A person who is completely dead to life 20

Hello. I'm sympathetic for something like this! First of all, please calm down, even if the whole world has abandoned you, please don't give up on yourself!

There are hands and feet, and nothing can be done. It's good that you can see everything clearly. Whoever is sincere to you is and who is taking advantage of you!

This is just a brutal example. Everything will be fine, as long as you still have confidence in yourself. It doesn't matter what other people do, it's you who live your life, live a good life, and it's none of them!

Why is this so?

People say that if you don't die in a great disaster, you will have a blessing in the future.

Are you holding back now?

Didn't you say that relatives were indifferent? Why do you want to donate a kidney to your father's old age?

Are you **?

Living bravely is more meaningful than anything else. Don't live for others. Live for yourself.

Have you bought all the clothes you like? Have you ever eaten with a girl you like?。。

You don't have to be like this, I used to be more sad than you, haven't I come over all these years? Looking back now, I forgave everyone who betrayed me because the past was just an experience and I didn't want it to be a burden all the time.

Dude: Discouraged.

Everything can be started all over again.

If you wither now, you will be looked down upon even more.

You're going to pull yourself together, understand?

If you have the leisure to complain about this, it is better to find a way to improve your current predicament. Life is nothing more than that. I'm not afraid of death, but I'm still afraid of it?

Be believing. If not, it will definitely be Tailai.

You are really poor to the point of home

You should call the hospital's ** consultation

Acting indifferent to everything that has anything to do with you; Don't be angry and jealous anymore; It's also very coping with your performance. If a person is completely dead, she will no longer care about everything that will be related to you, a loveless world, and nothing has anything to do with her. I don't care who you're with, who you're ambiguous with, and I'm not angry at your late return, and I'm not angry at who you're with, and you come home late.

When you ask, they will reply to you in the shortest words, and they don't want to dwell on you too much, and they don't even feel the need to get angry.

A person's complete death is that he is not interested in anything, he will be very lost, and he feels that so many years of hard work have been in vain, and he is very sad, so don't let a woman die, because then it can never be recovered.

The heart is like ashes, and we are not interested in anything, of course, this is not right, we still have to face everything positively.

1.I don't care about you, I don't care about you anymore.

2.I don't think about you, I can do whatever you want.

3.I dislike you, I am annoyed when I see you, and I am disgusted with you.

Do you know what are the obvious characteristics of a woman once she is completely dead to a man?

If you are dead to a person, it will be very painful.

Force yourself not to think about him, not to care about him.

Time is the best antidote. After a long time, I don't want to think about it.

What does it feel like to be dead to someone?

I once talked about a 7-year relationship, tried various ways to forget, when you enrich yourself to forget, once you relax, especially at night, you will remember that people are always sentimental things, and now the breakup is almost 4 years, gradually better, time can not forget everything, but you can not forget, slowly erase.

If you don't do it indifferently, maybe it's okay.

1.Don't deliberately forget, if you do, you will only remember it better.

2.Try to keep yourself busy, make your life full, and let yourself have no time to miss.

3.Try to expand your circle of friends and meet as many people as possible.

4.When you have to contact him, try to be as normal as an ordinary friend.

5.Try to discover your hobbies and do something you enjoy to play an empathetic role.

6.Give yourself a big smile every day and tell yourself "tomorrow is another day.""I believe that one day in the future, you will find that when you think of him again, your heart no longer hurts, it turns out that unconsciously, he has become "that person".

From today onwards, I cut off all contact with him, don't go to see him, don't call him, hint to myself in my heart that he is not worth worrying about him like this, how he is his business, will he forget to eat, and rest on time is also his family's business, don't care about him, don't believe in any of his excuses, don't make excuses for him, he really doesn't care about you, he can coax you now, and in the blink of an eye, you can coax other girls, you deserve better, you can't let go now, but force yourself not to think, it's really okay, You will find that your feelings for him are slowly fading, and in the end, you don't feel anything. Give it a try, I'm in such pain.

Good luck!

What you really can't do is unless you have a thorough face-to-face talk, so that the relationship between the two can be completely released. In this way, you will really face the reality of breaking up. Otherwise, if there is no showdown, you can't hide and just dodge, and you can't give up.

Constantly hypnotizing yourself and telling yourself not to think about it is all bad to think.

What does it feel like to be dead to someone?

Forgetting a person is not forgetting him as a person, but forgetting his story in your heart, if you forget his story in your heart, then do you still care that he is in the same classroom as you? The so-called dead heart refers to the idea that you have no expectations for his friendship and love, and you should know that learning is the most important, right? Since you know this, what should you know to do?

You can think about the pain after you failed the exam to distract yourself.

This is a good question, and it is impossible to forget it by finding someone to replace him. Because the person you find will only have the same characteristics as him. If you want to forget completely, then don't think about it, be single for a while, focus on doing what you want to do, and forget about each other.

Being able to remember it shows that there is regret in him, and this regret will not die, but will only be diluted.

Someone else was found to replace him.

Don't pursue "dead hearts" out of incompetence, but find ways to lighten his weight on you, stop self-compassion and self-touching. Stop beautifying your desires and emotions with some sublime words. Stop idealizing each other, and your relationship:

Born a perfect match", "I can't meet him like this again" and so on.

Let go of some of the wishful thinking logics in your mind, such as:

I love him for being good to him, and he should love me. ”

I deserve to be rewarded for what I give. I waited for him and he should come back. ”

Stop presupposing: "I'm a single-minded person. I'm not the type of person who gives up easily. ”

Learn to recognize and respect the facts.

You need to admit that he is an ordinary person, and you love him only because you fall in love with some of his traits, which are not impossible for other boys to have, and you are not impossible to like other boys.

You are so obsessed with him because he fulfills your needs in one area. Discover that need of yours and find a way to meet it yourself.

In this way, you will become more and more "detached" from him.

You'll also be more and more detached from anyone.

If you can't forget, give yourself some time, write down your thoughts and what you want to say in a dense way, you can send it to him, and it will slowly fade away after a long time, and it is impossible to hold the memories for a lifetime.

It takes time and process to die for a person, just like a cup filled with enough hot water and you will put it down, in the process you will have thoughts and hatred, nostalgia, and want to see him, you can use the dense recording of the emotions of this process until you don't want to write, if you can't stand it, you can also send it to him in the form of a letter, this is a good practice that can be advanced and retreated!

Dear landlord.

Glad for your question.

In fact, to tell the truth, love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?

Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

Not necessarily, ruthlessness does not mean death, the heart will not feel when it is dead, and sometimes ruthlessness is also for the good of the other party!

No, it's someone who is cruel to you, and you will die.