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You listen to me, people in the city are looking at people through the eyes of cats, always one doesn't believe one, including neighbors, I don't know how it became like this, I think the best way for you at the moment, first of all, is to deal with school classmates or work friends, and secondly, the mentality must be peaceful, to paraphrase a few words: tolerate what people can't tolerate, endure what people can't tolerate, don't think about loneliness, autism, decadence or something.
Remember: Don't worry about the road ahead without a confidant, no one in the world knows you.
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As the saying goes: the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time. Everyone has their own range of communication, take your time! After a long time, it is natural that someone will associate with you.
You can also take the initiative, for example, people in the community play cards together, and you can go and watch.
Anyway, you have to have confidence in yourself, don't rush it, and go with the flow.
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In fact, it is not as difficult as you think, that is, when you see your neighbors, you can nod and smile first, take your time, just arrive in a city, there will always be a sense of strangeness,
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Smile a lot, and say hello to anyone you know on the road! Even if others don't respond, laugh and don't think too much about it. Others think you are close and will naturally be friends with you, listen to me!
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It becomes sunny. People will think you're close. Naturally, I have friends.
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The world is not indifferent, as long as you put your mind to it.
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The world of adults is very complicated, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, it is good to see clearly, it is good to make a shallow relationship, every relationship whether it is family, friendship, or love can not be a layer of unchanged, so it is better to go with the flow, and there is no need to suffer from gains and losses.
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First of all, because people don't understand each other, because they don't understand each other, this will cause many problems, and everyone will judge and deal with these problems with their own personality and thinking.
When people begin to understand each other, they will have a heart of suspicion, and after having a heart of guessing, people will make more complex behaviors and actions, and among these behaviors, there are good and bad behaviors. Finally, when people get to know each other in general, this is when people will act in a way that thinks they know others, which makes them unhappy, and a new kind of problems arise, and when there is a problem, it often leads to the breakdown of the relationship.
Therefore, the relationship between people is very complicated, and even according to the above, there is a possibility that different situations may occur, because man is a thinking and rational animal, and will react differently to different things. In fact, the complex relationship between people is innate and cannot be violated, as long as you treat what happens positively and do not think inexplicably, you can simplify the relationship between people.
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