How do you get yourself back to your old self?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-14
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You realize that you have gone bad. Very good, you are great! I'm afraid that I don't know if I'm good or bad, that's the worst thing!

    To get back to your old self is to try to find the root cause of what makes you who you are now? It's something that makes you feel so alien to yourself. Is it emotional?

    Or is it money? Or family? Friend?

    Whatever causes you to stay away from things that make you bad. Think about the good in everything. Check out some books that understand philosophy.

    Perhaps you can find some way to help you save yourself. Also, telling your close friend about your pain and asking them to help you solve your current difficulties will help you get rid of the person you hate now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Think about something that used to be.

    Go find some former friends.

    Go and see some of the previous ones**.

    This will bring back your memories.

    And memories often make a big difference to you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can take back the water that was spilled.

    If you could turn back the clock.

    You'll be able to change back.

    People grow over time.

    Growing up is not a bad thing.

    Try to be happy at home.

    Be a new version of yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What to do? It's just you who know it in your heart, and if you really want to change back, you can tell yourself that I'm that kind of character, and that's easy. The problem is that you changed for him, so what will he do if you change back again? Are you going to break up?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then I'm looking for one.

    Find someone who can accommodate you and accommodate you.

    In that case, you'll slowly change back to your old self.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's because you love him, and that's okay. Just try to be as generous as possible.

    Pay more attention to him, and it will get better slowly, it's just temporary, don't worry.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Just don't think about things that make you sad.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    With me by your side!!

    What's the matter!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Keep going.

    It's you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Why are you so happy!

    Go the way you think is right!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. Go back to 14 years old.

    When I was a child, my cat Huanhuan was my best playmate. Every time I call it by name, it immediately runs up to me. When it first came to my house, it was a kitten, and then as time went by, it grew up and I grew up.

    When I got to junior high school, I started living on campus and rarely went home. When I was 14 years old, I came home from school vacation, and I couldn't find it, so I asked my mother if it went. Mom was sad to tell me that it had gone to the cat.

    It's old, it's immobile lately, and it's been lying on its stomach next to my shoes on the day it was dying, as if waiting for me to come back. I blame myself for not being with it in the end, every time I think of it, I regret it, if I can go back to this year, I want to give it a hug and let it have no regrets.

    2. Back to 18 years old.

    At the age of 18, he failed the college entrance examination and was not admitted to his ideal school. At that time, I didn't know what to think, so I didn't want to repeat it, so I resolutely chose a random university to study. A few years of college time passed in a blink of an eye, and I worked directly after graduation, but after working, I realized how important a good university is.

    After experiencing the experience of society, I regret more and more, why didn't I repeat it in the first place, if it wasn't for my own insistence, I might not be so hard now.

    3. Back to 22 years old.

    Grandma loves me the most, and every time something delicious is left for me. She is kind and simple, and always warms me with her love. But at the age of 22, my grandmother passed away, and she left me forever.

    I couldn't accept this fact and collapsed for a long time. If I can go back to this year, I hope to accompany my grandmother more, I can make more delicious food for my grandmother, I want to take my grandmother to see the great landscapes of the motherland, and I will tell my grandmother every day that I love her.

    Time is gone, and once you miss something, you never get a chance to make up for it. Therefore, we must cherish the people in front of us, cherish the things in front of us, and don't let ourselves always have regrets.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    1. I have cultivated the habit of fitness exercise since I was a child, I have only started running every day since college, and I feel that it is very helpful to me, if I have been exercising since I was a child, I may not be so fat (covering my face) now

    2. Reading every day, when I was a child, I had relatively abundant time, and I have been reading every day since my third year of high school, and I can only squeeze out a little time to read every day like squeezing toothpaste.

    3. Study hard, play less games, now is really not as much time as before, if I can go back to that time, I will preview calculus by myself in advance.

    4. Be a responsible, responsible, and righteous person, no longer tolerate the bullying of others but resist, and at the same time dare to point out the shortcomings of friends, instead of covering up the problem and making the problem bigger and bigger.

    5. Participate less in some online spraying wars.

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