from a serious illness is too high, and when it is discovered, it is basically at an advanced stage, even if it is a surgery, the possibility of ** is very high, and once ** there is almost no salvation. Therefore, all decisions must be made after weighing the pros and cons. No one has lost their lives so early, the premise of ** is that they must be cured, otherwise they can only lose their wives and soldiers in the end.

Loss-making deals are irrelevant to anyone.

Accompany the ** together, you can't say throw it down and leave.

I also used to imagine a situation like this, what if he got seriously ill. The only answer I can think of is to take all our savings to save him, take care of him, and accompany him. If his illness is cured, then we will live the rest of our lives well; If he is not cured and he leaves me, then I will die alone, alone, reminiscing about my time with him, taking care of his parents and our children (if there are children), waiting to be reunited in Heaven.

For me, my husband is not only a companion, but also my spiritual pillar and confidence**. Except for my parents, no one has ever loved me like this, cherished me like this, gave me a worry-free life, and was by my side every day, so that I was not lonely at all, so that I was no longer so inferior, but more confident and enthusiastic to face life and the future.

If it weren't for him, no one in this world would love me so much, and let me love me so much.

I also thought about the situation when I was terminally ill, and every time I thought about it, I would say to him: If I have a disease that cannot be cured, don't treat me, don't waste money. Just accompany me on a trip, do what I want to do, eat what I want to eat, and enjoy the last days of my life.

After I die, scatter my ashes into the river, don't do guancai, I have claustrophobia. Don't make a big deal about it, I'm afraid you'll be tired, my mom did it when she died, but I don't like that. If you meet someone you like later, be together, but be sure to be good to my old Mu Mu (if you have children) and raise him well.

And don't forget my dad and my brother because I'm gone, they are in trouble and please help them. You don't have to miss me too much for the rest of your life, as long as you don't forget me.

These are my heartfelt words, but every time I tell him, he is sad and can't let me say these unlucky words, he says that if I am gone, he will not live.

Hopefully, what I've envisioned will come later. I hope that we, as well as all the couples in the world who love each other, will grow old together and live a long life.

This one will definitely leave him, because he and you are friends and are not protected by law, so there is no need to waste time on him.

I will take him to accomplish all kinds of things that we have always wanted to do but have not had time to do, I will take him to watch the sunrise and sunset, sit by the sea and listen to the sound of the sea, and then gently snuggle up in his arms and listen to him talk about the various tastes of his childhood

I don't know if I'll meet someone else in the future, probably not, after all, he doesn't like him so much, and no one is him. But I will definitely accompany him, let him remember our best times, and let him walk happily on the rest of the road.

If your boyfriend is terminally ill, as a girlfriend, you should be by his side to spend the last years with him, and at the same time, I believe that he will also give you happiness so that you will not regret it in the future.

I will always be there for him, encourage him, and I will try to bring him happiness and not be so miserable during this time. When he does leave, I will choose to die alone.

If your boyfriend is terminally ill, she will accompany him through the last leg of the road and will not abandon him.

If the relationship is very deep, I will accompany him through the last life to fulfill his wishes, but if the relationship is not so deep, then I will choose to break up.

Of course, treat him first, don't leave him, and try to accompany him, otherwise it will aggravate the condition and let your boyfriend spend the rest of his time with peace of mind.

I will stay with him until the end, silently guarding him and giving him spiritual and psychological comfort.

In this case, I will choose to accompany him through the last journey, so that he can walk with peace of mind, and he may be sad but still have to accept the reality.

If that's the case, I'll spend the last days with him so that he can have a good time.

I will choose to accompany him through the last part of his life, and encourage him to be positive** and look forward to miracles.

I will do my best to accompany him on his last journey. After all, they really love each other and don't want to leave their emotions with regrets.

Summary. Long-distance relationships are a particularly difficult thing, which means that you don't think your boyfriend treats you very well now, does it?

My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, I'm sick, I've been going to the hospital for a while, I'm afraid to go to the hospital later, my boyfriend said You decide for yourself, I didn't accompany you to the hospital, and I don't know what the doctor said.

Long-distance relationships are a particularly difficult thing, which means that you don't think your boyfriend treats you very well now, does it?

He later said that you yourself can't make up your mind about anything.

What he means is that he hopes that you can be mentally independent, and that you can take care of yourself, but I think he may feel that you are not assertive, so you try to be assertive in the future, and if you can't do it, your boyfriend will replace it, because he doesn't comfort you, but says this about you.

The next morning, after 10 o'clock in the morning, I sent him a message until 9:30 in the evening, and I asked him if I ignored you and you wouldn't look for me, and he said how could it. Then he told me that he was at home, and he didn't tell me when he got home. So he doesn't love me anymore, does he?

That's not necessarily, it's possible that this guy is that for a while he may indeed have something to ignore you, then he has denied that he will look for you, so you still have to look at the details, maybe his feelings for you have been a little flat recently, so you can take the initiative more when he is not active, if he has always been like this, then maybe he just doesn't like you anymore.

Because as long as some boys are cold to you, it may be because there are other girls, he is already warming others, this is indeed a fact, a fact.

I definitely don't want to drag you down, such a man really loves you, but he's a good man, but it's a pity that he has a terminal illness.

In fact, he also thinks that you can accompany him to the end, but he knows that he will not live long, and continuing will only drag you down, and the terminal illness will require a lot of money to treat, he must hope that you can live better, so he wants to drive you away, and he just doesn't want you to look at his embarrassed appearance, I hope he is perfect in your mind, and the most important thing is to hope that you are happy.

In fact, I think my boyfriend has a terminal illness really no need to leave him, with you I believe he will happily walk the last journey of his life, terminal illness is painful, is tormenting, who wants to live the last moment of their life alone, since they know that it is a terminal illness, just face it calmly, cherish every second, maybe the next bell will never see this person who was once very close to you, if I am terminally ill, I hope to follow the person I love to walk around the world, to see the scenery outside, Instead of staying in the ward all day, waiting for death to come, I hope to do something meaningful, especially to follow the person I love to the last moment of life, I hope I can die in his warm arms, just hold me and watch the sunrise and sunset.

If you still love him, cherish every second of your time with him, no matter how he treats you, I believe that he begged you to leave just because he loves you too much, just doesn't want you to watch him die, just hopes that you can find happiness as soon as possible, people will always die, but this came too early, so in order to make him happy to spend the last days, you have to be determined not to leave him no matter what he tells you, so that he can still have a reliance in his heart!