Going from passive to active is who loses more

The difference between men and women is that when a man doesn't get a woman, he tries his best to please a woman, but after he gets it, he takes everything for granted. And women are very passive at the beginning, because they will not give their feelings easily, but once they pay, they fall deeper and deeper. Therefore, whoever loves more must be controlled by whom.

Do you want to spend your whole life looking downstairs and looking upstairs? When a man begins to neglect you, resolutely leave him, don't give up on a man who doesn't know how to cherish you, and don't continue to give up your tenderness and love.

What does it mean to be giving? If you are willing to give up——— you will gain and lose!!

In fact, emotional things are the most difficult to explain in the world, even if you can explain clearly, but people's hearts are very stubborn, the truth is in front of you, if you don't want to accept it, God can't do anything about you, for feelings, others are helpless bystanders, ask yourself, the answer to all questions can be found in your heart, you can ask this question, it proves that you have begun to think, has been better than that"Confused love"One step forward! Go ask yourself, I hope you understand!

And tell you in advance, the more you understand love, the less you can love, if you love him, he also loves you, don't think about it, don't be!

Such a man may be a boyfriend, but he is not suitable to be a husband.

It seems that you are deeper than him, as far as you said, I think this man is deliberate, now many people are easily tired of getting things after getting their hands, maybe at first because of the man's self-esteem drove him to take the initiative, and the initial freshness after getting it was lost, in fact, you can also try to get rid of this situation, you don't need to entangle with him for that pointless face, I want to know if he is serious, you have to break up with him seriously to see the truth! But seeing that you said that he was indifferent after you broke up, I think you have wronged yourself a little, even if you take the initiative in the future and how much you accommodate him, it will be useless! Why torture yourself so much, cherish yourself and others will cherish you!

In the world of emotions, taking the initiative can sometimes lead to a passive trembling, and even if you are too proactive, you have lost the initiative. At the next time, you must understand that feelings are different from other things, and sometimes, the more you demand, the easier it is to make yourself fall into a passive situation, because one party is too active, and it is especially easy to make the other party feel that you are inferior, so as to have the idea of not cherishing it, and then it will naturally no longer be good to you. Especially when your initiative forms a habit, it can indeed enhance the relationship between each other at the beginning, but gradually the other party will stop giving, and be completely in a state of enjoyment and mastery of everything, at this time the relationship is most likely to have problems, and you will become a loser.

To take the initiative is to have responsibility, belong to one's own business, do not push, do not wait, do not rely on, start in advance, carefully analyze the details of things, seek things first, in the process of doing, take the initiative, be bold and careful, meticulous, this is the attitude of doing things, but also the attitude of life! Here it is said that Chi Liang's passivity is not really passive, the method of doing things, the strategy of being a person, the people and things facing different things, the situation is different, the time and space are different, and the attitude of taking or active or passive is the choice of the situation.

Summary. Active relationships include friends, lovers, spouses, classmates, colleagues, etc. In this kind of relationship, both parties communicate because they like each other, and they interact because they appreciate each other, so in this kind of interaction, we are happy and we feel very happy.

Passive relationships, I think, are those that we don't like but have to.

Active relationships include friends, lovers, spouses, classmates, colleagues, etc. In this kind of relationship, the two parties communicate because they like each other, and they interact with each other for mutual appreciation, so in this kind of exchange, we are happy and happy. Passive relationships, I think, are those that we don't like but have to.

Fellow, I really didn't understand, I can be more specific.

Active and passive are relative, and the two are interdependent liquid systems! In life, you don't speak, others take the initiative to speak, you are passive, and others belong to the initiative. There is no good or bad between active and passive, because good and bad posture depends on the specific situation!

Some people like to take the initiative to cause trouble, or some people will take the initiative to make a big fuss.