Understand the feelings and come in to help

Wait for her to grow up. Look, after so many years, you can get married, do you still like her so much?

This question shows that you are a ruthless introvert, and you don't have any female friends, right?

And it's not ruthless to date other girls, and work hard to change your personality!

Then it's best for you to think about this question yourself and not be impulsive. If you're sure you really like your "sister", then you have to grasp it, you're not biological, the current society is ruthless, if you really like it, you like it!

I feel that giving up on her is your only option. Reason: As you said, "I insisted on not talking, because I have always insisted on falling in love once in my life, loving only one person, accompanying her for the rest of my life, and leaving all my first times to the only person I love", you are such a love perfectionist, how can you psychologically tolerate others to be flawed in love?

While sometimes you pay lip service to acceptability, as soon as you get to the substance, your resistance rises from the depths of your heart. Therefore, I suggest that you give up her, such a union is temporary even if it is happy, you still go and find a perfect girl for you, although there are not many such girls now, but as long as you look for it with your heart, there will always be, and you will also find your happiness.

There must be a reason why she doesn't let you ask her before, maybe she doesn't want to remember the things that were unhappy before and doesn't want you to be sad, if you really like her, then accommodate her, you also have to control the quarrel, if you keep going like this, you will be unhappy, or want to open it, now do what you should do with her, so that you will be happy.

If you like someone, just ignore her flaws If you want to be together, if you don't want to, you will be separated There is no need to be so painful Two people together The most important thing is to be happy She will lose her thoughts when she starts to think about her ex-boyfriend who may be the same as you Who told you to know each other late Secondly Don't think about loving someone for the rest of your life With someone How can the object of your first time fall in love with you?

Don't ask, always ask, always quarrel, do you still want to talk about it, everyone (normal), especially girls, is even more reluctant to change friends, they all want to talk about it only once, but emotional matters are not decided by themselves. If you can forget his past, just go ahead and give up if not.

Everyone has their own privacy, for whatever reason. You can't touch it. It could be that she's sad, it could be that she wants to forget, or it could be that she doesn't want you to know. In short, there should be space between people so that they don't stress too much on each other.

Since you like this girl, you should accept everything about her, everyone has a past, if she keeps asking about your past, what do you think? If you care a lot about your girlfriend, don't ask about her past, it's recommended to give up. Find someone who fits your criteria.

Love doesn't need a reason, since you really like her, don't miss her, keep her by your side, round this relationship, I wish you happiness.

He was hit hard, so his heart was cold, but he still had a little hope, hoping that you would change, and he would definitely not love you as unreservedly as before, for fear of being hurt again. But he has loved you for so long, not that you can let go of it, he still has feelings for you, and you say to change, then he will naturally give you a chance, just for fear of being hurt again, he will control his heart, not the same as before, crazy love you, crazy pay, if you don't change well, he may become more and more cold to you, this is a process, many people have come over like this.

As for thinking about him, send him a message, and say: "I miss you, nothing else, I just miss you very much, so I can't help it, send you a message, you don't have to reply".

And then even if he doesn't reply, don't be angry, but most men will reply, if he does, just talk about it for a word or two. It's over right away. Don't talk about it at length and annoy him again.

Then next time I miss him, send a message again, step by step, the more we talk every month, and slowly get back together. It works, you can try it, don't be stupid and really cut off the connection completely. Every time you take the initiative to contact him, if he takes the initiative to send you a message, you must not reply, until the feelings are restored, you have to be mentally prepared to recover, and it is difficult to completely return to the past.

How can a man who loves you deeply be hurt by your temper, and there are shadows, is it that you have shown yourself in front of him before, and you have not shown your true side? If this is the case, then he only loves your good side, and loving someone deeply is not only loving the good side of the other person, but also accepting your bad side, including hurt, because a single injury can become dispensable, indicating that it is not true love, and true love can withstand any test! If time can dilute the shadow of your harm to him, then time will also dilute your love, once a relationship has changed, it will never go back to the beginning, not so much that you change but let him accept your temper, if he can accept it, it is to love you, you have affected the impression and position in his heart, to face the facts, go with the flow, don't force it, if you change yourself even if he can still love you, don't you feel wronged?

Because you will always pretend to be someone he likes in front of him in the future, not the real you! It's inevitable that a relationship will be separated and missed, it's normal to think about him, just think about it, don't force yourself not to think about it, it's going to get better slowly, be strong!

Oh, yes! Time will dilute everything, including the original foundation of love, including whether you have ever appeared in these and so on, which is the most terrible, so I recommend that the separation is not too long, at most a month. If you miss him so much, then why don't you make the relationship between you a little more muddy, come on girl!!

Victory is yours!

You really need to calm down! Are you sure he still loves you now? Remember that men are also very rebellious and fickle!

During this time, you can work hard, hang out with friends, do some things you love, and after a while, your heart will tell you rationally, do you still want to get along? Remember: in front of the "bread", love is only a moment!

There is no love without "bread"! Do you have love to drink water? There are many more important things in life waiting for you to do!

Is it just your temper that hurts him? I don't think that's the case, right? If there really is nothing else, just because of your temper, you can be sure that he doesn't love you anymore and there is no hope.

Also, your temper changed in such a short time? It's okay to talk about it, but it's impossible to change it so quickly, the country is easy to change, and the personality of a person is the result of the long-term effect of heredity and the external environment, and it will not be changed in two or three days.

You can also go to the hospital as a male host to see your ex-boyfriend and see how your girlfriend reacts when you go.

Feelings are good, and they are worth holding onto, but if you keep hurting yourself, you will miss some people.

I'm a girl and know what she thinks. You're not as important as your ex-boyfriend.