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If you want to be thick-skinned, you first need to have a strong heart. In life or work, it is impossible for anyone to be liked by everyone, there will be bad reviews for a good thing, and at this time, when enjoying the glory of praise, you must also be able to bear the adverse effects of bad reviews. You can't bear it because others say you don't like to hear, or if you deliberately attack it, because the glass heart is not suitable for the development of this society.
Have the courage to ask questions without shame. Only in life and the workplace, everyone needs to continue to learn, in the process of learning, you need to continue to consult with the people around you, many times the other party's comprehensive ability may not be as good as their own, but there is a specialization in the industry, and if you encounter yourself will not be able to learn from those who have strengths, even if the other party's status is not as good as you. It is also a fine tradition of the Chinese nation to ask questions without shame, and there must be a teacher for threesomes.
When people are in a humble position or frustrated, they must have the courage to lie down and hide their courage and endure humiliation. A lot of times you can't take yourself too seriously. This society is very cruel, many times in order to achieve a better purpose, you can only learn the behavior of Han Xin's transfer, and there will always be a time when the thick skin will become glory.
As you grow older and have more social experience, thickening your skin is a natural and very common thing. You can't reject the existence of this change because you are naturally introverted and shy, and in order to adapt to the development of society, keeping pace with the times is your best choice. In many cases, face cannot be eaten as money to spend, and food and clothing are the major plans of life.
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Bold and thin-skinned, I thought in my heart that I don't even want a face, what am I afraid of.
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1.Lose shyness, shyness is the basic obstacle.
If you are thick-skinned, you are bold, dare to say and do, and don't lose face. If you're shy, it's hard to take the first step, let alone be so cheeky. So to get rid of your shyness, try to speak out loud, overcome your fears, and you'll be able to take the first step towards being cheeky.
2.Be confident and express yourself in a humorous way.
Self-confidence will not be inferior, you have to believe in yourself, you can convince others, you can sell yourself to others, treat you as a product, and express your advantages shamelessly, which is the so-called humorous expression. This will also allow others to know that you are excellent and not feel exaggerated. In this way, your shamelessness has basically been achieved.
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The way to thicken your skin is to let yourself say to yourself that I can do it. No big deal. What if you fail? So that's the only way you can make your skin thicker.
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Let yourself be thick-skinned, the main thing is to break through your own psychological defenses. If you break through this psychological level, you don't care what the outside world thinks. There is a saying that is circulating now: as long as you don't feel embarrassed, it is others who are embarrassed. This is the sign of thick skin.
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If you want to make yourself thick-skinned, in fact, the simple way is to keep exercising, and there are some things that others say about you or how others are behind your back to slander you in the first place, so you can ignore him.
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Teachers, classmates, parents, you get used to talking more, and you must be thick-skinned in some aspects, and it is also very important in society. Cheekiness helps a little in terms of work. ☺☺
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Exercise yourself slowly, communicate with strangers, and participate in group activities. Slowly, you will feel that you have changed, and it is good to take the first step.
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To make your face thicker, in fact, there was a ** book called Houhei in the past, so that your heart should become precipitated, don't care about your momentary honor and disgrace, and think of the ultimate goal.
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Let your heart become strong, and when your heart is strong enough, your skin will naturally thicken.
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If you want to make your face thicker, you don't care about what others say. As long as I am suitable, he can do whatever he wants.
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Through human contact, sometimes it may be that the boys don't want so many girls, and it's all the result of girls' wishful thinking.
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Quite simply, when someone else is air.
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If you want to make your psychological tolerance bigger, you must learn to be thick-skinned, and let's talk about how to make your skin thicker.
01 Learn to be humorous.
If you want to learn to be thick-skinned, you must learn to be humorous, in embarrassing occasions, make humor to solve the siege, use laughter to cover up the inner unhappiness, and slowly, you will learn to be thick-skinned.
02 I don't care what others think.
Thin-skinned people care too much about their own image, and they also care too much about what others think of them, if you want to learn to be thick-skinned, you have to let go, don't care what others think of you, just feel comfortable in your heart, your face is not valuable, and it is important to live happily.
03 Watch more comedy.
If you want to learn to be thick-skinned, you have to watch more comedy, see how others deal with problems, see how others integrate themselves with everyone, solve questions in laughter, and watch carefully, and after a long time, you can learn a lot of methods.
04 Don't care about the result.
Thin-skinned people sometimes care too much about the outcome of things, and if they care about their own words, they will displease others, so if they want to become thick-skinned, they should do it without thinking about the result in advance, and just be happy at that time. You can first change the way you deal with your own family, and then change the way you interact with outsiders.
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From what you said, I can feel what you are thinking in your heart, remember that it is not necessarily a good thing to be thick-skinned, because that can only make you indifferent to anything, if you want to improve your self-confidence, it is very simple that you must be able to accept other people's good criticism and suggestions, learn to communicate with people, you are only 19 years old, there is still a long way to go, and there will be a lot of things to experience, so you must grow up in the training, maturity and stability are not something that can be had at once, First of all, you must put your mentality right, don't always think about what others will think about you, you don't get angry because you know tolerance, then use your tolerance to communicate with everyone, don't be afraid of others saying you or crying in front of others, those are the truest manifestations of your heart, remember to laugh in front of your opponents, be strong in front of your dearest people, open your heart in front of your friends, so that you can really grow up, cry anyone will but you have to know why you cry, it is because others say you, If you want to be mature, you must first learn not to shed tears in front of anything, get up every day to look at yourself in the mirror, encourage yourself to be able to do it, boldly say what you think, find a home when you encounter things, think of a way, make your own decisions, after a long time, you have experienced more in society, maybe you will look back and laugh at yourself for being too naïve.
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In fact, you have not been confident in yourself for a long time to have your current thoughts, and the reason why you attach too much importance to others' evaluation of you is actually that you want to be recognized and encouraged by others. Your low self-esteem makes you feel like you want to be present and want more attention.
Your parents love you and your home is warm, so you want to go back to your parents' arms when you get setbacks outside. But you are also a person with a strong heart, so you want to be independent, and you want your parents to feel that you make them proud. That's why you have the idea of being in a hurry to grow up, you are very loving and filial, and you want to use your ability to give your parents a blue sky.
In fact, your situation is much stronger than those who are self-righteous, people of this age are a bit arrogant, and you don't have to care what they think. Read more good literature and autobiographies of successful people, such as the legend of Konosuke Matsushita and the works of Dale Carnegie. When you're confused or upset, remember to read a lot, but only if you've completed your studies.
Focus on studying, set a goal for yourself, and live a life of catching up, and it doesn't matter what others think when you're busy.
When you go to college, you will get better, and after the internship you will see that your potential value is more than anyone else. When you go to work, you will find that you are better than others.
Whatever you do, your heart should always be good and calm like water. Your worth is socially affirmed.
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It's time to exercise, you can force yourself to do something you don't dare to do, or think about things with a different attitude, and feel that it's nothing, what's so scared or shy! Take a deep breath and try to do it. Slowly you will find yourself bold, but this is not called cheekiness...
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Don't be afraid of failure, afraid of being told by others. Tell yourself in your heart that you are right.
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First of all, are you a man or a woman? I think you need to be trained for a character like you! You must learn to be dead (but for hateful people), don't care about people's eyes, opinions, and words, you can come as comfortable as you want, live freely, and don't force yourself for other people's things!
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I'm exactly the same as you say. But I'm 22 now, and as I get older, these things get better and don't get that serious. After a long time in society, you can't be cheeky if you want to.
So, you don't have to worry too much about this now, it's going to be fine.
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Are you working or going to school, two taels a night Niulanshan, it is best to come two taels every meal, after drinking, how to love, provoke me to smoke him, love me to kiss her.
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Exercise yourself more and express yourself in public. You can participate in some public activities, or clubs, etc., and you can learn to deal with strangers. At the same time, you can communicate more with people who are older than you, participate in some social activities, or work part-time jobs.
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It's just that you pay too much attention to yourself In fact, you are not so important in the eyes of others Don't care too much about your own feelings Let go and imagine your favorite state Keep training yourself to have that feeling A little bit you will be surprised That's how I came here and wished you success.
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The best way is to go to a bigger city, don't have people you know in this city, buy a good ticket to go, don't bring a penny with you, don't bring your mobile phone. If you survive, you'll be invincible in half a year. I was in Shanghai during the financial crisis, and I had 10 yuan on me for half a year, and my skin was much thicker.
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Learn to deal with problems on your own, don't be embarrassed, don't be afraid of offending people, and slowly develop your confidence when dealing with problems.
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Get in touch with others, go out and play more, and communicate more. Don't think of yourself as important, because people won't pay attention to you at all. Believe me, I used to be like that.
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As long as you tell yourself in your heart, you must be cheeky. No matter what you say or do, don't care what others think, in this way, you will definitely become a hindsight.
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Try to change yourself, become white, and be beautiful. Confident people don't care what other people think, and I used to be like you, and I'm getting better.
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You're not in this situation to be cheeky, but to build self-confidence. Read more motivational books and don't think about negative emotions every day. Otherwise, you will fall into the circle of weakness that you can't get out of.
Usually do more exercise, communicate with everyone more, and in the end, you will find that in fact, the individual is really not that important, but be confident, others will think that you are more important! I hope you can find your confidence soon!
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Give you a little advice, I hope it will help you. 1. Position, you need to have a firm position, 19 years old, no longer a child, when facing problems, you need your own opinions and positions. 2. Communicate with people more, for example, the simplest, you can use the sales staff in the mall as a practice object, talk to people with a smile, confidence and politeness, and you will not be nervous after trying a few more times.
You're going to be the best.
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Don't lose face, let go of your dignity, don't think about what others think of you and how others look at you, do what you think you should do, so that you will gradually feel that it doesn't matter, and your face will begin to thicken.
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If you want to have thick skin, you can fight, and if you want to be thin, find someone to kiss you.
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1.To put it bluntly, you are not bold and thick-skinned, that is, you care too much about some concerns in your heart and love face. Not confident about what you're about to do. Friend, you have to bring up your self-confidence first. After that you will know what you will do.
2.Don't mind too much about other people's evaluations, always say to yourself: "It's nothing, I just need to do my best, what others think is someone else's business, as long as I have a clear conscience, everything will be fine" When others evaluate you, try to keep a smile.
Don't worry too much about the result, isn't it often said that a good result will make people happy, but only the process is more important, want to open some.
Exercise yourself often, challenge yourself, have the courage to express yourself, and have confidence.
3.In fact, a person's behavior shows a person's personality, and if he wants to change his behavior, he must first correct his psychological thinking in order to permanently change his behavior. The method is very simple, let him participate in boys' group sports more, or individual fitness sports, get more contact with the man's world, and it is better to stay away from girls more during the correction phase.
4.Try not to think about the consequences of things, maybe the consequences are not as serious as you think, and exercise regularly.
Be able to make yourself bolder.
5.Just relax your overly strong self-esteem a little!
6.I'm that kind of person, but as long as I don't care about anything and work hard, I'm not afraid of anything once or twice!
7.Do more things that you didn't dare to do before and want to do, without hurting others.
8.Exercise more.
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