As a parent, why can t you post your child excessively in the circle of friends?

Nowadays, many parents like to post their children in the circle of friends, whether it is to show off or want to record the growth of their children, they must remember not to post their children in the circle of friends excessively, otherwise it will not only bring trouble to others, but also bring trouble to themselves.

The disadvantages of excessive exposure may make you feel that what you post in the circle of friends is your own business, and I can't make the decision in my own circle of friends? In fact, there are not only people you are familiar with in the circle of friends now, but there may also be criminals who are silently paying attention to your circle of friends when you don't know. Grasp the information of your family and children so that you can impersonate and commit fraud later.

And if you show off too much, it affects your relationships. Some people seem to be afraid that others don't know how good his children are and how powerful they are compared to their peers. So in this case, frequent exposure to the baby will forget the people around you.

It's not that you can't show your baby, but everything has a degree, and you can learn to let your child grow up happily in a safe environment. <>

The correct way to show the baby is to see the character of the circle of friends, so how to show the baby correctly? First of all, do a circle of friends group, you can only show yourself and your family, just select the group. Secondly, pay attention to the way, protect the child's privacy, and don't send out any information.

There are few faces**, and the name and position must be mosaic! Mosaic! Mosaic!

Not to mention exposing the child's privacy at home**, such as the child's bathing, swimming, and no clothes**. The frequency of posting on Moments is less, and it is okay to post it once in a while, so that it does not affect others and maintains a sense of freshness. Finally, respect the child's ideas, and don't post content that the child doesn't like, after all, the child is also an independent individual.

If you post ** about your child's school in your circle of friends, expose what your child is doing every day, suggest or delete it, you never know who is browsing your information。If someone borrows your message, there is a good chance that the child will be put in danger.

Because exposing children to the public eye too much is disrespectful to children's privacy, and it may also bring some unnecessary dangers.

I don't post either, for the sake of privacy and security, I will shoot a lot**,**, I will make **clips into small short films, and I will save **number, but I will not send it to the circle of friends. and my parents, and my in-laws, each have a group, and they will post in these two groups. Don't want your baby to have any chance of being harmed.

It's not easy to hold back, don't show off, don't share too much, it's not easy, especially if she's so cute, she will laugh, she can make a sound, she can't help but send it to her dad, and watch it over and over again. I can see that you hate this mother, but this is really not a reason not to post on Moments.

Because this practice will arouse the disgust of the rest of the circle of friends, they will feel that their parents are too showy.

First of all, if you expose your child excessively, it will cause disgust from friends in the circle of friends, and secondly, it may bring potential danger to the safety of your child, and it may also be used by some criminals to do illegal things.

In the era of networking, if you post your child excessively in the circle of friends, you may leak information about your child, allowing criminals to take advantage of it.

In the era of information overflow, if you don't pay attention to the way your child is exposed, it can lead to your child being on the verge of danger.

Because the circle of friends is a platform for sharing happiness and life, excessive exposure to children will make people think that you are hinting at something.

BecauseCircle of friendsIf you are not good, you will bring your child bad, so parents want their children to play with good students.

Friends are very good feelings, have a common language and communicate frequently, get along very comfortably, and both parties meet together and get together when they have time. People who have friendships with each other other than lovers or relatives are confidants at their highest level.

Friends, bi-moons. The moon has the meaning of flesh and refers to two people. Classmates, comrades-in-arms, and colleagues can all be friends, helping and supporting each other, as well as old friends, neighbors, and chess friends.

As a friend, you have to learn to listen. When your friend encounters setbacks and troubles, he will find a person to vent his emotions, and you, as a friend, can sincerely and patiently listen to the other party's complaints, which is an emotional outlet for your friend.

In the process of your friend telling you, you not only listen patiently, but also interject one or two words of comfort with emotion from time to time, or come up with ideas for your friend, and your friend's emotions will step out of the swamp, and he will feel that having a friend like you is the real reliance, and the friend's feelings will be deeper, and the friendship will increase day by day.

There is a lady who is extremely depressed because of the marriage change, so she calls her female friend to pour out her troubles; However, those days, just in time for the girlfriend's busy work, she couldn't take the time to listen to the friend's confide: as a result, the lady finally committed suicide in anger because she couldn't bear the emotional depression for a while. If I had taken the time to listen to what my friend had to say and comfort him a little, my friend would not have been doomed.

This time, let's talk about the topic of circle of friends.

Seeing this topic, people may wonder: What does parenting posture have to do with friends? Actually, the relationship is huge.

Let's imagine this:

What kind of friends did Li Ka-shing make? When Li Ka-shing's friends come to his house, his two sons may learn something from his father's friends. More importantly, in the relationship, Li Ka-shing's performance will also affect the child. That's education.

What kind of friends does a street seller make and what kind of people do you deal with? If the child is around, the child will see that the adult is haggling with the customer, and even the pound is missing two ......What will be the pattern of the children cultivated in this way?

Of course, if someone eats vegetables, someone must sell vegetables and grow vegetables. There is no high or low work, but there is a difference in designation. The important thing is that if you plan to let your child sell vegetables in the future, let him know it.

If you don't want your child to sell vegetables in the future, then you have to let your child be affected by yourself as little as possible.

I recently saw an article, "Is Poverty a Disease? And can be inherited", here I just want to say that if you don't want to be poor, you have to make yourself rich, and then go to make friends with rich people, and at the same time affect your children. If you are surrounded by a bunch of poor friends, how can a child have the mentality of becoming rich.

Therefore, what kind of person you want to be, you should associate with what kind of person; Conversely, the kind of person you associate with will be the kind of person you will become. According to this logic, if you want your child to be rich (not only money, but also mentality), you must have the attitude of hard work and strive to think like a rich person. Try to keep your grandchildren or great-grandchildren from being poor (according to the book "Poverty is a Disease?").

and can be inherited", the poverty gene is generally inherited for 2-3 generations).

Some people will say, I don't have access to rich people at all, what should I do?

Then read their books, their biographies. Read with or to your child.

Poverty is not one's own sin, but to cling to poverty and think with the mentality of a poor person is irresponsible to the next generation. is not worthy of being a parent.

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