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Grievances against parents should not be posted to the circle of friends. After all, some dissatisfaction with your parents' behavior is a private matter within the family, don't post these private things in the circle of friends, these private matters will be published in the public will make your parents and yourself ugly. Therefore, it is best to communicate with your parents and handle this kind of thing on your own.
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No, a family can talk about things casually and publicly, which is a sign of immature mentality, and it will reveal too much personal information. You may feel like venting your emotions at the time, but in fact, most people only look at the surface, and will think that you are naïve or even disrespectful to your parents, so don't do it on the spur of the moment! You can communicate with people you trust, but there are some things that you just can't just talk about, and you are one of them!
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I don't think it should.
First of all, the dissatisfaction with the parents is likely to be impulsive, and after thinking about it, you may be able to understand the parents. However, posting on Moments will leave a bad impression on others of your parents, and it will be embarrassing if you want to remedy it.
Secondly, there is a good chance that the parents will be upset. Love will be consumed, let's think again.
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If you are dissatisfied with your parents, you shouldn't post on Moments, your parents have given us life, you can be dissatisfied with anyone, you can't be dissatisfied with your parents, they don't owe us!
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If the circle of friends is only used to vent, then there will not be many friends, friends are used to learn and help, if everyone is dissatisfied with the circle of friends, everyone will have no interest in the circle of friends in the future.
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I don't think it should be posted to Moments.
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1. I miss my parents and my distant home. But we must let go of our burdens and live in the moment, which is the direction and the city of dreams.
2. If you can lift and put down, it is called weightlifting, and if you can't lift it, it is called weightlifting. It's a pity that most people's love is burdensome.
3. Father's love and mother's love, often mother's love will make you feel more familiar, but father's love does not exist, it appears silently around you, it is not manifested outside, but the kind of hidden, deep family affection.
4. Mother's love is a song of zither in trouble, when you are depressed, the elegant melody floats, and the eyes are immediately verdant, mother's love is a landscape painting, wash away the lead carving, leaving fresh and natural.
5. Everyone, small family, the warmest is to go home; Think more, think less, it's more or less worrying; Whether you are a dad or not, you will have a dad; Text message, **, greeting him more on Father's Day.
6. At this time, the life I want is to accompany my parents to grow old slowly and accompany my children to grow up happily. But at this moment, I bowed my head and was silent.
7. I suddenly missed my mother. It would be nice if you were still in this world. I won't meet Miss Xiaowan and Miss Wang, and I won't stay in this small city and feel sad.
8. Dad, I really miss you, I want to take this thought, recall your teaching and care for me, I want to work harder, speed up the pace to catch up with the tide of the times, and embrace you at the door of success.
9. The most painful thing in the world is to break up when both of them are the most in love.
10. When you are sick, you don't want to tell your parents when you go to the hospital, so you don't dare to take the initiative to contact them, and you don't dare to take the initiative to contact when you are sad. Is this maturity? No, I'm just scared.
11. I hate parting the most. You have to get used to the sudden departure of the people around you, the feeling of emptiness and endless longing.
12. You cook, I wash the dishes, and sharing the housework will be more loving. You don't have to tie people to a chore all the time.
13. I miss the snow in my hometown, the smiles of my parents in the distance, the warm quilts at home, and the soup cooked by my mother.
14. Family affection, the best love in the world, the best love in the world, the best love in the world. The days full of maternal love gave me endless touches, it is like a pleasant **, the moment when the beautiful melody flows into the bottom of my heart, it is an indescribable feeling.
15. A father's love always blooms in severity; A father's love always comes when you need it. Father's love is always incomprehensible to us, but we know our father's good intentions when we fully understand it.
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This is too normal, due to the inconsistency of living habits, concepts and other aspects, it not only avoids contradictions, but also saves yourself from having something to do, so that your parents can worry about you.
One is the difference in living habits. Our living habits and ways of thinking are so different from those of our parents, especially in habits. For example, we sometimes sleep until 11 o'clock at noon, and then send a message saying that when we get up for breakfast, your parents will definitely come over immediately when they see it.
For example, if you order a takeout at 12 o'clock in the evening to share, your parents will see it and say, you don't sleep so late, eating takeout is not healthy.
The second is that there are too many compared to these daily routines, and if my parents live in the city, it would be better to understand, like my mother in the countryside, she would not understand. So, why do you have parents in your circle of friends but rarely post moments, but there will be no parents in your buckles, there are also certain reasons, some people say that buckles are outdated, no, the daily life is still so high, there is a group of young friends active in it, they can be active.
The third is that I don't want my parents to worry about me anymore. Everyone has their own little circle, where sometimes you can only appear yourself, even your parents you don't want them to appear in it, it's not that you don't want to share with them, more He Gao has some things that don't want your parents to worry and worry, especially some entrepreneurs, there are too many failures, and they don't want their parents to know.
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In the age of the Internet, the coexistence model of parents and children is changing. With the popularity of the Internet and electronic devices, some issues related to Internet use have become one of the focal issues that lead to parent-child conflict.
Chinese parents always communicate with their children through worry, criticism, provocation, nagging, etc., and children are reluctant to talk to their parents more, let alone show the attitude of the circle of friends towards their parents. In addition, many Chinese parents are too good at "talking" and their children do not have the opportunity to speak. If parents can see their child's circle of friends, don't always comment.
If you find some problems, you can find opportunities to communicate with your child slowly. Children's addiction to the Internet affects parent-child relationships, parental education models.
Chinese parents also always talk to their children about learning, and their children's grades have even become a bellwether for parents' emotions, so children naturally do not like such exchanges. There is less communication between parents and children, and children will choose to communicate with netizens online if their communication needs are not met before they are buried. The child is the child's cognition, and the child is the child's knowledge level.
Naturally, there is a big difference between friends and parents in their circle of friends, and there is a generation gap. Parents may not like the topics their children are discussing, and their language may not be heard by their parents.
Once parents enter their circle of friends, you will still have your own opinions, which will definitely affect the relationship between your child's friends. Parents can give their children some advice on how to make friends and how to build their own circle of friends. Tell them about the interests of their online friends and the potential danger of their circle of friends.
If you are really unsure, you can ask your parents. It is also possible to look at the child's circle of friends with his consent and check on him. In short, children's problems must not be taken lightly.
First, the more parents restrict their children's freedom to make friends, the more likely they are to disobey them. In this way, parental restrictions will not only fail, but will also make things worse.
Second, if parents usually give subtle guidance when raising their children, then children will also be influenced by their own family values when making friends. Naturally, you won't make bad friends that your parents are worried about.
Children have their own judgments. First of all, parents should trust their children's judgment, and secondly, they should give correct guidance. It is believed that the way parents make friends also affects the way children make friends. Don't worry too much, sometimes being a bystander is more conducive to parent-child interaction.
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Because this can protect the child's privacy, and it will also make the child feel that you respect him very much, and it can also make the child appear to be very judgmental and face-saving. It is best not to comment on the child's circle of friends, which can also bring them unnecessary trouble.
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Doing so may cause the child to feel bored and tired, and the cracks in the shed can also hurt the child's original intention of sharing the daily routine. Very much affects the relationship between parents and children.
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Because this can make the child feel that the parents have an opinion about them, and it can damage the child's self-esteem.
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Personally, I think that the circle of friends is also a part of Shehong's unfriended, and it is not separated from your performance in front of people in reality. It is not an exaggeration to say that the personal appearance of modern people also contains your performance in the circle of friends. If you think that the personal image you want to manage is a swear word, and there is nothing to say, I think it is okay to post it on Moments like this.
If a person's posture, speech, and gestures reflect a person's upbringing, I think the text of the circle of friends is also a good reflection.
Teachers, family, classmates, and colleagues I will set up groups, on the one hand, for easy memory Some people really can't remember him after a long time, but look at the label to know a rough, and on the other hand, the circle of friends grouping is visible, I feel that kind of school activities, usually some life, everyone can see, but sometimes go out with friends, in the middle of the night or all night, and then send a circle of friends record to talk about it, if you are seen by your family, you will definitely think more, and you will say yours, especially if it is so late, especially for girls, It's still hanging outside, and there are some activities, maybe you think it's nothing, but a colleague with a heart will take this to your army, and so on.
And especially like my parents' generation, there is indeed a big generation gap with us There are some Internet terms that they will feel very impolite, so don't let them see this side of you, each other has a good impression in their hearts, is it not good, anyway, life is their own, but others have a good impression of you, wouldn't it be more beautiful, in short, setting up groups is to better maintain their own lives, personal opinions.
First of all, changing one's perspective is one of the more difficult things in itself. The ideas and opinions of the elders have been formed for decades, and they are deeply ingrained, and they are also old, so they are not as easy to change as the younger ones. If you really want to change, it will cost you a lot of energy and a lot of money.
You have to explain to him the terms of the Internet, the Internet environment, the way young people communicate, etc., and prove it to her. As for your mother, you have to accept a relatively new social concept, and there are even many completely different and opposite views from the previous ones.
Having said that, since you publish your status in the circle of friends, you are essentially talking to someone who can see the news. Your mother should be afraid that you will suffer because of your words, but she is still kind in nature. It's a lot of work to explain it to your mom and make her understand, but it's a good thing in the long run.
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Because the things posted by today's children's circle of friends are their own real thoughts or things that they think are fun, but there is a generation gap between parents and children, if they interfere with their circle of friends too much, they may be blocked by their children, and it is even more boring to understand their thoughts.
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Because this will interfere with the child, it will make the child unassertive, and it will cause the child to lose self-confidence.
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Because parents' evaluations will always negate their children, and these comments will affect the child's mood, so I think Laran parents should not always express their opinions in their children's circle of friends. This Huaibi can also save face for the child.
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Mainly because children also have their own unique thoughts, it is best for parents not to express some opinions in their children's circle of friends, after they are published, it may make children feel that such parents are particularly disrespectful to themselves.
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Because there is a generation gap between parents and children, it is inevitable that the lifestyle is different, and the child will now let you watch his circle of friends, so you must not break this rule, you must respect the child's life, and you must ask for the same while reserving differences.
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A child's circle of friends is a place for children to express their personal wishes. No matter what kind of news they post, it shows that it is their own thoughts, and they should give their children full respect and space.
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Sending moments to block parents must have dynamics that they don't want their parents to see, and it is also divided into various situations, what kind of circle of friends it is, and it also depends on what kind of parents our parents are. For example, many people go out to report good news or bad news, don't like to let their parents know that they are sick or have encountered something that can't be solved, and at this time they want to let other friends know to ask for comfort and so on.
The reason I mentioned above is that my parents are different from other parents. When I was growing up, they cared about me too much in some ways, and whenever I was traveling or partying, I had to know who I was with, how many people, where, and what time it ended. In the face of such concerned parents, many people should be out of breath.
So sometimes if you want to send a hair**, or positioning, you will block your parents, so as to prevent their life-threatening serial questions, blocking the circle of friends is everyone's freedom, but under the contemporary social circle culture, completely blocking the circle of friends is indeed a recognized unfriendly behavior, blocking the circle of friends, which means that the other party has a reason to delete friends. Grouping shielding is said separately. Mom and Dad are the closest people to us, try not to completely block them because they are cool.
The family still needs to communicate more to eliminate small barriers.
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