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A person has always been poor for nothing more than three reasons: lazy, unable to endure hardship, and worthless. Here are my thoughts.
First, lazy. Some people may say that many poor people are actually very hard-working, getting up early and greedy late, trying to find opportunities to keep up with the people around them, I do not deny this kind of effort, but in my opinion, this kind of effort is to use physical diligence to cover up the laziness of the mind, and use the inefficient efforts of the body, or even ineffective efforts to prove that poverty is not their own fault, and he also worked hard, but he did not make money. This kind of effort will make the person feel that he is poor and at ease, either he has low self-esteem and gives up his life in vain, or he blames himself for bad luck, bad society, etc.
Look at the people around us who have achieved results, how many of them are wasting their time and making money by luck alone? All luck is because you have enough accumulation to catch it. Take the short ** that has been relatively popular in the past two years, many ordinary people are counterattacking on this track.
Second, the poor cannot endure hardship. Most people's understanding of the meaning of enduring hardship is too superficial, poverty is not enduring hardship at all, poverty is poverty. The essence of suffering is the ability to focus on one thing for a long time, as well as the entertainment life, ineffective social interaction, meaningless material consumption that is given up in the process of long-term focusing, and the incomprehension and loneliness endured in the process.
After these people are rich, they are still more diligent than you, they can still tolerate loneliness better than you, they can delay gratification more than you, or they are simpler and purer than you, this is hardship.
Third, there is no value. When a person has money, in essence, he has done the right thing and created value for society and others, and money is the applause he gets. The reason why a person is poor and why you don't give him money is because this person can't give you what you want, and he doesn't have the value you want to exchange for money.
This value can be technical expertise. After you talk to someone, you often have a pause, and you want to talk to him for money, which is a kind of emotional value. Therefore, it is very simple for a person to be poor, that is, he has no value to export, and others do not need him.
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Yes, there are mainly these reasons, spending money lavishly, not wanting to forge ahead, not having a stable job, not knowing how to save money, and not knowing how to manage money.
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The main reason is that they have the goal they want to develop, but they have never been firm in their hearts, and they have not worked hard to develop or improve their self-performance for their goals, which has led to their current development being affected, and they have been very poor.
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If a person has been poor, it means that the person is very lazy, unwilling to do anything, and has no idea of wanting to change his fate, and can only blame himself if he remains poor.
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In traditional Chinese concepts, face is very important, and poverty, as a relatively negative word, is obviously not normal. Generally speaking, there are two main types of such people, one is really poor and the other is fake poor.
People who are really poor dare to say that they are poor, they are seeking truth from facts, and self-ridicule, begging for help, facing it calmly, etc., all belong to the common mentality of such people who shout poor all day long.
It is obviously untrue for people who are fake poor to shout poor all day long, they are pretending to be poor, and they are dishonest. Showing superiority, satirizing the poor, preventing the poor from borrowing money, etc., are common mentalities of such people.
Ordinary people bought a bag of dozens of yuan, and posted a circle of friends saying that they were poor and could only afford such a bag. The fake poor man bought a donkey card with the same text, expressing that he was very poor. It's like a fat man saying that he wants to **, which is by no means modest but a fact.
And a slender person shouting ** all day long is not kind.
Whether you are really poor or fake poor, you should not talk about it all the time. Really poor people talk about it all day long, and people will look down on them, and no one will take the initiative to help you, unless there is another purpose. People who are pretended to be poor should not shout poverty all day long, this kind of person who shows superiority on the one hand and shouts poor on the other hand will make the real poor people feel ashamed.
If you don't welcome others, you will even bring trouble to yourself.
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I think that a person who says he is poor is not necessarily really poor, it is possible that he is rich, but in order to protect his personal safety and wealth security, he deliberately hides his wealth.
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Nowadays, there are many rich people who always pretend to be poor in front of others, because they know that money is not exposed, so they always say that they are poor, and often this kind of person is the richest.
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That may be true, after all, everyone has a different definition of poverty.
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Well, some people say they are poor every day, but in fact he is not poor, he just doesn't want to be so scum.
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There are two situations, one is really poor, and the other is pretending to be poor.
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Work mindset. Always working, often doing simple and repetitive mechanical work, not thinking about the future from a cognitive height, not fundamentally improving their abilities or skills, and covering up their strategic laziness with tactical diligence. Afraid of risks, afraid to change; I was too conservative to break through myself.
Work thinking limits one's potential, solidifies one's investment ideas, restricts one's vision and cognition, and ultimately leads to poverty!
There is no strong pursuit!
When I encounter a problem, I don't want to ask for help, I always think that I can be self-reliant, but I can't find a solution for half a day, which is time-consuming and laborious. Life is too short, so why bother asking for more blessings. Use your strength and wisdom to ride the wind and waves, in order to break the waves in time!
Learning is a lifelong thing, and it is a necessary skill and awareness for a successful person. Therefore, some people say: live to be old, learn to be old.
It is also said that if you don't study for three days, you won't be able to catch up. This shows the importance of learning.
If you want to succeed, you must take the initiative to learn and take learning as the most important thing in life, so that you can keep making progress and shine everywhere. Looking at the poor, it is not that they are intellectually inferior, but that they are lazy, have a narrow vision and lack initiative. Their common characteristics are love of face, strong self-esteem, and weak learning ability.
There is no ego and often goes with the flow.
In the world, we will always deal with people; To be a man, of course, you must have yourself; Knowing what you should do and what you shouldn't do is a person's bottom line and a principle. To be a man, you must have principles and your own bottom line. Don't hand it over, and don't hand it in.
On the basis of abiding by the principles, swing freely; In the case of keeping the bottom line, it can be played appropriately. You can't live without yourself; Either they don't like to socialize and have few friends; To be a man, you can't go with the flow, or make friends, but the quality is not high. There are many friends who have wine and meat, but there are very few people who can really help themselves.
Do it yourself, don't follow the crowd, so that the principle will not waver, and the bottom line will not be loosened.
Without courage, there is no action!
The poor are often very timid people, and they always seem particularly cowardly in doing things; You are always afraid of things when you do things, causing you to miss too many opportunities in hesitation; They are irresponsible, pursue safety and insurance everywhere, are timid and fearful, and have no manhood. They can't always make decisions when they're in trouble, so when they're in trouble, they suffer from it. If you never decide, you will suffer.
The poor are always full of illusions; I often daydream about unrealistic, unearned things, dreams that one day I'll be lucky, dreams that pie will fall from the sky, but just don't want to put it into action.
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The most fundamental reason is that he did not find the right opportunity, his ability was not good, and he was not particularly industrious, so it would lead to this person's poverty.
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I think the fundamental reason why a person is poor is that he is not motivated, does not work hard, does not have a high vision, and is not good at seizing opportunities.
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It should be that the original thinking and logic have not been changed, and the thinking is still stuck in the ideas of the previous generation or the upper generation.
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<> "10 Reasons Why a Person Is Poor.
1.I have been working part-time, doing simple and repetitive work, without fundamentally improving my ability or technology, and covering up strategic laziness with tactical diligence.
2.Confused, anxious, confused, and goalless.
3.Unwilling to ask for help, unwilling to take the initiative to learn, thin-skinned, strong self-esteem, and weak learning ability.
4.Either they don't like to socialize, and they have few friends; Either there is a flood of friends, but the quality is not high.
5.Lazy cancer, decadent, full of bad habits, no learning, no skills, extreme lack of self-discipline. Anything can distract her from her attention and action.
6.Always afraid of loss, unwilling to pay; Always afraid of losing money and being conservative.
7.timid and cowardly; Always love fantasy, just talk but don't practice, no action.
8.Prefer free and cheap items, but waste valuable time and inexpensive sunk costs.
9.Never reflective, Suishu picks on others in everything, and blames the earth for constipation, which is not attractive, and is extremely harsh!
10.Stubborn, uninformed, rigid in thinking, and not knowing how to be flexible. The poorer the person, the more stubborn and stubborn the person is, the poorer he is!
In fact, the 10 points in the article can be said to be the reason, or it can be said to be the solution, many people are always feeling sorry for themselves, why can others make money?
But if you think about it, is it that we have been unwilling to jump out of the circle and have been proving ourselves in the wrong direction.
Or maybe the execution is not enough, and every day I always think about starting tomorrow. I hope we can meet at the summit one day.
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Summary. When a person often says in front of you that he is poor, he probably means two things: first, he is really poor. Want your help! Infect you subtly, let you give him the way to get rich that you don't care about or teach him!
When a person often says in front of you that he is poor, he probably means two things: first, he is really poor. Want your help! Imperceptibly infect you in front of the base, so that you can hand over the way to get rich that you don't care about to give him or teach him to Yu Xu!
Second, this person is not really poor, but he has noticed the changes in your current living environment, and he can't tell you directly. There is a risk around you, or you are doing something risky, your friend has already sensed that you may fail, in case you fail, he is already prepared, "I told you a long time ago that I have no money to shout, this time I can't help you" This kind of thing is better to say in advance! Such friends should be cautious in their dealings, not deep friendships, and not not without making friends.
He can be used as a weather guide or reference point in your work! If he is far away from you and keeps saying that he is poor, then you have to introspect yourself!
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