What am I missing more than others, am I a mentally normal person

Actually, you are a very normal person. The difference between normal people and abnormal people is actually very small, normal and abnormal people have abnormal thoughts, and normal people do not do it after abnormal thoughts appear. And abnormal people are putting the abnormal thoughts in their brains into practice!

Moreover, it can be said that introverts have more abnormal thoughts than normal people. Because of the inside, I often stay by myself and don't communicate with other people. Therefore, my own ideas are more and more different from others.

And the so-called normal is to remain the same as most people. An introvert communicates less with others. Deal with your own thoughts--- it's like an island, isolated from the world, the creatures on it evolve on their own, and over time, the creatures here are of course different from the creatures in other places!

But being different doesn't mean it's bad!

If you want, you can change it, your situation is very similar to the situation of a first lady in the United States, I forget what the specific name is, but after hard work, she has become a very sociable, politician, she herself said that she is willing to meet new people! This habit has not changed for the rest of my life after it is formed!

First, you have to learn to accept yourself. Everyone's personality is different, you don't like to socialize or are not sociable, or even you say that you have a short-tempered personality and other problems, in fact, they can be changed after adjustment. And now that you've been able to recognize some of your shortcomings and have the desire to correct them, that's great.

As for the other specific confusions you mentioned, I haven't met you and can't give you advice. However, if you want a better solution, I recommend that you go to your local mental health center to find a psychological clinic and talk to a professional psychologist. I'm not scolding you, because I'm a psychology major myself, and many people in psychological institutions outside are fishing in troubled waters and are not professional, and you may be more confused if you don't get help from them.

And the psychologist at the mental health center is professional and may be helpful to you.

In fact, there are many people around you like this, there is a person in our class who blushes when he sees someone, if you can't change in the current environment, you can go to a new environment, appear in a new image, forget your previous self, be cheerful.

Low self-esteem, lack of self-confidence, strong sense of self-protection, lack of security.

It will be better to find a place to spend money and find an uncle.

In fact, if you are not attentive when listening to others, are you still thinking about other things and have distracting thoughts in your heart?

When I listen carefully, I always keep my head down and try to listen with my ears slightly in the direction of others.

That way, I can listen carefully and have time to think carefully.

It is very rude to communicate with others if you are not always serious about what you say to others, which is very taboo in interpersonal relationships.

In fact, it is not necessarily all the questions you listen to, and the amount of knowledge you have has a certain weight on this.

When getting along with people, you need to learn a little bit of psychology and some logic in terms of expression.

The book of psychology suggests that you look at the weaknesses of human nature.

Logic: You can check out the books in the Logic Space-Time series.

Hope it helps!

What you lack is knowledge and social experience, what you want to increase is knowledge social experience and confidence, only by enriching knowledge can you respond freely, so I hope you will redouble your efforts and stand out!

1.In any situation, it is better to listen more than to talk more. Listen to others and be sincere.

The eyes must look at other people's eyes or head within a certain range, and there must be a voice of approval and approval. But.

Don't say too much (if you're bad at speaking) and others will think you're his loyal audience.

2.You are a sign of lack of self-confidence.

First of all, you need to build your confidence and see what you are good at.

You can do anything, you don't have to be very knowledgeable, for example, if you know how to cook and you are very good, people will ask, ah, you are so good at cooking, do you have any secrets? Even if you don't know how to cook, you always have your own strengths, musical instruments, singing, running, climbing, swimming, reading, ,..

3.It is recommended that you go and buy a book to check it out.

It's hard to be confused!But sometimes you can't be too confused. After all, it's not interesting to say everything in vain.

But if you think about everything. That's cranky. It's going to be tiring again.

The key is a question of degree. This brings me to another question. How to grow up.

See more. Learn more from others. Talk less.

Suffer more. Sometimes. Suffering is also a kind of life experience!

People have two ears and a mouth, that is: listen more and talk less, I'm similar to you, I've been learning all along, I haven't learned well, and I have read all the weaknesses of human nature, and I still haven't learned well, "Hey", who can say, "There is still some psychology".

Missing the heart eye. 1Think twice before acting.

Everything you do has to think about all possible outcomes.

In order to take measures to minimize the damage as much as possible.

Lack of heart and eye Remember to think twice.

Your introspection is not deep enough to pull, take your time.

You may be wise and foolish. Einstein was like this as a child.

It would be nice to read more good books.

Actually, I'm the same as you, I don't talk through my brain, sometimes I say everything, interpersonal relationships are not good at all, I'm worried every day, don't talk, I feel too stuffy, talk about it, and people don't like to listen to me...

You think too much, don't think about it if you don't have to.

It's better to live a simpler life, isn't it?

What you lack is faith! You have to overcome yourself, it's okay, believe in yourself!

You may really be like a child, so you have to be funny to death, pay attention to it in the future, and think twice!

The ancients said that we wake up three times a day, let's wake up once a day, talk less, and listen more to what others say.

It's so impetuous. Sometimes you need to be quiet!

I'm not a psychiatrist, so I can't help you.

Sympathy, what should we do?

Lack of vitamins and minerals, mainly zinc.

You immediately go to the pharmacy and buy a bottle of zinc gluconate tablets, put two tablets in water and drink them, and you will feel the miraculous effect in 10 minutes.

Practice is the only criterion for testing truth. There are still 16 days left until the end of the question, and it is completely time to verify my words.

You are now in a fantasy world, and it is best to find someone to communicate with at this time When others are unhappy, I can persuade you to be good Q: 7376264

Generally at 7 p.m.

I'll try to analyze it. Make a reference for yourself. First of all, the family environment you have lived in since you were a child is very uncaring, so you are very insecure and have a strong sense of crisis.

Your father is very strong, very controlling, very self-conscious, doesn't care about your feelings, and thinks of himself in everything. Domestic violence, often being treated unfairly or being blamed excessively, makes you very sensitive, suspicious, and often wonders if you will do something wrong and what you don't do well. This state is like a seed, and slowly you are prone to a tendency to obsessive-compulsive disorder and depression.

This kind of home environment takes a big toll on your self-esteem. Now there is a clear flaw in the formation of your character. Reason: Family problems, you will be afraid in your heart, and even if your inner emotions are bad, you will not dare to vent them.

I don't think you're going to be crying right now. Because of the long-term suppression of emotions, the personality has become numb and even distorted. You are helpless and desperate.

You can't express your joys, sorrows, and sorrows like normal people, and vent them. So you're in a bit of a cold and emotionally weak state right now. But these are the characters that are slowly formed in a discordant family environment.

In fact, you are also a victim of failed education. If you really want to live a normal life, then first you need to have an ego. That is, you have to know what you want and what you don't want.

Learn to express your emotions. Try more things that are easy to accept, cultivate some interests, and slowly have a center of gravity in your life, and your spirit is full and sustenance, and your life will usher in its own spring. Slowly you will feel many factors and elements of happiness and happiness in life.

Although it is in the gray spirit time for a long time. Although the sky was cloudy, the sun was still shining outside the dark clouds, with blue skies and white clouds. Give yourself more positive cues, confidence, and try more.

You will slowly feel the joy of being alive. The heart will also be stable and steady. In addition, I think you can try to learn some meditation, which will have a good effect on you in this state.

Eliminate negative emotions, purify and soothe the mind, and help you rediscover yourself. All right. That's it!

Have fun! = Addendum: Teach you a little method, try it yourself. Pick up your pen and paper and feel relaxed and comfortable.

Think of something that you think is good, positive. For example, "blue sky", "lavender", "bright stars", "Jay Chou" and some other things, things and people that you think are good. Write some when you have time, and then imagine it.

Be as specific as possible. This can stabilize your emotions, make you feel peaceful, comfortable, serene, and can eliminate some negative emotions in your heart, etc. It works very well.

Try it when you have time. If you can hold on for 2 weeks, then after 2 weeks the bad things, anxiety, irritability, depression and other negative things will leave you. Your life will be brighter.

Acceptance, adjustment, reinforcement, change.

Have fun.

It's not a psychological problem, it's idle. It's not ridicule, really, it turns out that I'm like this, your eyes are looking at the wrong place, you have to face yourself squarely, in order to break through yourself, your eyes have been on others, over time, not only has not improved yourself, but only full of jealousy and hatred to yourself full of negative energy.

It's not that I have a bad heart, and I don't put it in an important position.

It is not a question of whether you study well or badly, but your personal cognitive concept is affected, and the lack of self-encouragement produces self-confidence and messes up your state of mind.

Everyone makes decisions about life through hard work. You can go to the vegetable market or the bottom of the flyover to see the decoration project! Open for rent!

Boarding the human tricycle! Those people are no worse than you! Aren't you trying to live an active life yet?

Let's take a look at Jack Ma's history of struggle. Maybe you don't feel miserable. People are more angry than people.

You can work to be better at yourself.

Psychologist Carl Rogers says that the process of life is the process of being yourself and becoming yourself. Find your true self, be yourself, be yourself, be yourself. Don't compare yourself to others.

I don't know much about your situation, so I guess it might be the following:

1. Lack of security and want to get answers in girls. The act of trying to take advantage is an act of verification.

2. There is a mother-lover complex.

If not, I didn't say it.

Normal, it is the nature of men to be.

There are 3 types of men: 1, lustful.

2. Very lustful.

3. Very lustful.

If you don't feel right, go to the doctor.

Do you want to take advantage of others?

As a man, understandable!

But it's not a good idea!

There is a saying: think about it, do something!

If you think so, although you don't make a direct action, it will affect your temperament!

No, it's that you're in a kind of psychological initiation, it's a physiological reflection, and when you want to take advantage of others, you'd better control yourself, not because you don't have a girlfriend.

It is normal for you to have such a reflection that there is nothing wrong with your person. Are men like that?

Psychologically normal, didn't you say ten men and ten flowers, but you have to have self-control.

I really can't recommend you go to a psychiatrist, hehe!!

No, the phenomenon of puberty.

It depends on whether the person's psychological problems are serious or not, and if the psychological problems are not too serious, then he is no different from normal people.

I think there will still be, and I should be able to see if they think it is or not.

Be practical, you also have advantages! It's normal to brag too! But when you're serious, you have to be serious!

Also, if you don't communicate with people you don't know, you should correct it! Otherwise, it will slowly move towards autism!

Go your own way and let them go!

You have poor language skills and are not very cheerful.

Close your eyes and listen to your favorite songs.

Yes, what is lacking and what is wanted, this is the physiological instinct of human beings, just like when you are hungry, you will want to eat, and when you are thirsty, you will want to drink water, these are all subconscious actions.

If you want to be good in everything, don't be better than others, this is comparison, because you are inferior, you need to compare, use material to fill your spiritual emptiness, you need to use comparison, use material, to prove yourself, because you have nothing else except material, this is what we call spiritual emptiness people, it is easy to compare, inferiority, conceit.

The comparison mind is actually very scary, it can make a person jealous, vain, selfish, inferior, self-blame, cover up, flatter, etc., etc.

It is recommended that you find a psychological counseling for psychological growth, get rid of the original naïve immaturity and wrong concepts, fill your spiritual emptiness, and become a confident person.