Do honest people suffer? Why?

Losses are inevitable.

The most important thing in being a man is not to be narrow-minded, to be sincere, to learn to be tolerant, to be able to tolerate, not to be competitive, and not to worry about gains and losses with others.

If a person can come to this world, it means that he has a relationship with the earth, then he must coexist peacefully with others, learn from each other, help each other, and be happy with each other. so that he does not come and go here. Worthy of the society.

When you meet someone who really likes you, you have to work hard to get the opportunity to be with you, because when you leave, you will regret it too late.

When you meet someone you can trust, you must get along with (her) well, because it is not easy to meet a confidant in a person.

When you meet a noble person, you must thank (her and him) well, because (she and him) is your turning point;

When you meet someone who doesn't trust you, you should examine yourself, and try to correct the reasons why you don't trust you, because only in this way can you get to know you anew, trust you, and become your friend.

When you meet someone you once loved, remember to be grateful (she him); Because (she and he) let you know love, when you meet someone you once hated, you should greet (she and him) with a smile; Because (she he) makes you stronger.

When you meet someone who has betrayed you, talk to her. Because if it weren't for her, you wouldn't be able to understand the world, and when you meet someone who once secretly liked you, you should wish you happiness, because when you like her, don't you want to be happy?

When you meet someone who leaves you in a hurry, thank you for walking through your person, because (she and him) are part of your wonderful memories, you have to do what you promise to others, don't agree if you can't do it, and be honest and honest. Only honest people will be approved by everyone, only continuous efforts and innovation will have new harvests, in a person's body, only the will to fail, no failure of people.

If you want to treat others as you would like to be treated, you have to treat them as you would like to be treated. You will be undefeated for the rest of your life, and you will find that everyone is a friend of you. You will get real happiness and get real good friends.

Only by doing this will you have a bright future and make your future more exciting

Honest people suffer losses, but they also have their own benefits.

Honest people are kind-hearted and do not have a "heart to hurt others", but they also do not have a "heart to defend against others", so they often do not know how to reject others, and in the end they are always hurt.

A mature person, starting from learning to say "no", rejects those inappropriate requests! Honest people are easy to lose, mainly because they don't know how to reject others.

All honest people have to do is learn to say "no".

As everyone knows, learning to say no is a necessary step for anyone to mature mentally. If honest people want to improve their emotional intelligence, they must learn to say no.

dare to be angry but dare not speak, accustomed to being submissive;

As the saying goes, "persimmons are looking for soft pinching", which is the bad side of human nature, but it is also a reality that cannot be changed. The rule of nature is that the law of the jungle is to bully the weak and fear the hard, and the same is true for human beings.

And honest people are not good at losing their temper, dare to be angry but dare not speak, and are accustomed to being submissive.

Honest people you must understand that people's hearts are sinister, although we do not harm others, but we have to guard against people at some times, we can only say three points when meeting people, be a person of forbearance and restraint, you will retain your own mystery, let others feel your unfathomable.

Honest people like to do good deeds without asking for anything in return, only trying to comfort their souls; But as everyone knows, this is conniving at others to learn badly, making people insatiable, and taking everything for granted, and then raising a white-eyed wolf.

Therefore, honest people, don't eat the loss of "doing good deeds without expecting returns"!

Honest people are easy to suffer, in fact, outsiders think. Honest people themselves don't think so, but they think that they are not suffering through a certain emotion and a certain way of thinking.

So there is a saying that suffering is a blessing.

Honest people are more down-to-earth and kind-hearted, and they are more likely to suffer, but sometimes suffering losses is a blessing, not necessarily a bad thing.

A wise and honest person will not suffer; People who are too honest will suffer a lot. Although it is very good to be an honest person, personally, honesty is the moral character that a person should have, and this kind of morality is also valued by many leaders. But when it comes to the atmosphere and form of today's society, if you are too honest, you will definitely be calculated and framed, because your honesty makes others know you too well, and honest people are easy to attract the attention of leaders, so jealousy is inevitable.

In real life, honest people do suffer a lot, thinking that suffering is a blessing, but it is not, and if they suffer too much, they will ruin their lives.