I want to marry my girlfriend, but her family has been against it and depressed

It can only be said that the world is realistic.

Think about it from another angle.

If you are a parent.

Do you think that your daughter has to suffer because she didn't marry a good family?

The parents' idea is actually very simple, that is, they want their daughter to live well.

Material things have become a necessity in society.

Ay. That's the reality.

Emotional needs. Substances are more needed.

My parents are also against me and my boyfriend, and I am also in a different place, and I am dying of sorrow for this, and I can't do it with my family, and my father has a heart attack, and the reason why my parents oppose it is because he doesn't work in a state-owned enterprise, and I am going to collapse.

Brother, struggle. Let's talk about it when it's mixed up. There are more people like you.

In the end, there are only two choices, one is to persevere, the other is to give up, the best ending is that you become what your girlfriend thinks you are through your own changes, and then get the favor of her parents, and finally live happily together.

A flower? In fact, you should find the reason from yourself, why your girlfriend's parents don't agree with you being together, your girlfriend is going to break up with you, you fall in love with their daughter and it's not them, I guess it's because your girlfriend is dissatisfied with you, so you take out her parents as an excuse, if you really love her, you can talk to her, it's you who don't do well, you can change, as long as you work hard and do what she asks, there's nothing to find fault with, right? If she still wants to break up with you at that time, it is not your fault, a person who insists on breaking up with you will not see your efforts, even if you do too much, she will not look at it, such a girl is not worth your change at all!

I have a classmate, his sister and brother-in-law got married this year, said that their relationship is actually twists and turns, his brother-in-law likes his sister very much, but his sister didn't like his brother-in-law so much at that time, so his brother-in-law gave up, and went on a blind date with a girl in his hometown, and the two of them got along well, so they were ready to talk about marriage. Although his brother-in-law can't let go of his sister, who makes his sister dislike him, just when the two of them are about to get married, the girl and her sister suddenly contacted him again, saying that they want them to be together, in fact, as a bystander, her sister is really despicable to snatch love like this, you don't like people to marry others, but the man is good, dumping the fiancée here.

went to find true love, in fact, there is no one right or wrong in love, it is said that her sister and brother-in-law are living happily now, no matter how twists and turns, the final ending is happy! I'm not saying that you should also find one and get married, if people really want to share it with you, then the twisted melon is not sweet, and you can only choose to give up, right?

If you have to break up, then cut through the mess quickly, break it off as soon as possible, and her parents don't like you, so she can break up with you, which means that she doesn't really like you. I have parents who like you, so why bother to love that flower? Why give up an entire garden for a single flower?

Maybe she's not your destiny, and your good match may be someone else, so don't worry, just be patient!

There is really no one right or wrong in the relationship, just by feeling, feeling right for you, even if you go against the will of your parents, you will be with you in principle, it doesn't feel right, you do too much in vain, so don't blindly pursue, it depends on whether your feelings are there?

You're not married to his sister, as long as this woman is willing, you can also give some gifts to this woman, it must be that his sister thinks you're too poor.

You and your girlfriend are getting married, and her sister is very dissatisfied with you, so you should please your girlfriend more and have a good relationship with her sister! It's going to be fine.

Then you're going to have to be a little smarter! Be kind to your sister, buy him a favorite bag, and give him a gift? Is her sister married? Do you have any children? If you have a child, buy something for her child!

Her sister has no right to stop your marriage, you can rest assured, now you need to find out why her sister is dissatisfied with you, and then find a way to reconcile with her.

As long as your girlfriend likes you, it's useless for her sister to object, but you'd better convince her sister with your girlfriend not to object.

In addition, you must have a good relationship with your girlfriend, and be together sincerely, as long as the two of you love each other, I believe that you will eventually get married.

You can ask your girlfriend what her sister is dissatisfied with about you, and then you can change it.

Before getting married, you should get the approval and support of both parties' families, and if you are dissatisfied with you, you should actively correct it.

I like my girlfriend very much and wants to get married, and my family strongly opposes it, what should I do?

1.Judging by your question, it doesn't make any sense to your girlfriend. Since I don't know why your family opposes this relationship, I can't give specific advice on how to do a good job of ideological work at home.

Secondly, it needs to be clear that if you do not show a strong determination not to marry her in the face of unwarranted opposition from your family, the woman's family begins to put pressure on her and wants a clear attitude, which is also a very reasonable response.

2.Finally about whether you should stick to fighting with your family, this fight is not only for your girlfriend, but also for yourself. In fact, you are fighting for your right to choose a mate.

If you compromise with your family this time, it means that you can't choose a wife who will be with you for the rest of your life according to your preferences, and you can only choose a spouse according to your family's ideas. To be clear, try to avoid conflict when dealing with family members. But you must stand your ground when making statements.

If your family is a bit tough after you make a statement, you will back down and compromise. Then your family will know that strong opposition will not solve anything. If not, be strong.

As you can imagine, even if you break up according to your family's idea this time, the same problem will be repeated between you and your family in the future.

3.I would like to remind you that if you can't be the master of your own life, even if you are lucky this time, you will be hindered a lot after marriage. If you start to retreat in the face of some difficulties, it is better to let the girl survive sooner.

Both men and women must obtain the consent of both parents when facing marital problems, but sometimes it is not so smooth and requires some witty methods to solve it.

4.I like my girlfriend very much and wants to get married, and my family strongly opposes it, what should I do? After being rejected by his girlfriend's parents, the man should find out why they disagree.

First of all, he has to figure out the reason, and then he can prescribe the right medicine. This is what a man should do at this time, and then he can have future development. Only when both men and women get the consent of each other's parents to get married, can they enter into marriage smoothly at this time, but they can also have a happy future.